I am tired of waiting. There is nothing wrong with me. Lets face it-I am indeed gorgeous, clever, huge personality, caring etc yet I find it soo hard to find someone who is actually worth me. People think I'm lucky because I can have anyone, but on the contrary I can have much less as my choices are limited by my pickiness and by the fact that I want someone who is just like me in all aspects. When I say just like me I mean- with looks, personality, brain etc. There are much less people like that out there. Where should I look for them? I refuse to settle for less :(
2007-11-05 13:41:35 · 48 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem like a female version of me. Wish there were more who felt this way out there.
2007-11-05 13:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yet I find it soo hard to find someone who is actually worth me. People think I'm lucky because I can have anyone, but on the contrary I can have much less as my choices are limited by my pickiness and by the fact that I want someone who is just like me in all aspects. When I say just like me I mean- with looks, personality, brain etc. There are much less people like that out there. Where should I look for them? I refuse to settle for less :(
you said it all right there, the problem is you're a stuck up Biatch and have a crappy attitude i feel sorry for some one that falls for you. you also have problems because most people are not stuck up biatches. have a nice day ***!
2007-11-05 13:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hello Sweetheart,
You might just want to tone down the cockiness a bit. It doesn't help very much if a guy gets the feeling that you are a bit too INDEPENDENT if you understand me. You need to maybe loswer some of your standards. I would love to tell you that you can find true love soon but, it's not my place. Just start getting out more and meeting new people that you might be interested. Oh and at this stage in life sweetie, playing hard to get is overrated. I don't mean to sound harsh. Good luck with this.
2007-11-05 13:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous_898 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all, it doesn't sound like you're looking for 'Mr Right', it sounds like you're looking for 'Mr Perfect', and he just doesn't exist. No one is perfect, no not even you.
If you're everything you say you are, sure some guys might be interested, but you really think you can have anyone? Since arrogance is not a very attractive attribute, I highly doubt that. I mean confidence is one thing, but you're just coming across as conceited. I would suggest you stop being such a snob and give people a chance, because no one is going to live up to your impossible standards if you expect them to be perfect.
I'm sorry if my answer sounds harsh to you, but this is my opinion. I hope you find what you're looking for.
2007-11-05 15:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Chickadee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never find anyone as good as you because you think you are the best. Maybe if you were to step down from your pedestal into the real world, you'll bump into Mr. Right .......but I doubt it because any man with even half a brain will realise just how shallow you really are and give you a very w-i-d-e berth.
2007-11-05 14:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of the men you are looking for are already taken, because unlike you, most people with the intelligence and personality that you are describing are also kind and good hearted, not a shallow black-hearted *****. Good luck finding your Mr. Right, though I doubt any Mr. Right would consider you Mrs. Right in return.
2007-11-05 13:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that instead of looking under "R" in the phonebook, you should look under "W." There are plenty of Mr. Wright's out there.
What you need to do is strike a deal with some guy that if you're both single by a certain age you'll marry each other. That way, he'll be forced to marry you even if he thinks you're an arrogant prima donna.
2007-11-05 13:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said your age, but you do sound as if you are blowing your own trumpet. Is it me or is it you think that you are above most men, because you will find it even harder to find that special someone if you think like this. I should know I have high standards myself as to what a girlfriend should be, and it makes it difficult to find someone to live up to them. By the way I am 57 and only now do I think I have found that special person.
2007-11-05 18:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres your problem right away.' LETS FACE IT, I AM INDEED GORGEOUS, CLEVER, HUGE PERSONALITY, CARING ETC ' ......if you go around with this big ego trip written all over your face, and add a huge perosnailty to it, men are going to feel threatened.....try toning it down, be more humble, modest and less forward about your intelligence...and.....try to focus on others more instead of yourself...you might find someone responds positivley to your huge personality.?
2007-11-05 14:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem really arrogant, no offense. Try giving guys more of a chance, even if you don't initially like them, go on a date with them. You can't always judge by the first impression, and if you don't, you will never have any relationships and perhaps end up lonely because you are "too good" for everyone.
2007-11-05 13:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a book you ought to read. It is called, "If I'm so Fabulous why am I Still Single?" It may help you answer some of the questions. You are right to not settle, but be open to possibilities.
2007-11-05 13:45:04 · answer #11 · answered by SpaGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋