Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

she is 15 and so am i but she wants me to meet her parents and im not exactly in shape but shes on the cross counry team of our school, so obviously she is. do you think the parents will like me. and what are some topics to discuss with the parents and some not to discuss? thank you!

-Josh

2007-11-04 15:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i'm in 8th grade, and the only bf i've had was in the 6th grade. i'm extremely flirtatious and i try to show guys that i like them, and i think they try also, but they never ask me out. a bunch of nerds in my class like me and have asked me out, but i said no. i just don't like them. the guys that i do like act like they like me, but they never do anything. they give me hugs and i give them hugs back and stuff and i talk to them. so what's the deal, why don't i ever get asked out??? please help me!!

2007-11-04 15:48:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 years old in high school and many might say I am really a nice guy...and I think I might be overly nice...
Is this a bad thing?
What are things I can talk about if I do get the chance to talk to a girl? Because often times when I am talking to one, I don't know what to say next and the conversation usually dies...

2007-11-04 15:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by mysterious90 1 in Singles & Dating

Seems my girlfriend wears them in mine. I don 't know if its an inferiority complex or what? She is just a very take charge type of person. Calls the shots. I get stuff done but she wants to control everything I do and where I spend money. She's always leaving me lists of stuff to do and I do probably most the housework already. Then she asks me if I like playing housewife? Is this normal?

2007-11-04 15:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by George C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WHY DO PEOPLE SAY THEY WILL CHANGE BUT THINGS ALWAYS STAY THE SAME?

2007-11-04 15:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have searched and search.. Names, artists.. looking for something sweet to just walk down the isle to him.. set a magical mood. Fairy and folklore wedding

2007-11-04 15:38:06 · 9 answers · asked by wonka wonka 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship right now he lives about 3hrs away...he wants me to move up there but im in college right now and have already made the mistake before...i dont know how to tell him that i need to do what i need to do before i can move. it has been getting harder and harder every week and we have been arguing more often. i really love him but just want him to back off a little. I lived with a previous boyfriend before and things didnt work out and i quit school. then moved back home...im back in school and dont have to pay rent or many bills.....help please

2007-11-04 15:37:38 · 22 answers · asked by Elena C 2 in Singles & Dating

Some of our family is coming for visit for a month, during which I will have to live in our closet of a computer room on the floor. I've gotten past that, but the last remaining problem is that when they come to visit they try to control my life (I'm 15). My parents work all day so when they are gone my relatives tell my brother and I when to do our homework, when to clean, where we can go, who we can go with, and they expect us to occupy their time the entire time they're here. I'm sick and tired of them controlling me, but I don't want to come off as a rude teenager. How can it get this situation under control and loosen their hold over me?

2007-11-04 15:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know im not the skinnest girl on th block but i am still pretty im 5'10 blond curly hair pretty smart but for some reason guys dont talk to me why is this? i am a really nice person im kind im a great friend a lil shy but once people get to know me i am more outgoing so why dont guys talk to me? just wondering
thxs in advance

2007-11-04 15:29:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jane M 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a father that never like me but he doesn't show like to anyone, however I have and older brother whom is very much a dork, with poor judgment and nothing going for him but the handout he gets from our father, He know owns a home and also a cabin on my dads ranch. Most of this came to him after he was married. I the only son who actually tried to be someone by starting my own business at a young age doing every thing I could to succeed was laughed at, pushed aside, and they my father and brother would try anything to prevent me from doing well in life and business... I've tried to avoid them for the last seven years; I've even stopped seeing all my family as a result... This is a mental mind **** for me, does anyone have good advice. I think I'm having a hard time doing anything with my life because of this trauma I went threw... mainly between the ages of 18 and 21 ... although this was an issue since I can remember...

2007-11-04 15:29:19 · 23 answers · asked by Joey B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke up because i said i was unsure how i felt but maybe it would work later. I hook up with a new girl. That didnt go well ex was mad. My ex cuts contact and removes all our photos from her facebook. I ask her why and she said she cant live for "maybe" and deserves someone who knows how they feel and I should remove the photos too. She said its too hard to be friends but she wants to move on. isnt she being a little pessimisitc and overreacting?

2007-11-04 15:29:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, I have this close guy friend and were always hanging out together. I have pretty much fallen for him and just haven't mentioned anything b/c I don't think he feels the same way. BUT I found out something about our relationship I hadn't before...were related by marriage. My uncle married a woman from a family I really don’t know too many of. This family I'm speaking of had someone along the line marry someone he is related to. So technically were sorta cousins. But both of us have no blood relation and really I don't know wat we are to each other in that respect b/c I didn’t know the people that married on his end b/c the people are not close relatives that I know of to my aunt. Either way its a link between us thats seems to make things weird in this respect b/c of the whole ‘family’ thing. I REALLY like him that way and flirt with him all the time sometimes I think he might feel the same way. He doesn't know about this yet so only I do. Is it okay still to try and be with h

2007-11-04 15:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by Confused heart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

English is my second language please for give my bad English.
She constantly makes problems.And She dislike her mom mom,too.She wants to stay with us.She is 15.
She tells a lot of lies hard to trust her.
But every week some thing happens.
Of course I up set and say to her father to teach her !
But always end up I got alot alot alot of bad wards form him mainly It means I am the one making things worth ...and she got non these punch of the words.
I really wondered why?
Only one guess I can make is he loves his daughter very much. May be more then his wife.
If I said that he deny it but I can't believe it!
I am so unhappy and I have night mare at night..I love my husband but very close to my limit!
Last week the cash in may wallet vanished..
What I can do this situation....

2007-11-04 15:24:31 · 14 answers · asked by august2007 1 in Family

2007-11-04 15:21:08 · 14 answers · asked by beaglegurl87 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but she says something happened to her the last time she went out with someone and she said she dont know if i would do that to her why does she think that i would do stuff with her like that i would never rape someone thats just wrong plus i told her that i am not going to have sex till im married but she doesnt know if she can trust me i really like her but i just fell like crap im like one and 20 guys that just dont want to go out with a girl for sex i deserve at least a chancewhat do yall think...but my hormones are going CRAZY idk if its puberty or what but i really do have feelings for this girl and i dont get how she can like me but not sure if she will go out with me....

2007-11-04 15:21:02 · 31 answers · asked by codye 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine (seriously not me) is using a sex tape he secretly filmed against a married woman. He's threatening to send the tape to her husband if she doesn't comply to his demands (basically sex). She gave him the cold shoulder because she wants to be faithfull to her husband again and this upset him. I've advice him to get rid of the tape but he's already put his plan to work for about two months now. Can he get in trouble for what he's doing?

2007-11-04 15:15:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What advise can u give me? He doesnt have a job..I work..We need to find an apartment in 6 weeks because we are getting evicted because he didnt pay the rent..His credit is shot and mine is ok..what is a girl to do???

2007-11-04 15:15:11 · 10 answers · asked by needhelp10940 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really need to get my dad something and he turns 50 tomorrow. plz help!!

2007-11-04 15:12:34 · 34 answers · asked by Deeptika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my former girlfriend about 5 months ago. I'm 21, she's 18. We had a rough relationship. She constantly lied, she had affairs behind my back, and we always argued. She calls me every so often and I don't answer the phone, but I want her to stop calling me in general. I've already moved on. What should I do? Serious answers only please!

2007-11-04 15:07:34 · 67 answers · asked by theboss 1 in Singles & Dating

'It's not the size of the boat''. 'size dosent matter' etc.. When you know it does.

2007-11-04 15:06:42 · 6 answers · asked by lomp 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy that I had a thing with about a year ago resurfaced in my life not in person, but I seen his myspace for the first time. once I seen his picture all those feelings came back. It was kinda unfinished how it ended, he is the one that got a way. Its been really bothering me lately that we been apart this long. I havent contacted him even though now I could before I had no clue were he was what should I do ?

2007-11-04 15:06:03 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know it may be partially my fault, but I can not be the only one to blame.
I have the WORST luck with friends! I know that I am choosing these people, but they don't start out that way. My life has been this way since I was 12. It is now over 20 years later, and it seems as if history is just repeating itself time and time again.
Are there really people out there who can be a true friend. People who are not just out to get you, and see what they can get out of you?
I'm giving up hope. :(

2007-11-04 15:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by jabegall 3 in Friends

I flipped the hell out. My son just sat and let this boy beat him up. I went off on the lil boy and as for my son i snapped out on him. His dad told me i need 2 just let him handle it cause i got so upset. If it happens again what should i do? My son beat this same boy up 2 months ago for hitting his lil sister.

2007-11-04 15:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by catherine b 1 in Family

This is quite long- winded, but im looking for genuine answers only. please be kind.
so.. im a 21yr old, my parents divorced when i was 7 as my dad left my mum for another woman. after this i saw my dad at wkends, At first it was great, i used to put my dad up on a pedestal as he seemed to understand me and was a kind man. however as i grew older the visits became less frequent, up until now when i have not seen him since december 06. i have msgd him a couple of times and he replies after a couple of days. not once in that time has he initiated contact with me. the main thing for me was on my 21st birthday 12 days ago i did not recieve a phone call or message from my dad. i have spoken to him since and received a bday card but i have told him it is unforgiveable. i never answered my dad back once in the past but when i spoke to him after my bday i really let rip on him and told him what a crap dad he has been. i know this isnt really the best place to ask but do u think i was wrong?

2007-11-04 15:00:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

last night i say my ex for the first time since we had broken up. he was nice an everyhting but everytime i saw him he was all over other girls. dancing and flirting with them. And i still like him. so it made it so ****** hard. i dont no what to do. i want to tell him how i feel but then i no he would not talk to me anymore.....i cant control him and make him not flirt because im not his girlfriend anymroe but i wish i was. i wish he was mine but he isnt. and he dosent want to be anymore. he just wants to be friends. im so ****** confused and messed up right now.

and i cant even stop thinking about him long enough to relize that other guys like me. but if i did then i feel like i would lose him. and i dont want to. the other guys are not as good as him. they arent as cute or nice.......so i dont want anyone where i would rather have my ex.

i just really need some advise.....please someone.

2007-11-04 14:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone just asked me if this site is too predictable & whether our love lives are one long loop of the same recordings. It seems to me that people just keep asking the very same questions here. It appears that many are just stuck in a rut. Do you feel the same way when you read some of these convoluted posts? How do you add spice to your love life? Are you waiting for someone to inquire about something interesting? Do you wish to convey some fresh ideas that can help others flourish & have more FUN? Many of us grow tired of the same old posts about~ "Is He Cheating?" Isn't there more interesting things to focus on?

2007-11-04 14:56:49 · 6 answers · asked by LedHead 7 in Singles & Dating

How was it? either way..

2007-11-04 14:56:41 · 22 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Her boyfriend is not the father of the kids and he tells her not to let me see them. How can I protect my grandchildren from him. He smokes marijana infront of them. When he gets upset with my daughter he takes off with their diapers and steals her money. He bites my granddaughter on the cheek and leaves a mark. Looks like a hickie. My daughter will cals me to pay her bills and if I say no, she denies my visitations. Can I take her to court for visitations? My grandkids lived with me for over a year, so they are very close to me. when my granddaughter comes to my house, when I take her home she cries and doesn't want to go with her. What can I do legally? Please help!!!!

2007-11-04 14:56:00 · 14 answers · asked by leesa22006 1 in Family

I do not know who or if she married, but she would be in her early 60s.
I have googled and done people searches with no luck. I don't live anywhere nearby, so I can't go search Clark County marriage records. I found her mother's and dad's grave location, but find no records of Julie.

2007-11-04 14:48:50 · 1 answers · asked by plezurgui 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, does anyone knows where can I buy the accesories (veil, jewelry, headpieces...) shown in Maggie's site?

I tried to google so I could find this designer accesories but i found nothing... Im guessing the accesories from the models in her site are from other designer... any idea whats the name?

Thanks

2007-11-04 14:48:49 · 2 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Weddings