am having a long distance relationship my bf always claim to get tired after an hour if am lucky but most of the time only 30 min of talking to me on the phone he say he he loves me and whats to marry me but i mean if you really love someone 30min to an hour should not be enough for you.you but when it comes to drinking with his friend he can stay up LATE
2007-11-05 16:15:56 · 28 answers · asked by victoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound very young and immature. Why would you consider marrying someone who drinks so much? He does not sound like good husband or good father material. You both have growing up to do.
2007-11-05 16:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its the fact that u arnt close enough....
see this is how men works...
if they know that ur close so that they can get to u they will talk for hours on end bc they wanna be with u...hold u and kiss u...if ur apart they think ahh I'll talk alittle while just to make her happy...but this is the reason I say long distance relation ships dont work bc of the not being close enough to touch factor....if ur in love u wanna b able to smell, kiss...be held and what not...if ur apart...its ahh w/e....in the terms of this speaking...he could have u as a loney partner what I mean by this is...he has u when he is loney...ur on the side....get it?
I hope Ive helped!
lots of love!
2007-11-05 16:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by fufu16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My g/f and I have a long distance relationship. We talk a few times throughout the day but no more than 15 minutes each time.
I think an hour is a little excessive.
2007-11-05 16:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Danger 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It all really depends. Long distance relationships can be hard to maintian. Personally I feel as if that would be enough time for me, but everyone, and every relationship is different. You should tell your BF how it makes you feel when you only talk for 30 or so minutes
2007-11-05 16:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Marissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a key of having a lasting relationship.
Dump him before he dumps you. Maybe he will realize how important you are once you set him free. If he comes back then he is yours, if not then he is not the one for you. You deserve someone better, someone who will give you his time, spend his time talking with you rather that drinking with his buddy, you deserve all his attention, you desreve someone who will treasure you most, who will be happy and energized upon hearing your lovely voice.
Just kidding, you have the reason to get upset, but try to talk with him, tell him how you truly feel. Maybe he will have a change of heart.
Goodluck! Stay faithful...
2007-11-05 16:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Soop3rNLuVkJB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...kinda...but then...kinda not. Did you try asking him point blank why he does that? Tell him that him spending time with his friends and talking to you for only 30 min. to an hour is not fair. It makes you feel like his friends come before you. Even though he might not mean to hurt you he is. Let him know that. Talk to him. But remember don't scream or yell. Just ask and talk.
Sometimes relantionships aren't meant to be if you're contemplating how to tell him or ask him something. Good Luck
2007-11-05 16:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong to get mad.... make him miss you too... long distance relationship doesn't work sometimes because there's no physical intimacy which is important in a relationship. Misunderstanding can happen cause you may misinterpret what he said and if u start to argue it's hard to patch things up just by calling... unless ur into phonesex or cyber hehehe... then that's a different story.... :)
2007-11-05 16:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by makulit na pinay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got outta a long distance realationship. he was cheating on me.. all guys are different but i would be carefull hun before you know it your heart might be broken. It seems hes just talking to you for that half hour making you hold onto him the feelings you have for him and by saying he loves you and wants to marry you hes making you think he does and making you hold on while hes with his buddies or even other chicks
2007-11-05 16:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two different activities. First requires involvement, but second needs only an object. Ever wonder if drinking is followed after the thirty minute talking with you. Just kidding.
2007-11-05 16:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Krishna N. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch that's a hard one, I think that if the conversation keeps flowing he should be able to continue talking, but if it's a bunch of slience and 'what are you watching on tv' stuff that I think he's justified in getting off the phone. It just depends, I'm sure he still loves you, do you do the calling or does he? Or both?
2007-11-05 16:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by boiler4ever2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are hard... try to keep in mind that woman have 5000 words a day to say, and men only 2500. think of him working, talking to family and friends, so on, so at the end of the day he may be out of words. try making your conversation time at a different time of day, say in the afternoon or morning, and see if he has more sweet nothings to whisper in your ear then.
2007-11-05 16:21:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋