I'm 19 and I've never really been in a serious relationship or a relationship for that matter. I'm a really pretty girl, smart, I have a lot going for my self. but I always have those dumb guys coming after me, I feel like I attract A**Holes..lol, and the guys that I like, they don't like me in that way they see me as their bestfriend or sister! I just feel like I'm destined to be alone all my life. i know i young, but by now I should have at least experienced being in some kind of relationship??? Is it me??
2007-11-04 03:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nah its not you, you just at the point where you do want someone in your life now and the easy answer is not in front of you, i know you see everyone else around you happy and with someone else, dont let that get you down or bother you and dont just go out with someone for the sake of doing it, take your time go out do things you wanna do then you might run into someone and it will take its own course. just dont let this beat you down or let it worrie you. im sure you will find someone.
2007-11-04 03:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, there are lots of fish in the sea, and you are still very young. If you were 40 and had never been in a real relationship than yes I would think there was a possibility that you had some barriers you needed to deal with. But from the tiny bit of information that you have provided, you sound like a confident young woman who knows what kind of man she wants and is not going to settle for less. I think that is great and I promise there are men out there who will be just what you are looking for, possibly even more than what you are looking for. The best advice that I have is to get involved in something that you love and try not to focus too much of your time and energy on finding a man. A great friend can turn into the Love of your life when you least expect it. Which for me has been the most wonderful relationship that I have ever had and I am now doing everything that I can to keep it healthy and growing. And that is a whole other topic. :-)
Blessed Be, I pray that you find the one for thee.
2007-11-04 03:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sasi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a bit you and a bit just the guys around you. you say you attract the dumb guys and you don't get into a relationship with them but many of those who do get into relationships are with the dumb guys.
concentrate on you for now and make as many friends as you can, if you are going to college concentrate on that, or a job, and one day you will find the right person to be attracted to you and it will be worth the wait.
Better that than pregnant by one of the dumb guys as many girls your age do!!
2007-11-04 03:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax...there is nothing wrong with you....you just haven't found the right person to be in a relationship with. I have a daughter that is 17...she is extremely smart and very pretty...and has no interest in guys...she is waiting until she gets into college before thinking about guys...she thinks guys at school are "just too immature"....
2007-11-04 03:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to find out just look at the way you dress, the way you address yourself when everyone is around, look at how you act towards everyone, and last look at yourself in teh mirror and say to yourself today si the day I find that good looking guy I want and don't give up. Your not the only one that is like these your still young but there are older girls who are jsut liek you so be patient and your guy will come. But want to caht with someone about it just IM me anytime
2007-11-04 03:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't start dating until I was 19 and it took me until I was 24 to finally meet my husband. So don't worry, you've got plenty of time.
2007-11-04 03:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry girl! I was in just your situation a year ago. You just need to find the right one. It'll happen don't worry. Don't rush it. Concentrate on school. He'll find you!
2007-11-04 03:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by my_own_destiny1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change yourself to have people like you. You may be intimidating because it seems like you are going to be extremely successfully and a man wants to bring home more bacon.
2007-11-04 04:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not you, the right one for you just hasn't been around. Try praying to God for your right mate,and have faith that God will send him your way.
2007-11-04 03:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋