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im 24yrs old and i dont know what to do with my life. i dont like school and i have a good life but i know it can get better i dont know what to do. everday i wake up something in my soul screams CHANGE but i dont know what it is. i have some student loans and did not finish school. i dont want no more time to pass without me doing something. i have no kids so before i have kids i would like to have my life together........

WHAT SHOULD I DO.... SOME ONE HELP ME MAKE A DECISSION ON MY FUTURE!!!!!!

P.S. If you know someone who can help me let me know!!!!

Answer 1

you just need to relax and realize its ok the way you are and if you do change or a opportunity comes along that's okay too. You said it yourself you have a good life and you are starting to realize what you like and don't like its perfectly fine that you don't like school so its okay to sit back and do nothing or just start asking yourself if i could be or go any place what would it be, dream a little and dream big because you can do it.

Answer 2

I hate to tell you this, but even when you decide what you want to do with your life, that idea might change again. So don't think that whatever you do needs to be a permanent decision. This might take off some of the pressure to choose the right thing.

Did you not like school when you were first in college? Because sometimes as we get older, we come to appreciate it a bit more. You might want to get your feet wet in some venture. There are sometimes classes offered by local community centers on money-making opportunities. They're usually one-day seminars that help tell you how to do this or how to do that. It can be one way to dabble in something interesting, or at the very least decide that it's something you wouldn't want to do.

If it's fun you want to have, make a list of all the fun attainable goals that you have for your life. Go through them one by one and try to reach those goals. Is it traveling? Is it going out more with friends? Figure out what will make you happy and then do those things more often.

Answer 3

Change is good... I'm a person that loves change... I get bored very easily. Whether I change my house, my job or whatever... you need to do one of those....

What about taking on a sport? Or hobby? Or get involved in something in the community... events, put together a concert or festival, or anything else that might interest you?

I truely think you are just bored. So try one of the above. Hope that helps :)

Answer 4

Recommend you do some career/interest tests to learn what your passion is and then try to work in that field. If it requires more training, do it. Visit your college counselor for info. Also check online and see if there any free career/interest tests.

Go to church, make new friends in the field you are pursuing. Find a mentor who can advise you and whom you can respect and admire.

You are right to get everything sorted out before marriage and children.

Joy to you!

Answer 5

Go and see pain and misery. Do volunteer work with some animal shelter or an emergency ward of a hospital.
Sometimes reality check helps to orient ourselves correctly.

Answer 6

Most people dont know what they wanna be when they grow up. We often know what we DONT wanna do.
So what do you ENJOY doing? Once you discover what that is, then go for it! And getting paid to do something you enjoy is merely the icing on the cake! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

decide what you like to do that really makes you happy and then make it your career. the rest will follow.

Answer 8

Only God can. He will direct you to your destiny!