2007-11-05 16:30:27 · 27 answers · asked by Paul Sanchez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Call that show Cheaters! Let them air it for the whole world to see. Then his wife finds out and most likely so will the company.
All these people saying "NO! Don't get involved. Don't tell the wife." Blah!
If the tables were turned and the shoe was on the other foot, they'd all be wanting to know the truth.
It is YOUR girlfriend who is cheating, therefore it is YOUR business. You have every right to make a scene. Just do it with some class and you'll be the one on top.
2007-11-05 17:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Yes, I would want to know if I was his wife. What if this jerk has an std-this probably isn't the 1st time he's cheated. The wife needs to know just as you do. As for the company-that's up to you. For those who said to myob-she's your girlfriend so it Is your business. I'm sorry you are going through this.
P.S. and definitely lose the girlfriend. the relationship will never be the same & she'll most likely do it again.
2007-11-05 16:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
How cheating is cheating since she is only a girlfriend? Do you live together? Are you planning to marry her? If this was only temporary anyway then who cares?
As for me, I would just find another girlfriend. Then maybe I would send the wife an anonimous card telling her that she should check out her husband and his activities. But I would not name any names because the if the girlfriend finds out it was you she might be looking for revenge. Maybe you could ask the wife out on a date.
NEW IDEA!!! Go to the Christmas office party. Dance with the wife. If she has had a couple of drinks, ask her if she has any suspicions about her husband and your girlfriend but do it subtly. If she knows or suspects, then ask her if she would like revenge with you. Then you could keep the girlfriend, and the wife a secret and have the last laugh doing both of them. You never know, the wife might be looking for a boyfriend anyway.
2007-11-05 16:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋
i recently found out my bf was seeing a married woman (before dating me). I would never tell her husband, he's a good guy and doesn't deserve the pain. It's not your business, you're not married and neither is she. You may want to tell but it won't do any good...leave her and laugh later when she's alone or his wife finds out (she WILL find out, it's a matter of time).
2007-11-05 19:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by laura1977 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you tell you'll come off as the bad one. End it with her. Let her affair run its course they'll be found out in the end. Best you can do is forget about her and move on. Revenge may be sweet but not always the best option.
2007-11-05 17:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Paul, if you were a woman asking this, then all this lil girls would be saying yes, cut their throats, the cheating dog, but since it is one of theirs, they say no, but, I would take pictures send them to the company and the wife, expose the whole deal, that is what she would do to you in a second and you better believe it.
2007-11-05 16:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by rosie p 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Rosie P is right. You go expose them! Give them hell.
G/f, married, de facto........ who care? you are involve with her and that gives you the right to be angry.
Give the boss's wife a nice card. Give ou ex-GF a nice flick. Some call it Revenge....BAAAAAAD.
I call it Karma start NOW.........GOOOOOOOOOOOOOD.
2007-11-05 20:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by bundy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I was clueless and there was no doubt that my husband was messing around behind my back, as much as it would hurt, I would want to know. I would want to know so I could plan the rest of my life, either improve the marriage or not. Also, I would deserve to know so I could protect myself from potential STD's. Anyway, what if the gf got pregnant?
Dump your gf, bc you deserve better too!
2007-11-05 16:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Contemplative 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you got a problem with your girlfriend, break it off. If you start spouting your mouth, you better be able to prove it in a court of law because you can get sued for slander, even if your right. The accused will try to defend themselves in any way they see fit.
2007-11-05 16:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't stoop to her level by telling her boss's wife and her company.
The best and dignified way is to politely dump her. You need a better girl and your time is too valuable to try and spend on getting information to your girlfriend's boss's wife and et al.
May God give you strength!
2007-11-05 16:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋