I'm an adult college student and I have a big crush on my professor (who is English, by the way). He just seems a few yrs. older. Should I tell him? It's affecting my classwork in a bad way. I think he is a little attracted to me (long story), but I don't want to start anything...maybe just a little mercy. Is it a bad idea?
2007-11-05 14:04:40 · 10 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to date him or anything like that...I'm not exactly available; but how can I focus on what he's saying when my twisted brain is focusing on him???
2007-11-05 14:14:43 · update #1
To those with the PerVerted answers, stop it, you're making me horny.
2007-11-05 15:01:46 · update #2
Concentrate on your work. If you want to see him or speak with him on a more one on one basis wait until you are out of his class b/c you may end up getting him into trouble. However, I went out with a few of my teachers, but it was always after the class was finished.
Good luck my friend.
2007-11-05 21:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by bck2liberty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you tell him AFTER you graduate or AFTER finishing a year in his class. Because for sure, it definitely will mess up your studies as well as his work. Contain your feelings towards him and act natural. Do not show any motion that he might misconstrue to be "you like me". Because believe me, if you won't show any motion that you are attracted to your prof he wont return the notion. Get me?
If things is affecting your classwork. Why not try to use "your feeling" to be your motivating factor. To be good in his class, that is. In this manner, he won't get any idea that you have a big crush towards him.
After a year or so in his class, then that would probably be the right time for you to tell him your true feelings to him. You did not only spare yourself from humiliation, you also saved him from his profession.
Goodluck.
2007-11-05 14:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Zed23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schools, including colleges usually have policies against students dating their teachers.
2007-11-05 14:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah,,, the older man, with the quaint English voice...
i suggest you worship from afar... lest your illusions be shattered... and a truth realised... be a pizza delivery person... look, smell, admire and lust after... but know that you cant have it...
2007-11-05 14:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your taken, seems you might want to think bout how this would hurt your bf. HUMANS!! we always want what we don't have and usualy it belongs to someone else. NEXT!!
SWITCH classes!
2007-11-05 15:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by skittle_goddess_2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is...concentrate on your studies....lol
it can only lead to heartache....and you know it...thats why its called a crush and not love.....
2007-11-05 14:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave the guy alone...it could only lead to bad things, he may be married?!?
2007-11-05 14:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look but don't touch,,OK,,,
2007-11-05 16:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him oral pleasure
2007-11-05 14:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Doom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋