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Question

i have a friend who use to talk to me alot and i use to go to his house and hang out with him and my other friends but now he dosen't talk to me alot and he talks to my other friends alot more then he use to talk to me i ask him wats up why don't you talk to me like you use to he said nothing instrusting to talk about so i want to know is something going woung i have another friend who does not know the friend i am typing about he told me that i am lame so now do i have to consider my self lame

Answer 1

In our life, we meet many people. Some will become distant friends and some friends for life. Some come and go, but are always remembered.

Don't let anyone tell you and you believe that you are lame. Just because a few people do not have the same interests as you, or decide to find newer friends does not make you lame.

You are special just the way God made you. You can consider him an acquaintance. You don't have to be best friends with him. You can be polite. You can find other friends who will be good friends. Try volunteering. You will meet many people and put smiles on their faces. You will also know in your heart that you are doing good and have a smile in your heart.

You can move on to another part of your life. You can be there for your friend if they want to talk in the future. Just be yourself. Do not ever change for anyone except yourself. Be who you are. True to yourself. Everyone meets people that may be a short time friend, or a long time friend. Some are just friends if they stay away. Not everyone will like you or some of the things you do. It doesn' t make you a bad person. I will say some prayers for you.

Continue to meet other people. You are not lame. Best wishes to you.

Answer 2

I remember this happening when I was younger, it's just a phase. If he is not a "close" friend don't worry about it. But if you have been friends for quite a while, try to get to the bottom of what is really wrong. Do your other friends think you are lame? Doesn't even matter, if someone doesn't like you for you, you don't need them. I learned after I got out of high school, no one really mattered, what you were labeled ( prep, jock, nerd etc..) I don't really care about the 10 points, this just made me think of how an old friend and I used to do. We would fight this week, then one day we would be stuck in a group where we were the only ones who knew each other so we had to get along, and so on and on.. Don't let it get you down..

Answer 3

WOW.. CONFUSING!!!


Oh my Goodness!!.. Look, if this guys can't tell you why he does not talk to you anymore than obviously you were not as close as you thought.. people sometimes just grow apart. That may be what happened. If you did something that pissed him off he should be grown enough to tell you what you did wrong. But seeing as though he can't do that then figure it his loss. I would not worry about it. Either it will come out eventually or the two of you have just grow apart.. it happens.. Sorry.. everyone has been there.. even girls!

Good Luck!!...

PS.. your not lame.. you have to stop worrying about that other people think about you! Be you.. that should be good enough.. if you want o ask a question on Y/A big deal! we all do!!...

Answer 4

No, you don't have to, no real reason to. Judging by what you've typed out here, it seems like he may have "discovered" something (He might have heard some crazy rumor) or you may have offended him in some way and you didn't realize it. Probably the best thing is to convince him to sit down with you and talk it over more or less. Other than that, there's not a whole lot to go by unless he has lost interest in talking to you for some reason (Personality change, rumor thing again, etc etc)

Answer 5

First off, you are not lame, it is common to get a little worked up when you feel you might be losing a friend. Just work at it a little, find out what he is interested in now, as people get older their interests change, chances are the same has happened and now things that used to be interesting are just boring and he lost interest. I don't think he doesn't like you, just maybe doesn't like the things you are interested in and therefore doesn't find as much reason to talk to you.

Answer 6

First: You are not lame. So no, don't consider it.
Second: Don't accept avoidance. Get him to stick around and seriously talk it out. Tell him you're worried. Get him to tell you what is up! No excuses. And if something is wrong, and he blames you, apologies always help. Even when you don't have to apologize. Friendships are patched a whole lot quicker this way.
-Seriously Best of Luck! (I've been here, and it sucks)

Answer 7

Of course not!!! don't let silly insults like that get you down. As for your friend you might just have to move on, friends will come and go in life, so just hang out with your other friends, and forget about all of this.

Answer 8

no man ur not lame, just go up to the kid, be stern and serious and tell him to be a man and give u a straight answer. if he doesnt, then forget about him and find another buddy. ive been there man, true friends wont do that to you, and good luck!!

Answer 9

Its not lame. One of my friends did that to me and I told him that if he couldn't tell me what was wrong then why are we friends. If he can't tell me why he wont talk to me as much then we cant be true friends cause if your my true friend you would tell what was bothering him and after i told him that he told me why he didnt want to talk to me as much. Just talk to your friend and tell him that a true friend would tell you what is bothering them instead of trying to keep it inside. Yes i know it shounds mushy but it works

Answer 10

NO JUST KUZ SOME 1 CALLS U LAME DOESNT MEAN U HAVE 2 CONSIDER URSELF LAME??

TALK 2 HIM...A REAL CONVERSATION....