okay so just GIVING HIM the note was stressful enough for me, I MEAN MY HANDS WERE SHAKING and this was a big step for me. it was supposed to be from classmates to better friends and closer. and the letter wasnt like A LOVE LETTER POURING OUT MY FEELINGS FOR HIM, but it was really really really flirty and it asked him these weird fun questions like "are you part black? and how are tall are you" ( i know, its an inside joke dont laugh) and it was like a page long about other random stuff and the teacher TOOK IT after he only read ONE LINE (i heard him say this, he didnt say it to my face) but i dont get why she took it... I mean class didnt start yet when I gave it to him. I deliberatley said on the note "i dont want you to get in trouble for passing notes in class" so i gave it to him before class but she still took it. what if he thinks its a love letter?? afterclass, I walked past him and made eye contact but we both didnt know what to say to each other and just left. what do i do??
2007-11-05 15:34:54 · 37 answers · asked by I'm A Big Girl Now 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i talk to him tmr about it?? i dont want it to be weird. should i just be like "hey did you get my note yesterday?" and he says no the teacher took it and i'll say "ARE YOU SERIOUS. I HAD PERSONAL STUFF IN THERE" and he asks what, i'll tell him my weird things? but it's only funny on paper, not in person. should i just say, nothing it wasnt important?? help?!? i meant for this to be playful and fun... not a love letter
2007-11-05 15:35:05 · update #1
ask him if he got your note, if he says no, just say, "oh, oh well" and smile.
it'll leave him wanting to know more/curious about what it said.
he may even get it back for ya.
try to be more slick next time :)
2007-11-05 15:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since he doesn't know what was in the letter, you can tell him anything you want. Don't get so worked up and relax a little bit. You can tell him you wrote him some knock knock jokes, some questions about history class, a recipe for cake, anything! You have until tomorrow to make it up. Then when you see him you can say something sarcastic like, "Oh, I hope the teacher didn't laugh too hard at my knock knock jokes last night!" then laugh it off.
Just play it cool...
2007-11-05 15:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by the_dragyness 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait about a week (so everyone forgets about it) and then right a similar one at home (so you have the time to write it). Then the next day give it to him at the end of class (when you're walking out) so the biotch teacher won't take it. And then walk away from him and he'll have ~24 hours of thinking of you and maybe he'll come onto you as a close friend. IDK...That's what I'd do (i mean if i was a girl:)
2007-11-05 15:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Chase 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The teacher probably took it because he was reading it in class. If you want to tell him the same things, write another note and put it in his locker or in his backpack when he's not looking. Or just come out and tell him your feelings... Everyone gets caught passing notes, dont stress over it.
2007-11-05 15:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by K_D_U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just forget about it and get it off my mind. Nothing can be done. It's really not that bad of a thing that happen. Happened to us all one time or another. Just don't write anymore notes and talk to him as you were before and don't bring the subject up unless he ask you about it.
2007-11-05 15:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ask him if he got the note
but dont tell him that there was anything personal or anything
just be like ahhhh! how lame! why did she take it?
junk like that, dont tell him what was on the note
so that it'll give u a chance to write the note again... except for the first time of course since he already read that...
2007-11-05 15:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Natta Catta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG ! I know how that feels! It happened to me before! You tell that teacher ! Privately! You know I'm really , i am so sorry for what I did ! I kinda like him a little & I thought this would be my only chance just please let me go this time! If you do I swear I will never do this again! I do lunch , after school dtention if you want just please don't tell ANYONE about this! I like him alot & i want to make sure this is private! Once again I am sorry!
2007-11-05 15:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha, wow that happened with my two friends, they
where gonig out and my friend gave it to the kid next to
me to give it to his gf and he threw it and my art teacher
got it. haha. my teacher just gave it to the administration.
idk, excatly what he did but they didnt get in trouble
for passing notes. (just the way bad stuff they wrote)
i dont think ull get into much trouble. if your teacher
asks just say that u guys goof around or something
2007-11-05 15:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by princesslineth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First rule of love note mail: DO NOT write down personal stuff and risk delivering it in class!!! Now, you know why.
If you MUST write "personal stuff" in such a note, have trusted friends OUTSIDE CLASS pass it on to your intended.
2007-11-05 15:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have the guts, go and ask the teacher for your note. And explain that its your property that you dint wish to share and it was before class anyways. And then if he/she gives you back your note,just rip it and make a very simple note and ask your cruch if he/she likes you
2007-11-05 15:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Konair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE MAKING THIS OUT TO BE MORE THAN IT IS FOR ALL HE KNOWS YOU COULD HAVE BEEN PASSING HIM A NOTE ASKING HIM TO GO TO CHURCH LOL THATS JUST AN EXAMPLE BUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR THIS GUY YOU ARE PUTTING UNDUE PRESSURE ON YOURSELF AND WORRY THAT YOU ARE CREATING IN YOUR MIND BE HONEST WITH HIM TELL HIM WHAT WAS IN THE NOTE AND SOMEDAY WHEN YOU GUYS ARE MARRIED IT WILL BE A WONDERFUL STORY TO TELL YOUR CHILDREN GOOD LUCK
2007-11-05 15:41:49 · answer #11 · answered by colaone_20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋