and partying. Nothing below the waist. Underwear on but some pretty heavy making out. Is that to far to fast ? 37 f. Now I wanna make him wait to do the deed. Or I am afraid he'll just disappear, or use me for sex. He's coming over to watch a movie Wed. night.Help.
2007-11-05 16:28:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you mean HELP?
you got yourself into this, you should figure it out.
we cant PREDICT whats going to happen on wednesday, so just see what happens & do what feels comfortable to you.
2007-11-05 16:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wait and it he disappears, he is just there to use you for sex. you need to watch the drinking or the next time you may not be so lucky. To find the right person you have to have a lot of friends and you don't need one who drinks that much or you may end up with a husband who does that also every night.
Wednesday night, if he gets too frisky, put a stop to it fast and tell him that you had too much to drink on that second date and you want to slow down a bit until you know each other better. If you are afraid he will just disappear, perhaps you need to raise your self esteem before you start looking for a man in your life. Read things like as a man thinketh or other motivational books and do thinks to make you feel better about yourself.
2007-11-05 16:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bed! A couch! Yet you both sleep on the bed. Too far too fast. Invite some other friends over to watch the movie with you on Wednesday, then walk and talk. Get to know him.
2007-11-05 16:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about how you dont want to have sex yet. Honestly, drinking loosens everyones inhibitions, it happens. If he disappears than he isnt worth it, and if you dont wait until your comfortable, you'll regret sleeping with him. Good luck. Just dont drink during the movie, it'll help keep you firm on not going any farther than you want.
2007-11-05 16:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a grown woman I hope he is a grown man (not talking about age) talk to him & tell him what's on your mind & ask him to do the same. Communication is the one thing you two have to do if you want things to grow as friends or more than friends.
Good luck I'm sure you know what to do.
2007-11-05 16:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my advice.....dont let there be drinking involved.
2007-11-05 16:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋