and you haven't met that person yet....only by phone.
2007-11-05 15:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did that once and it was the biggest mistake of my life. He was okay in general but he was the biggest liar I have ever met. He thought he was going to stay at home and I work. Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid. I put him out :). I don't play that. But I did it again with somebody else and it's going wonderful. Although we were friends for awhile before he asked me to marry him.
But the question is does it really matter if you meet somebody online or offline?
I don't think so. A person in the same area you are can be more dangerous than the person you meet online. It's just a chance that you have to take. Anybody can be dangerous. It's not just the ones online but the ones you meet offline as well. I've been online since 2001 and the majority of the men I've dated were online. You just have to play smart about it. Act crazy and let them know you are not going for no crazy sh!t. Ask my fiancee. He knows. I threaten him everyday but in a good way :).
2007-11-05 16:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly.
When you either answer or lodge an advertisement for share accommodation as a house-mate, do you have any more assurance of the other party's good character than over the Internet?
Even the good recommendation of close friends of their friends can turn sour.
With extensive Internet, phone (or mail) contact it may be possible to better assess personal traits (and track origins) than advertisement respondents "bona fides" provide.
Life should be about cautious adventurism -- and accepting consequences -- rather than perpetual inhibiting paranoia.
2007-11-05 16:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by malancam55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do know that you know the answer to your questions. We are living in a real world so everything must be real. You need to get the person more in real life before letting that person live with you. Not knowing the person in real life will have lots of risk for you. Its ok to take the risk but must be a calculated risk. Im sure you're old enough to do the right thing.
2007-11-05 15:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not just because you talk to them on the net doesn't mean you know them.. This person could be a predator Just lookin for someone to steal from or hurt even. I would be really careful with any net relationships. maybe meet this person in a crowded public place a few times before rushing into anything..
2007-11-05 15:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by erin w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not live with me. I would first want to meet them in a public place and get to know and see them. def not the first time i see someone i want to say "here is my bedroom you can sleep in here" Though in some rare cases it works out like a dorm or on a search and rescue mission. But thats due to many people being around to help you if you got in a tight spot
2007-11-05 16:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like the commencing up of a few homicide tale/heartbreaking novel. No you ought to not. inspite of what he says on line, you not often understand something approximately his motives. you should be putting others in possibility looking on his motives. If he extremely needs again over right here then he will have the skill to save up the money.
2016-10-15 04:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NO..it needs process of knowing the person well before it divulge into a lot of mess later.
2007-11-05 15:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by kugay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I HAD TALKED TO A PERSON ON LINE AND OVER THE TELEPHONE FOR A LONG TIME THEN I WOULD GO WITH MY HEART YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH THEM OR NOT AND YES YOU CAN JUDGE A PERSON BY THEIR CHAT LOGS AND PHONE CONVERSATIONS ITS EASY FOR SOME ONE TO LIE TO YOU BUT ITS HARD FOR THEM TO KEEP LYING OVER A PROLONGED PERIOD OF TIME IF THEY WERE BEING DISHONEST YOU WOULD HAVE PICKED UP ON IT SO YES LET THAT PERSON MOVE IN IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU HAVE A BOND WITH THEM AND THAT YOU TRUST THEM
2007-11-05 16:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by colaone_20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. How long have you known each other?How you feel toward that person? If you invited that person over it would only mean you have faith that somehow he/she is good and that you know well enough. Trust your guts.
2007-11-05 16:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by Justine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Get to know that person in RL first before you make such a commitment. You should know who you are letting into your house.
2007-11-05 15:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by N M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋