yesterday I found out that my grandfather died (he killed himself) my fiance kissed another girl, and I almost got hit by a car, i also watched two people die in the car crash.
why am I happier than I have been all year?
my fiance has been amazing and I honestly feel he is sorry, I dont believe in once a cheat always a cheat, because I have cheated in past relationships and I would never cheat on him.
but why am I happy am I going to crash soon?!! ahh this is weird I cant stop smiling and I have been depressed all year!
2007-11-05 16:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by chipped finger nails 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just maybe you are realizing that things could always be much worse. Sorry about your grandfather's passing.
2007-11-05 16:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You finally realized that bad things happen to good people and that you are not the only one with problems. Your problems seem very insignificant to the fact that the other two people are dead. I had a caller at work one day start complaining about their life and things happening. I asked if she would like to trade. I had just had back surgery, my wife was diagnosed with cancer, my wife's grandmother had just died several months earlier, my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimers(I am an only child), my Dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer and at this point the woman stopped me and said no thank you. I will just keep my life. She said maybe I just need to be thankful I am not you.
don't worry, by happy.
2007-11-06 00:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's part of a defense mechanism our minds will do when we can't handle things, and you had quite a bit in one day. It's called denial. It will slowly change, and your mind will let you cope with these things one at a time. Don't force anything, let it happen as it should.
Meditation and quiet time will be a good thing for you in the next several weeks. Hot baths, sleep, and soothing music. Hope this helps.
2007-11-06 01:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might juts be light euphoria- al ot of things are happenig all at once- you may very well want to look out of for a crash. IF yur fiancee is being the one like he should be to repair trust, use him to fall on, he should do that anyway. All this may have focused you on hwo fortunate you really are too.
2007-11-06 00:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that is a little strange. Maybe you are bi-polar? The car crash thing is what really gets me. I would be bummed for awhile. Weird. Oh well, enjoy it while it lasts!!!
2007-11-06 00:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is weird. You might be perfectly fine. However you might crash and be aware because it could come and hit hard. Good Luck hope the good mood stays!
2007-11-06 00:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we're at our best when everything is going to sh*t. It just all becomes so insane that it's not worth being upset about. Sort of freeing really. Enjoy it while it lasts!
2007-11-06 00:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its your way of dealing with things.. its ok to feel what ever you want. and so sorry for your loss of your grandfather. good luck
2007-11-06 00:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not funny at all. I think you are not well. You should see a doc.
2007-11-06 00:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Edith E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i recon.?
2007-11-06 01:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋