2007-11-05 16:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by margie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Your future marriage plans and your future partner should be your first concern. Hopefully, your fiancee will grow on your dad in time, but sometimes that's not always possible. What's important is that you are deeply connected to this person. Getting married is not like shopping for a pair of shoes or something. If you're definitely in love and you know in your heart that this man is THE ONE for you, you may have to play go-between for awhile, until your dad comes to trust that this is the right guy for you. But you can't really satisfy everyone, friends, family, etc. all of the time. If you know for certain that he's the right guy, then all else will follow! I hope your boyfriend is trying his best to make a good impression on your dad. If he truly cares for you, that should concern him as well. If he's not reaching out as sincerely as he should be, I'd hold off on rushing into marriage. Your dad could also be seeing things about him that you're not. Time reveals all, so try not to rush things for yourself and most of all, be clear to yourself, that this is the right thing to do for you, not someone else.
2007-11-05 17:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long you've been together. maybe you can be more traditional and have your bf ask your dad for permission. maybe they can go out for beers or hang out one night to bond and he can ask him. this way it will give the ball in your dads court and hopefully build the relationship between them. otherwise wait it out. be prepared for him to say no tho if your dad is a full on stubborn man, but i hope he knows to put your wants before his own.
2007-11-06 00:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why he doesn't like him. Is it simply that no one is good enough for his little girl or are there issues he has a right to be concerned about.
Maybe get them together for dinner on occasion so he can get to know him and see his good points.
2007-11-06 00:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am getting married in May and my dad doesn't like my fiance. He wants me to get back with my ex-husband. It is your life, do what makes you happy.
2007-11-06 10:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is going to be good enough for yoou hes your dad, ask him why tho he may well see something seriously wrong, listen to him no one will ever love you like tour dad
2007-11-06 00:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by becvns@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋