Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

I have a cousin who is 19 years old that needs help. Ive seen him grow up, in fact he is the only cousin I can remember almost everything he did as a child. I can remeber as far back as the delivery and what complications his mom went threw to give him life.Now he could loose his life from drugs! He was such a good kid! What happened to him? Why would he choose this life? I heard he was on meth and he is quit violent at times. what is there to do? Any help please?

2007-11-05 16:43:51 · 24 answers · asked by Happy Girl 2 in Family

Its not like they need anything in particular.But I want to give them something which they can enjoy together.Its on December 12th so please help.The only thing I have considered so far is to send both of them for a small vacation.

2007-11-05 16:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by rahbernazir 2 in Weddings

Can a married man stay faithfull after 12 years of being married, 2 daughters and having two affairs?

2007-11-05 16:42:17 · 21 answers · asked by Good Moma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I performed oral sex on my significant other and have a rip roaring sore throat. we've both been tested and neither of us have any stds. the last time i've done this i got a sore throat too. but all the other times i've been fine. we're both rezzy and he wasn't as clean as he could have been. Is my sore throat connected to performing oral sex?

2007-11-05 16:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by Becca Kallestewa 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so guilty as i have a perfect marriage with nice kids!!Honestly i dont think the houseguest thinks the same!there is a 10 year difference between us.Please friends advice!!

2007-11-05 16:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by Kisses an Wishes 4 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday I found out that my grandfather died (he killed himself) my fiance kissed another girl, and I almost got hit by a car, i also watched two people die in the car crash.
why am I happier than I have been all year?
my fiance has been amazing and I honestly feel he is sorry, I dont believe in once a cheat always a cheat, because I have cheated in past relationships and I would never cheat on him.
but why am I happy am I going to crash soon?!! ahh this is weird I cant stop smiling and I have been depressed all year!

2007-11-05 16:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by chipped finger nails 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married 16 years.

We have five beautiful children.

How can i tell him that NONE of the kids are his?
I have to tell him now.
He thinks they are all his kids.

2007-11-05 16:39:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 24yrs old and i dont know what to do with my life. i dont like school and i have a good life but i know it can get better i dont know what to do. everday i wake up something in my soul screams CHANGE but i dont know what it is. i have some student loans and did not finish school. i dont want no more time to pass without me doing something. i have no kids so before i have kids i would like to have my life together........

WHAT SHOULD I DO.... SOME ONE HELP ME MAKE A DECISSION ON MY FUTURE!!!!!!

P.S. If you know someone who can help me let me know!!!!

2007-11-05 16:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by WildFlower 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 16:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by margie 1 in Weddings

been giving advise on heartbreak to so many folks on answers... today i face it myself and its so tough to deal with.... any advise ...????

2007-11-05 16:37:03 · 1 answers · asked by who ?? 6 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyone else out there, women or men, that dont want children? I feel like im the only one sometimes. I love children, and dont mind taking care of them/watching them, i dont hate kids, i just dont want any.

2007-11-05 16:35:19 · 3 answers · asked by ♣Kellina♣ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so my brother is 18 and i am 16 he is constantly picking on me, every single day and i just cant deal with it anymore sometimes it is so bad that i just about want to cry, and apparently i always start the violence because when he makes me mad i am so angry i cant think straight so my reaction is hitting him, however he does not stop the violence he just escaldes it and hits me harder back, my parents say just to ignore it (not the violence, what he says to me) and that he is only doing it because he knows it pushes my buttons, i have tried to ignore it but it is just so hard to sometimes what do you do when your older siblings pick on you? also it makes me feel even worse when my mom is around when we are fighting especially after the fight we just had because she said "why dont we all just say we hate each other" and we dont hate each other it is just that we get on each others nerves sometimes and i just feel really bad that this is how my mom percieves it

2007-11-05 16:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She was being molested by her older brother (age 17) and her dad said maybe the girls could stay with him for awhile; he won't take the boy. We're awaiting the guidance from child protective services, but if they suggest that we have the kids live apart, their dad will likely say he will take the girls. Beyond the horrific pain of being in this situation, do you think that if I have her and her sister stay with their dad for a time, the 6-year-old will feel like I abandoned her? Or that she is somehow being punished or banished because she told on her brother? Of course I want to do what's best for the kids (all of them), but never in my worst nightmare did I ever think I'd be considering having any of my kids live apart from me, even temporarily. Any ideas?

2007-11-05 16:30:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-05 16:30:27 · 27 answers · asked by Paul Sanchez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and partying. Nothing below the waist. Underwear on but some pretty heavy making out. Is that to far to fast ? 37 f. Now I wanna make him wait to do the deed. Or I am afraid he'll just disappear, or use me for sex. He's coming over to watch a movie Wed. night.Help.

2007-11-05 16:28:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

step by step detail would help

2007-11-05 16:28:12 · 2 answers · asked by Lea Laydee 1 in Weddings

I have been single for four years and it was by choice. Now I'm just getting lonely. I have had a bad day and I just want someone, you know.

2007-11-05 16:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we dont want anything from each other, there is no children. we both just want to sign the paper and get if over. is there a easier way to handle it rather then all the paper work?

2007-11-05 16:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Give me specifics on what you did or had to deal with. Thanks.

2007-11-05 16:24:45 · 7 answers · asked by Luis LU 1 in Marriage & Divorce

between a big, traditional wedding in a church or a fun and exciting wedding in Las Vegas, which would you prefer?

2007-11-05 16:23:14 · 21 answers · asked by Madeline Rae 3 in Weddings

If youre in a long term relationship with guy, and he writes a letter to you, why would you not respond to him, is it because youve been in this long term relationship with him, that you'll rather talk to him in person instead of on a letter?

2007-11-05 16:21:41 · 23 answers · asked by dgh 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's the question. I've been on lots of firsts and a few second dates.
What do ya do on the 3 and 4th. Guys what are your expectations of sex, making out, etc?How soon? How fast? If looking to turn it into a relationship? And not just a F**K, per se?

2007-11-05 16:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 16:17:15 · 21 answers · asked by margie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

am having a long distance relationship my bf always claim to get tired after an hour if am lucky but most of the time only 30 min of talking to me on the phone he say he he loves me and whats to marry me but i mean if you really love someone 30min to an hour should not be enough for you.you but when it comes to drinking with his friend he can stay up LATE

2007-11-05 16:15:56 · 28 answers · asked by victoria 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i get my husband to get off the couch and go to the bathroom?

He wet the coach yesterday when he was watching football.

2007-11-05 16:13:19 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am wanting to move from Louisiana to Texas for better schools, job and cheaper housing. I have recently been approved for a house loan. The problem is I dont know what to do regarding my 8 yr old daughters biological father. We were given joint custody with me being domiciallary parent 4 yrs ago but we havent seen or heard from him in over a year. He hasnt paid support in 3 yrs. The states child enforcement has my case and they cant find him. They cant arrest him b/c they cant serve him. He is considered "missing" by choice.

Let me stress here - I will never allow my child to go near him until she is grown and makes that decision on her own. She has shown signs of sexual abuse but I havent nor do I want to go there right now. He is a drunk and Im not sure if he is on drugs but I would think so. She has transformed since he has been out of her life.

2007-11-05 16:11:53 · 5 answers · asked by spoildrotn 2 in Family

Ugh. He just turned 20 and she is 18. He's in the military and they've been "a couple" for 5 months. However 1 of those months they each spent with someone else. (he thought she was it too) That was a whole month ago. Anyway, she has at least a few more years of college a head of her and he has a few more years of the military. Her mother is even all for it. (even being nice to lend her engagement ring for him to use to purpose) What in the hell are these three thinking? I'm actually embarassed for them. Should I just keep my mouth shut and let it be or be a Mom and let them all know what I think?

2007-11-05 16:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i turned how old 10 minutes ago?

2007-11-05 16:08:54 · 43 answers · asked by AMAZING 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-05 16:08:12 · 18 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom was getting really angry one night and kept lashing out on me. Then my other younger brother idk was just being a little 13 year old boy and messing around with his friend. He was cussing and being a little brat, honestly nothing out of the ordinary of a 13 year old boy. So she went off on him and lashed out on him. She said that he was disrespectful and out of control because he does this... Then my dad was ease dropping and butted in and started going off on my 13 year old brother and kicked him and started yelling at his face in a corner. I could not believe it! I absolutely felt horrible for him(my brother). My younger brother slammed his door and kicked it then started yelling he wanted to kill himself. I feel so bad for him! I got really upset at them and told them it was rediculous what they did. So basically they got really mad at me, cursed at me and told me that I was disrespectful.Then i said i will move out and they said well fine wont pay for anything.school etc.

2007-11-05 16:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by ashley 3 in Family