Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

(the following question is not so much a naughty question, as it is an instant curiousity upon thinking of it? hope you find my interest as positive)

For those of you who shave that area that we men always seem to be after, do you shave it when you aren't consistently engaging in? And, how frequent (that is,whether it is different when consistently active or not)

Also, feel free to give whatever detail you like (reasons why, feelings about)...and, if you are a particular origin background (for thickness of hair background of course), etc etc :)

Thanks for your enlightening words in advance!

2007-11-04 04:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 04:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by TANJA g 1 in Friends

I had a great date with a man I met through an online-dating site 2 weeks ago. As I had other plans later that day, we only chatted for an hour in a cafe, but the impressions he gave me were all positive. I recieved a text message from him that eventing saying that he had a great time and would like to see me again when he is visiting my town again, although he also said that he was not sure if I was interested in staying in touch with him. So, then I replied, "I was just a bit nervous but I too had a great time meeting you". I got another message from him 3 days later by email which said, "I am home now but just wanted to drop you a quick line to say I had a very good time meeting you. I am sorry you were nervous... but I hope we can meet up again." That was ten days ago, and have not heard from him since. His work brings him to my town often, and I am anxious to know when we can meet again. So, should wait for him to get in touch with me or what should I do otherwise?

2007-11-04 04:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by pinetreegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 years old and have been dating a woman for 2 years. I have strong feelings for her but it doesn't seem to matter. She's been being sort of ignorant lately and she doesn't want to have relations. I've completely resculpted my body for her and I never have asked her for anything. I've never mistreated her or even so much as raised my voice to her and she seems to have lost all respect for me. I think she's trying to give me a hint. What do you think??

2007-11-04 03:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by faithless 717 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is an extremely gay guy in my university that alot of guys hate and despise. There is a type of dance in one of our famous off campus clubs in which women go down low to the ground and shake their butt. This same gay did it and some guy kickedd him right in his butt in front of people and some of these people laughed.

2007-11-04 03:56:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are there so many people in the world today that are focused on looks than on personality and all the things that matter. Why is it there has has to be so much "perfection" in the dating world and "perfection" in the sex industry ect... I'm not sure why it's so important. I don't understand. I mean I think i'm handsome, but there are times when I do feel a little blue when I look at myself. I'm not sure if i'm fat or just being a little too self-conscious. I'm 5'3" 185 lbs. and male. Is this fat to you? I mean I know that I don't have a "six pack", but dang is it really that important. I do have a belly on me but I am trying to lose weight the best way I can. anyways, I'm not sure what this world is coming too nowadays but It really bothers me. I see all the websites where people are "perfect" or want "perfection" or near close to it. I mean is it so much to ask why this happens and why people just can't see the good in others and not just go by the outer appearance?!

2007-11-04 03:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by S A 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we're really close. He's told me that he'll only go as far as I want, and he's stuck to that, although of course he does try, but stops if I don't let him. He's never been anything but amazing. Recently, he's started trying to get down my pants. I never let him, and he always stops until we see each other again [different schools, only see each other on the weekends...it sucks]. The thing is, I want it really bad. I have to force myself to move his hands. No, he doesn't get far at all, but it still feels good. We've gone kinda far in other ways, but I can't let him do this. I'm not ready, legally, I'm too young, and I have a really good relationship with my parents. If they found out, I would lose their trust. But I can see myself losing my virginity to him. He's my first love, and I wouldn't regret it being him at all. I just can't, as much as I want to because of my morals. I'm waiting till I'm legal and emotionally ready.

2007-11-04 03:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i live in waco where my fiance and his family are from im from springtown and thats where my family is, now the question is should i have it at my parents property which will be free or here in waco which will cost us alot probably, if i have it at my parents though my mom will have to do lot of work secne im here, so which would be a better idea

2007-11-04 03:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Weddings

How can I stop getting so jealous? I know I like this boy, but I'm really not ready to let him know. How can I stop getting so jealous of every girl he talks to?

2007-11-04 03:43:19 · 1 answers · asked by blondesweetie88 1 in Singles & Dating

i think she has but i dont no how to say it.

2007-11-04 03:41:30 · 30 answers · asked by imhiya 2 in Singles & Dating

hi all!
i am non-indian dating a half-indian, half-british hindu. his mom is british and dad is indian so it's a relief that their family is multi-cultural...we talk about getting married in the future but he suggests that i don't have to work because he can provide for me. my only hesitation is "what if our marriage doesn't work?" and i will need a job in the future to provide for my needs?
he said, he wants me to focus on taking care of family (is that really the culture of India?). what i know is that they are a well-to-do family...if i don't have work, will i ask him money or will he give me without asking??

thank you all!!

2007-11-04 03:39:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for many years. I think my husband has a drink problem. He has been banned twice from driving - both drink related. He is currently off the road. He has never been physically abusive towards the family. I have tried to support him as much as possible - going to doctors etc. Finally a few months ago I took a step and asked him to leave for the sake of the family. He did (he is very reasonable when he is sober)He has a binge drinking session which lasts up to three days about once a fortnight. He is now very sad and says that he will change if I have him back - he is only drinking now because he is so sad. I am afraid to go back - it would not be fair - I have told him I will consider it if he is dry for 6 months. I think this is fair. I really think he has to do this himself- or should i support him by allowing him back into the family home (he was drunk last weekend!) I feel sometimes that I am completely heartless.

2007-11-04 03:37:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i leave for iraq in 4 days and i want to do something w/ my wife and we cant think of anything to do

2007-11-04 03:31:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 19 and I've never really been in a serious relationship or a relationship for that matter. I'm a really pretty girl, smart, I have a lot going for my self. but I always have those dumb guys coming after me, I feel like I attract A**Holes..lol, and the guys that I like, they don't like me in that way they see me as their bestfriend or sister! I just feel like I'm destined to be alone all my life. i know i young, but by now I should have at least experienced being in some kind of relationship??? Is it me??

2007-11-04 03:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and I been together 8 years as we are family friends from decades friends & in love.Since he had issue getting married we tried separating then get back together.He wants to get married now.So what im saying is even if i try to move on be with someone else theres noone else who wants to date me or him.It doesnt happen since we are soulmates destined fate is together.Ive only been with this man all my life.In such a situation do u think we should be married to eachother instead of living alone due to being in love with eachother soulmates destined fate being together.Please serious answers only.

2007-11-04 03:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

''hot'', we are kind of soulmate. and my husband and i are dying out after 6 years even though we still love each other but we aren't in love. Why do i feel so wrong but also feel so right when im with the fireman? is it how people divorce?

2007-11-04 03:27:10 · 13 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 03:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by jolene.knott@btinternet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 03:25:57 · 4 answers · asked by blondee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 03:25:40 · 19 answers · asked by anil m 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend uses way too much tongue throughout a whole kiss. how can i curb his kissing style?

2007-11-04 03:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by Macy 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 years and i bought a house together in august and weve always had differences concerning our finances he is very irresponsiblewith money and would rather buy a xbox 360 than pay bills. We constantly fought over it. well he moved out on friday. i really didnt think he would he didnt really say anything to me. I saw him online and i said hey to him and asked him if he loved me and he said he does hes just not in love with me but he still cares. and i told him i cant believe hes done this to me when he knows my grandfather was just put into hospice on friday and he was basically like whatever later and signed off. this house seems so cold and empty im so alone i cant do anything i cant even sleep maybe 4 hours a day is all i cant eat i just break down crying my 21rst b day is nov 29th (we had a trip to vegas planned and paid for) its the holidays and this house my heart cant handle it i just want him to come home our cats lay by the door waiting for daddy to come home

2007-11-04 03:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw my crush the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there. Then as he was leaving the place he stared at me for a couple of minutes but the girl he was with already left without him. It was like he wasn't concerned that she was their. Do you think this is weird? What does this mean?

2007-11-04 03:10:14 · 2 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u believe you really have to be good friends or bestfriends for that matter to make it work. Or do u have to romanticly really like that person.

2007-11-04 03:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate it when men won't ask a nice girl out because of fear of rejection. Do they honeslty think women don't fear rejection as well?
So instead they go for boring girls. is it because they want to be 'safe'? I dont get it.
why do men fear rejection so much? can't they just move on.
It annoys me because I bet most of the time, they lose out on a really good chance because they are too wussy.

2007-11-04 03:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by g♥nym3d3 2 in Singles & Dating

18 (in most places) is th legal age to get married without parental consent.

21 (in most states) is the legal age to drink in most states.

While liquor is a substance and it's understandable that you need to be more mature. Don't you believe marriage is something that should be left for the older crowd. I really think 21 should be the legal age to marry.

When you think about it, most 18 year olds are still in high school. My birthday is in March. Therefore, I was 18 before I even graduated from high school.

Also, the rate of divorce is higher amoung those that marry before the age of 21. The statistics prove it.

What are your opinions? I just think it's a bit crazy that young KIDS (yes, they are kids) are getting married at 18. I know college isn't for everyone. But, trade schools are benefitical and even a few years of working and saving money can be good for the individiual and the couple.

Thoughts?

2007-11-04 03:06:21 · 9 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A pensioner became one of Scotland's oldest bridegrooms when he married a lady 22 years his junior.

What are your views on the age difference please, will this marriage work

2007-11-04 03:05:24 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband was inloved with another woman but he said he want to change and be with me and my son again. he regret that but do i need to forgive him? or do i have to leave him? he's been irresponsible and insensitive. and this is not the first time he had relationship with other woman while we were married.but i still love him. and i still want to be with him. its just that sometimes i'm feeling tired and want to let go already. what do i do?

2007-11-04 03:00:18 · 23 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive recently got engaged cos im desperate to start a family. Im 26 and havent known the girl for that long. We have our ups and downs and im having serious doubts because we always fight. But all relationships are complicated and im sure the next girl it will be the same. Ive either got to marry her in six months or break up forever. Im thinking once we are married and have our own family everything will fall into place. Should i just take the jump and get married? If i set a date now there will be no backing out.

2007-11-04 02:59:43 · 35 answers · asked by Billa007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is getting married in July and she wanted to know if she can drink at here wedding? SHe is 19 will be 20 on here wedding date. I told here I would, But she wanted me to ask for your opinion.

2007-11-04 02:50:16 · 31 answers · asked by ~Yoli~ 1 in Weddings

If you are only with one guy, and he happens to be 'on the small side' then it wouldn't matter would it? You would adjust to his size and it would feel the same, right?


I know if you are with alot of different men it takes more to satisfy you, because they are all different sizes... but what if you only plan on being with one?

2007-11-04 02:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating