Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

well yesturday i just found out that i have a big sister..and i got to talk to her on the phone and i got to meet her kids...which are my nieces...and im just soooo shy..im goin to meet her in person soon..but i dont kno what to say!!what should i say??

2007-11-04 01:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Family

If you are married, what age did you marry and do you think it was too early/late or the right time?

2007-11-04 01:56:51 · 26 answers · asked by Honey 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 01:53:06 · 33 answers · asked by Tony H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Two weeks ago I sed on here that my boss was on the sick. and I sed he mite of had a brake down. well he his always rusing about all the time and he slides his feet about and has to be on the go all the time and he takes his work to sereus and all thats on his mind is work. well the shift manager sed he has no energy and his week he is on sleeping tablets and last week he mist a course because he was to ill to go. he has worked at the fast food place for 24 years. do you think he has done to much work?

2007-11-04 01:48:35 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I (Capricorn man) have been in long relationship and marriage with a Gemini woman. We're in early thirties. Seems like I could never find a way on how to melt and win over her. I'd rather say that our relationship is rather dull. All good things, behaviors, treatments, being spontaneous, tried experiments, etc all I have done (or tried to do). She's standing still like a rock, unchangeable. I couldn't generate much interest from her. So what interests and arouses (sex life) a Gemini woman towards a man (especially the husband)?

2007-11-04 01:46:35 · 2 answers · asked by Screwed Dad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-04 01:42:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our husband are deployed my 1st but her 3rd. i learned a lot from here but every15 min. she calls are im's me i cant even chat with my husband with her im n me she knows when he's online .I ignored her then my cell,house phone ,if i dont answer im evry15 min. i have told her I cant talk to her & hubby same time are im cleaning ,sleeping,I will call her back it's her again with what your doing I told her i'm going to read a book had to turn off both phones she started im me!help dont know how to not hurt her feeling but making wana punch a wall!

2007-11-04 01:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by sweetface 2 in Friends

Do you hate it when your trying to call someone on the phone and you call the wrong number. Then you say "Sorry I called the wrong number" then they ask you who are you trying to call.
Its like why do you wanna know.

2007-11-04 01:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by froooooozen 1 in Friends

2007-11-04 01:37:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't get her off my mind.

2007-11-04 01:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together 5 years and in the very begining we were at it all the time. now its like we have duty sex i still like to get down and try new things and he is into get it go to sleep. if he showed as much passion with sex as he does playing madden 08 online with that damn head set i would be a happy bi#*h.

2007-11-04 01:31:34 · 16 answers · asked by supermommie07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i like this guy and i told one of my friends that is also friends with him that I like him and he told him. My other good friend told me that she thinks that he just wants to be friends i think she's jelous and is lying though because the guy I told to tell him didn't mention that he just wants to be friends. I sit next to him in class and he always trys to get my attention by saying stupid things, looks at me then looks away, and trys to make me laugh. he always tells me to shut up, but in a jokingly way, and tells one of my friends that I need to talk to him more. Everytime I see him in the hall way he touches my arm. On myspace he only comments me back and no one else. I think he might like me but I am SO SCARED that he just wants to be friends. Please help me. Best answer get's 10 points! Thank you sooooo much XOXOX

2007-11-04 01:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by donna_c25 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say that you have been in a relationship for almost a year with someone you talk to online pretty much everyday, at least 6-20 hours/day... every chance you get. You text message eachother the rest of the time. In person, about a month, total.
You're living in City A, and he moves to Town B. You are very much attached to City A, have dozens of friends and family there, and because of the industry you work in, you make 3-9k/month, but only in City A. Because City A is a better location for you both, he says its ok to move back after you've spent 2 months living with him in Town B.
2 months, minimum, cause he feels that as the man, what he says goes. So despite the fact that you hate being away from the city, neither of you have any friends in Town B, have no money saved between the two of you, there's no furniture in his place yet, and you don't even plan to stay there...he demands you move in immediately.
Now he won't talk to you or continue dating until you're there in person

2007-11-04 01:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by Echo 1 in Singles & Dating

I met her 15 months ago when we joined in the same organisation. Slowly and gradually we became frnds. With time, we felt attracted towards each other. Those feelings of 2 of us being together strarted 2 grow strong untill we had that silly fight 4 no reason. That fight when we stopped talking 2 each other....and it continued for months.....every time when 1 approached another, we tried to ignore each other, though we felt more strong for each other with every moment passing by. Then she ran through a rough patch which i later come to know from her mother. In the middle of all these things i proposed her, 2 which she didn't rejected neither approved of. Again we ran through a silent fight for months. We cared for each other but didn't speak 2 each other. She wished me on my birthday, gave me a gift at her home, but didn't speak anything. I asked her several times, whats wrong but she refused 2 open up. Now her silence is killing me. Tomorrow is her last day in the office. Help me plz..

2007-11-04 01:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by Bipin 1 in Friends

I hv been married 5 yrs n things went wrong fm day 1. Opposites do attract fr all the wrong reasons. We hv fights everyday. He calls me names, tells I am sick, Piece of **** etc. Cannot think of divorce bcoz of a daughter. Hes nice when sex is required else no feelings fr me . Asks my opinion n does the opposite. If i tell him how i feel he says i talk like a "fisherwoman (low class)" or does not bother abt it. I hv tried suicide. But that resulted in more damage.5yrs is too long tob unhappy. Pls tell me how I mamage to stay happy inspite of all the fights, differences etc. Meditation NO. Something realistic I can try, Pls do advise how i find happiness??????

2007-11-04 01:26:31 · 14 answers · asked by shean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i woke up early and thought ok, lets get out there... ride the bike in the woods for some exercise, get back shower off, take the motorbike for a spin in the lanes, and enjoy the sunshine... pop round a friends, and be back in time for some tea somewhere...

so far i have done, sweet f all, apart from make a really nice coffee and a sarnie for b'fast (lunch) whatever, which was yummy...

and now i am here for a sneeky peeky..

should i feel bad, or is this fine for a sunday...

shall i get dressed, and showered, or what ???

2007-11-04 01:24:08 · 22 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

that she wanted to keep things the way they are because she likes the way we get on at the moment.

is this a good thing?

we basically go out and are always hugging but i just had to ask her out to know for sure weather she likes me or not. when i did she said that she wanted things to stay the same and that we are good the way we are.

i asked her if she said no because she doesnt like me and she just said that she does like me but wants things to stay as they are.

so what do i do? stay with her? i love her and it seems she likes me. but why doesn't she want to go out? ive told her i like her and asked her out - what more can i do?

does it matter that we dont actually go out?? im happy with the way things are but is it going anywhere?

2007-11-04 01:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 01:22:14 · 54 answers · asked by scouse princess 4 in Singles & Dating

what to do ??? i'm not really into the holidays and now i'm invoved with a man who i'm planning on marrying and he's very much into the family thing and holidays. we both have children mine are older 18 and 10. he has a 4 yr old. i feel obligated to fake it to act like i want to be apart of it when i really don't. I'm more of the quite holiday type. my kids and i know how to relax and enjoy the day off. his child is a bit hyper and needs entertainment. (drives my children and me crazy) so i have now oppted to work my job for all the holidays so i don't have to be bothered. or how do i get him to see it's a time reflect on the day and the meaning and not a lot of noise and hoopla. what do you think.

2007-11-04 01:16:48 · 3 answers · asked by msjchill38 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does he only think about getting you in bed?
I want the guys to answer

2007-11-04 01:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what else to say to make him feel better, he is a nice friend actually, i kept saying sorry, so awful....

2007-11-04 01:14:18 · 20 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Friends

I don't mean a relationship, but only an affair. I don't want to get involved, that's why. But it seems that men want to have a relationship. I don't understand why they don't agree to have only an intercourse. Why do they runaway when they find out that i don't want something more?

2007-11-04 01:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Singles & Dating

There was an earlier question asking if you would expose for $100. The response appears positive. What is the lowest dollar value you would accept to show your breasts to someone?

2007-11-04 01:09:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If all guys want is sex, and to mate with as many people as possible, why would they want a relationship?
Are guys really capable of love and commitment?
It's probably true, but I find that hard to believe, so yes this is a serious quesiton....

2007-11-04 01:08:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we're moving in together next week. New property for both of us in a new area. Problem is my bf has 6 children ive never met. He has regular access with them in his current property and his children know he has a gf, but his ex would not allow me to meet his children for no reason in particular, just being awkward i think.

Anyway, his children are a daughters at ages 15, 8, 5, 3 and 2 and his son is 8. I also have a 6yr old son.

How do we intergrate our 2 families with as few hic-ups as possible? How do i get his kids to see im not a wicked step mother but a friend to them all?
How can we make sure no one feels excluded or isolated or over-looked etc?

Im really worried they wont like me, or that things wont go smoothly and they wont want to come stay over etc.

All advice is welcome especially if you've succesfuly merged 2 families yourself.

2007-11-04 01:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was getting annoyed that my bf wasn't being as affectionate as usual, not calling as much etc. My friend told me I should play it cool, so I didn't phone him or message him, and when he phoned me I kept it short and said I was going out with my friends. I went out partying so I missed his call and didn't reply to his text message til the next day. But he started being a bit funny with me and asking questions about what I'd been doing and why I'd got back so late. I haven't heard from him since. Do you think he might think I lost interest or went out kissing other boys? I admit, I sort of wanted to keep him on his toes, but maybe this was a bad idea?

2007-11-04 01:05:49 · 10 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

Examination is going to end in 2 days time but this mean that we graduated from that school. I will not have the chance to see her again! I confessed to her before already but i can see she like not really interested in me. What should i do? What should i text her?

2007-11-04 01:02:43 · 1 answers · asked by Curious Kills 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a legal way to force someone out of the marital home? I told my friend that her boyfriend could try to get a restraining order against his wife in order to get her out but I don't really see what his grounds would be.
The wife has already walked out on the marriage & was living with another man in another state for a year but she came back (he ALLOWED her to move back in) and now, duh, she refuses to move out of the marital home because she wants to keep her claim on it. Is there a legal way to force her out? I told my friend that he should have filed while she was gone and never let her move back in.
PS: I know that she should leave this guy; I've told her that many times but she doesn't want to. I want to support her decisions even if I don't agree.

2007-11-04 01:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the afternoon i went to sleep as i wasnt feeling well.During that time my husband was in front of computer. Now when i watched youtube website i noticed from the history that he watched sexy girls videos along with other normal videos especially girls with big boobs.I got very jealous.Is it fair while I am sleeping feeling unwell he watches this kind of videos?Now he isnt at home when he comes back i want to leave computer page on cover boys or something to make him feel that i was watching it to make him feel the same. I dont know should i do it? Generally at the moment we are good towards each other and it improved recently i am a bit worried i will spoil it by doing the same to him .

2007-11-04 00:56:56 · 17 answers · asked by Sindy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my older sister hasn't dated any1 in 3 years and she cant get over her ex boyfriend. shes in college and lives right near our house. wat can i do 2 help her get back out there and get a new boyfriend? can i do anything? shes really sad and i want 2 help!

2007-11-04 00:55:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family