My ex s going all crazy on me. we have a kid together, but I have moved on and am dating another guy!!! Every time I go out with my BF he calls and bugs us. I don't know what to do!! My BF and me are really close and even thinking of getting engaged sometime in the near future!! My ex is trying so hard to get me back, i tell him I don't want to go back to him. I'm scared that if I **** him off that he won't be around for our daughter!!
2007-11-05 16:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by rhianon_elizabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how u feel [tell him to stop being spoiled]
2007-11-05 16:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you should read the last answer I left. I lost my first husband shortly after I left him, he acted stupidly and selfishly. Good luck and I hope your ex doesn't do something stupid! It is SO hard on the ones left behind. But remember, if he does do something like that, IT ISN"T YOUR FAULT and PLEASE don't live with guilt, I did for the longest time. You have to be there for your daughter at that point and make sure she knows she is your priority and that IT ISN'T HER FAULT!! I hope you don't have to deal with something like that....I did and our daughter (who is 26 now with children of her own) and I still talk about it to this day. Best of luck to you Hon, remember to live your life regardless of your ex. Pls don't let his actions control you!
2007-11-06 00:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by LifesLikeThis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How crazy is crazy?
Is this guy likely to become violent?
Is he stalking you? How far is he likely to go?
He is your "ex" for a reason.
Learn to use your answering machine and cell phone features to warn you he is calling so you don't pick up, or only pick up if you want to.
If he goes out of his way to hound you, you can go back to court and tell them, and re-write his visitation rights as "supervised visitation only" so you don't have to see or deal with him.
2007-11-06 00:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him his daughter and start a new life with your bf without a kid...sheesh
2007-11-06 00:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sebamoop 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's behaving in that manner are you sure you want him to be around to influence your daughter?
2007-11-06 00:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by sterlingtears 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they have laws to protect the child from childish parents, use them.
2007-11-06 00:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋