2007-11-05 14:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
asking her out, then not being a jerk
2007-11-07 07:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Josh's Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, NEVER use the word "courtship" - it's NOT the 1800's anymore ;);););)
And MOST important - there is NO such thing as a "perfect" way to win a girl's heart (or whatever parts you may be interested in). EVERY girl responds to different things - and trying too hard USUALLY ends in failure...
Just be YOURSELF - and you will attract the RIGHT sort of girl :):)
2007-11-05 22:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't rush things.
2. Find out her likes and dislikes. Plan activities accordingly.
3. Find out what kind of music she likes. Gift her with a CD that you've made special for her.
4. Be a good listener.
5. Communicate, but not on stalker level.
6. Sincere compliments are always nice.
7. Cook her one of her favorite meals.
8. It won't kill you to watch a chick flick, as long as she reciprocates to watch something you like.
9. Flowers are always nice. They don't have to be extravigant or expensive.
10. Put her needs first.
2007-11-05 22:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jill J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Do not use words like "courtship"
2. Wear tight pants that show off your large package
2007-11-05 22:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1) Patience. Immediately walking up to a girl and saying: "You're hot. Let's go out." gives bad results.
2) Courage. You'll never end up with someone if you never get the guts to talk to them.
3) Respect. Remember that your crush is a human being, with their own thoughts and emotions.
Above all, take it slow, don't act desperate, and don't choke!
2007-11-05 22:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Skunk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, son. Don't be shy, and crack a joke once in a while. There's nothing technical to it.
Also make sure you've showered and brushed your teeth and such. That always helps.
2007-11-05 22:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas F 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure her into anything and always listen to her.Tell her you like her shoes. Girls love that.Have a lot of patience.Let her know you are always there for her. Don't lie,and be faithful, and you will win her over.
2007-11-05 22:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by oocm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no steps. go for spontaneity, whatever pops up (keep it appropriate. if your perverted, chances are she'll smack you) sweet. sensitive. outgoing. sincere. faithful. trusting. patient. understanding. not pressuring. girls like that. above all-be yourself.
theres no manual for it. girls are too complicated for that. =]
2007-11-05 22:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
(1) Acquire wealth.
And you're done! Once you're rich, you'll find that it's nearly impossible *not* to court a girl successfully.
2007-11-05 22:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you ask her daddy if you can take her out. Then find out what is expected of you and the rules of her daughter. Don't bend or violate any of the rules.
2007-11-05 22:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by logsdodl 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋