i know im not the skinnest girl on th block but i am still pretty im 5'10 blond curly hair pretty smart but for some reason guys dont talk to me why is this? i am a really nice person im kind im a great friend a lil shy but once people get to know me i am more outgoing so why dont guys talk to me? just wondering
thxs in advance
2007-11-04 15:29:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jane M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are probably as many different reasons as there are potential guys who might decide to talk to you or to not talk to you. Usually the biggest factor is that a guy doesn't have a starting point for a conversation. In order for someone to decide to say something to another person they usually want to either ask a question or talk about something that they have in common. If they don't know anything about you then they wouldn't know of anything that you have in common. Why don't you be the one to break the ice by talking to a guy first, maybe by asking a question or something like that? There are tons of conversation starters from the news to the weather to clothes or any other neutral subject that most people have some knowledge or opinion about.
Ask a guy something about himself and you will hit on a subject that he is sure to have something to say. It may be that the guy doesn't have an interest in you for whatever reason but at least the conversational door has been opened and that's how relationships start whether they will go on to become frienships or something more, God only knows.
2007-11-04 15:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i think that there threatened by you.. i mean when you see a really hot girl you think there more like upbeat and think your snob, buh the good thing is thats just a sterotype and from what i see you want to make friends i suggest you make the effort then and then after they might be more open with you.
2007-11-06 16:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by home town hero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not threatened by you at all. Start talking to them, they will be interested. I'm sure, look for taller guys though. Most guys would be intimidated with a girl that's taller than him.
2007-11-04 23:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋