I broke up with someone and I still love that person but she doesn't love me anymore and I know that the relationship we had could never be the same. Even if the girl decided she loved me I still wouldn't want to get back together with her because things are so different now. However, its been 3 months since we broke up; I moved to a new city, got rid of everything I had that reminded me of her and don't talk to her. For some reason I can't get her out of my head, she's there all the time and she's in every one of my dreams. Everyday I keep loving someone who I could never be with again. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Can anyone give me some advise on moving on? I need to move on, but can't.
2007-11-05 15:58:24 · 17 answers · asked by kevcim06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a job & get damn busy with it. tell yourself that evreything will be alright again, you have nothing to lose more. you are a free bird now & you are gonna start everything from the beginnig FRESH.
2007-11-05 16:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tumpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my b/f 3 years ago because my friend and family didnt like him. But i still love him. Hes getting married. I know that if he does still love me i would never go back out with him like u said about ur situation it wouldnt be the same it would be very different. Its been 3 years for me im finally moving on i have been out with 4 different guys this year. None of them were the one but it made me not so much forget him but more or less move on from him. So really all you can do is move on. Go out with your buddies have some fun. Meet some new girls date some. This way you will think more about the new people not her. You will never forget her. its impossible to forget someone who touched your heart.Good luck with everything.
2007-11-05 16:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to become more involved with activities that keep you busy and dont remind you of her. You will never forget someone you love, but eventually you will stop yearning for her. Start casually dating and that usually helps. Just dont jump into a real relationship anytime soon. We all have that one love that we never want to be with again but still cant forget. It just doesnt dominate your thoughts once you have fully move on.
2007-11-05 16:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be vulgar or funny but there is always drugs. I know for me weed helped me forget a lot of things that I didn't want to know. I stopped smoking it about 5 months ago and I'm doing just fine, but I do remember that when I stopped all my thoughts came back just as if it was yesterday. So if you where to do that you would forget it, but when you do stop you would be starting where you left of. Who knows it works different on every one. Also would like to say that there is always just finding a hobby volunteering, them things are not so lazy and they help people.
2007-11-05 16:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes.
it really is hard to forget someone you haved loved.
my ex fiance' broke up with me almost 4 years ago and even though i still love him and i know he still loves me we will never be able to get back together cuz everything has changed.
I think if you still love her give her a call and ask her if she still feel some type of love for you before is to late.
2007-11-05 16:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will forget someone, and why would you? Each person in our lives affects us in some way and helps us become the person we are. All I can say is that it takes time.
2007-11-05 16:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness.. You should watch this movie. It's about forgetting. Actually, it's about having a person erased from your memory.
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
You'll love it. I know you will.
2007-11-05 16:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by thai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way of getting over it besides eventually over time forgetting.. sorry not much help. Just try and live and the moment, eventually the thoughts of her will go away.
2007-11-05 16:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all contact with the person, and begin to go out, try to stay busy so you have less time to think of her.
2007-11-05 16:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y3 months may seem like a long time but its not really. keep doing what your doing, be patient. eventually it will hurt less and less. you will never forget her and will probably always love her. but at least it wont hurt and you will go on with tour life.
2007-11-05 16:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by womanofghostbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋