ive always been weird about opening up in relationships, trying not to get hurt...The last one noticed it and i allowed myself to trust him, really thought i could. He gave me no reason not to. We had so much fun together and HE was the first one to say he loved me. He broke up with me for what appared to be no reason. Ive started dating since but cant seem to get past the fact that this last guy seemed great and turned out not to be, so why would the next one be any different?
2007-11-05 15:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lindsay - you women give your heart so easily and that's what makes you so lovable. You look so good and smell so good we become like used car salesmen and can't help it. Some salesmen are really genuine and you'll eventually come across one. You just need to inspect the tires a little better.
2007-11-05 15:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old you are - but I understand how you feel. When I was younger, I felt like that too. But it is important to know that every experience we have (good or bad) makes us who we are. When the guy is right, you won't have to beg for his attention, change your thoughts or personality.... You will be best friends, totally comfortable together. It is also important to be comfortable with who you are now - and happy being a single person. Sometimes we miss someone because they were comfortable, or we pinned all of our romantic notions on them, or think that we will never meet anyone that wonderful ever again and we will be alone forever........ Truly - I found the love of my life when I was in my 30s. I went thru a lot of relationships that I thought were it... until it really was it - it is an amazing thing. Give it time! All in God's time.
Good luck!
2007-11-05 23:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by ScoobyDoo2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to raise your self esteem perhaps and take more time to get to know the next guy before committing yourself to a relationship. If you look at body language you may be able to tell more about a person - I will give you a link for that - and you can also learn a bit about looking at their handwriting to see more about the person that way. Some of the guys you have gotten into relationships with may be picking up on the fact that you have defenses up to prevent getting hurt so it is a challlenge to them. Just be friends with a guy first and make him earn more from you, look at his body language and perhaps even his handwriting and you will eventually find the fight person for you. Good Luck!!
2007-11-05 23:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are or where you met this man. Some of us tend to feel so worthless that anyone who pays us the least bit of attention gets the whole story. Guys don't seem to want the whole thing..unless it is sex. Then they feel the woman is loose and drop her like a hot potato.
If you attend church or college, try finding someone who has several interests like yours. Go to a book store and meet someone there who is reading the same kind of books you like to read. Don't look so hard for someone. When you least expect it, someone who is right for you will show up and surprise you.
2007-11-05 23:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Suepee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would never know if you let the next guy a chance to proves to that he is different, and even could be a better one. If you never open up, then there is no way that anyone can tell you about that difference.
2007-11-05 23:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False Analogy: Assuming that because two things are alike in some aspect they are alike in other aspects.
Don't worry, not everyone is the same.
2007-11-05 23:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Donaldo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer. u dont. heartbreak is very hard to take, but it is better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all. The right guy will come and will treat u right.
2007-11-05 23:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nick4nito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets screwed over in this life, but you can't judge every guy you date on the last one because we're all different.
2007-11-05 23:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hate the ignorant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a broken picker
2007-11-05 23:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by foxehop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you seem too nice.
2007-11-05 23:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋