I like this girl that I've met this year, but I can't quite figure her out. In the mornings, we would see each other and talk on the train station before school. We would never have awkwardness between us. We would talk, but not flirty talk, just general stuff. We have one class together, but we dont sit next to each other anymore (thanks to my teacher's racial desegregation), and if we see each other in the halls, sometimes she would poke or tickle me as I walk by. Once, she grabbed my cell and called her own so we'd both have each others number. The thing is, she is pretty hot, and I'm kind of a loser (if you looked at both of us in the same picture, you wouldn't believe we would be going out since I'm out of her league). Also, I believe that my friend continously hinted to her that I liked her.
So my question is, should I make a move soon since I'm afraid that she will get tired of waiting or should I become more flirty,which im not, none of my past relationships made past a week
2007-11-05 15:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by Donaldo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-05 15:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think she's just flirty in general, does she single you out, or do you think it's just from having a crush on her that you're reading more into this than there really is?
It wouldn't hurt the next time you're literally together talking, ask her something very, VERY casual -- NOT like the movies. See how it sounds when you start to saying, 'Saturday afternoon I'm planning to..." and see her answer.
Just because a girl is hot doesn't mean she's out of your league. Besides, these days, thanks to movies, etc., the "not in" guy is "in" for hot girls! LOL They're starting to see that they've got a brain in their heads and are more confident than their jerk boyfriend who's only interested in being number one!
2007-11-05 16:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend, I am not doctor love but I can give you my advice. Girls like a guy with confidence if you sit back like a little ***** the rest of your life and do nothing you are a loser no if ands or buts about it. Get to know her ask her on a date and see how it goes the worst case scenario, (she says no) there are many girls like her and all of them like confidence. However they also like sensitivity, not being a baby like you cant take a punch but that you care and you do have feelings which you arent afraid to share. Plus if she got your number she was hinting that she wants to get to know you better. Anyways my friend GOOD LUCK! and dont worry if she turns you down! It just wasnt meant to be!
2007-11-05 16:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by DarknessFalls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how old you guys are
and dont call urself a loser
well i think you should just go flat out and tell her that you like her
you can give her the option if you wanna go out but give her some time
once a guy tells a girl that he likes her and she doesnt like him back will avoid him
so if you dont get an answer give her some time
dont avoid her just give her some space
just say hi every once in a while
if she says she wants to think about it give her some space and tell her no hurry
if she says yes then go on a couple of dates then ask her to be ur gf since dating and being bf and gf are totally different
2007-11-05 16:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely make a move. You dont know whose out of your league until you go for it. You dont want to look back on high school and wished you would have went for it. You have nothing to lose. And getting your number and almost not even really asking is as aggressive as a girl is going to get when it comes to making a move first. You better do something soon........
2007-11-05 16:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move, why put it off? it is best to find out where u stand i guess,,,, and i don't like hearing that u think u r a looser,,no one is a looser, remember there is someone for everyone,,courage, that's all it takes, and what don;t kill us will make us stronger, so suck it up and just ask her out for a coke to talk or something... what do u have to loose, unless u like just being friends?? and if she is not interested in u, then b friends and move on to the next one, this is the best time of ur life,,..and try to have some confidence in urself, girls can tell if u don't have any, and we like a confident man!!!!!!!
2007-11-05 16:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jelly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with the "being more flirty" game. Just ask her out. As with so many things in life, the simplest approach is the best.
2007-11-05 16:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, make a move. What would be the worst thing that could happen? What would be the best thing that could happen? And, by the way, she thinks you're in her league or she wouldn't be so friendly with you.
Good luck
2007-11-05 16:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by deYoung 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes!! Make ur move be4 someone else does! Im sure ur not a loser and im sure she will like u back whether u end up goin out or just bein friends! Good luck!!@,@
2007-11-05 16:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking she is out of your league, be in control at all times. A friendship is always nice.
2007-11-05 15:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm what i would do is ask her to lunch or dinner or out to a movie or something. Or create a study group (cough cough... hehe j/k) if you still both have the same feelings after the movie or what not ask her to be your GF
2007-11-05 15:59:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋