I'm 20 years old and have been dating a woman for 2 years. I have strong feelings for her but it doesn't seem to matter. She's been being sort of ignorant lately and she doesn't want to have relations. I've completely resculpted my body for her and I never have asked her for anything. I've never mistreated her or even so much as raised my voice to her and she seems to have lost all respect for me. I think she's trying to give me a hint. What do you think??
2007-11-04 03:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by faithless 717 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you made the mistake of changing for her and not for you, it seems like you should move on and find what you want out of your life it will suck but it should get better.
2007-11-04 04:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 20 you probably haven't dated much to know what kind of a woman you would love to spend the rest of your life with. You should be out and about, dating women with different looks, personalities and characteristics. You may be pleasantly surprised by the variety! If someone doesn't respect you, love you or even want to be with you, don't bother with them. You cannot make someone love you. They either do or they dont.
You are still young, take your time. No rush.
Build on your own self esteem and respect and change yourself for YOU and because you want to, not for anyone else.
2007-11-04 13:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cafe au lait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should waste their precious time with another person who isn't just as invested in the relationship as they are. You're young, there are loads of single woman in your age range out there would you can meet- go find one who's crazy about you. And if you are ever tempted to make a change for someone else- don't. Change for yourself and yourself only.
2007-11-04 13:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's either just not that into you OR that she has other things going on in her life that have a higher priority than a relationship. Either way, it's time to get honest and ask her where you stand with her. Be prepared to bow out and not be a drama king about it. Good luck!
2007-11-04 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nimaeve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your twenty years old and have feelings for this person but it appears that her feelings are not the same toward you right.
If she doesn't want to have relationship with you than fine perhaps she wasn't the one for you in the first place look around young man and find the one.
best of luck
2007-11-04 12:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is she doing or not doing that makes you believe she has lost respect for you. That would help identify what message she is trying to get across.
2007-11-04 12:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋