I had a brief sexual relationship with this guy for a few months.It was something that just happened wasn't meant to but did.He happened to be the best friend of an associate of mine(which is a girl).I asked him beforehand, if he thought it wuld be a problem with her, and I asked him would it effect their friendship, he assured me that it wouldn't because they were just close friends from junior high school.Anyhow, he broke it off with me, he said that he didn';t like me anymore, and that if I called him again he would tell everyone my business.I said okay no problem.The very next day his best friend calls me(keep in mind I haven't heard from her in eight months) to volunteer at an event that he was hosting.I never returned her call, so now when i see her she doesn't speak to me, she looks at the ground and ignores me, when I see him he doesn;'t speak to me as well,however I did run into him and he smiled at me and called me over to him so that "we can talk" but I told him I had to go.
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but as far as his friend she ignores, me I tried to reach out to her and wishe her happy birthday"! and I even tried to wish her congratulations on her win at a concert, but all I get is snubbed..and so now I'm wondering did I do something wrong? Truthful answers needed
2007-11-05 14:39:43 · 2 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Truthfully no one takes short sexual relationships, lightly. It doesn't work that way, what I'm seeing is a consequence of that, that you actually thought this guy could do this right. He failed you, and now your dealing with the fall-out. You best bet, treat it lightly like you met to, ignore the fools. You really don't have much of a choice, seems you already screwed up with him a little, becuase for him to say this "he broke it off with me, he said that he didn';t like me anymore, and that if I called him again he would tell everyone my business" MEANS you ether were being "clingish" or you just got burned. As you can see, sexual relatinoships are never light...... don't trust man with sex, if thats all they want leave them alone, if thats all you want, you need to grow up. Only denial makes people think sex doesn't scar. This type of situation proves that.....
2007-11-06 04:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think by not returning her call, this probably hurt her.
so what, she might potentially like your ex??
2007-11-05 14:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋