Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

My ex-boyfriend, who kicked me out of our house almost a year ago in a very violent scene (he had cut himself to the point where I could see the fat on his arm) won't leave me alone. He continues to call me and text me despite the fact that I have told him numerous times to leave me alone. If I don't respond, he will begin to call and text my father (who is sick) because he knows that I will talk to him in an attempt to protect my father. When I tell him that he is being manipulative by doing this he tells me that I am the one who made him do it because I wouldn't talk to him. He has hacked into my e-mail accounts, his friends have called me pretending to be other people so that he could find out information about me. He knows details about my life that I haven't told him (such as who I am dating). When I have talked to him he calls me horrible names. He has had his friends request to be my friends on myspace so that he could see my private profile. Am I being stalked?

2007-11-04 07:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by artygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I call mine Moth because he follows the light everywhere he goes. He used to be Lantern for same reason. He always has to turn on lights wherever he goes.

2007-11-04 07:30:40 · 23 answers · asked by Purple triangle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

To really live a full childhood, do you think its neccesary to sneak things behinds parents back or do SOMETHING bad..To have the expierience? At SOME point in life, I think we all needed to when we were kids and your kids need to also. Any thoughts?

2007-11-04 07:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-04 07:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by Randl_4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok me and her used to be firneds but in 2007 i started to get feelings fir her.we were great friends.but one day i asked her out.and she said yes.the next week i moved.and i cam e back.and i asked her questions if she still liked me and she said yes.she asked me what i liked about her and i told her ans she told what i like about me.and they where alike.but we are not together.but we like each other what deas that mean

2007-11-04 07:21:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 07:20:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the other person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;

Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????

Also she has been really nasty lately to me when she texts or talk and at first she wanted to be friends and I kept asking her questions for closure and she rubs it in my face about her new gf (sending me pics of them kissing and her new ring) Do u think she is tryin to hurt me because she is hurting inside?

2007-11-04 07:20:47 · 1 answers · asked by Yeah Right 1 in Friends

I had a boyfriend whom I had been with for over three years (not continuously). We've encountered a lot of problems and I felt that my love for him was not as strong as it used to be. When I began a new job, this co-worker of mine caught my eye immediately. We began to flirt and play around, and eventually one thing led to another....I began to feel bad so I broke up with my boyfriend. After finding out his girl left him, I began to open up, but they are on the rocks and apparently she was just angry and didn't mean it. I really like him and we have a great connection, but I'm scared that I'm just the side chick and he wants both. He says he's scared and I'm not pushing him at all, but everytime I kiss him it hurts. We also can't really go out unless we go somewhere far away and that really sucks. He makes me feel so happy, but this situation is really bothering me. I don't want to tell him to choose because I feel I don't have that right....but I feel like I'd rather have something

2007-11-04 07:17:21 · 22 answers · asked by Beautiful 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 07:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a jerk and then back into a nice guy? He has given me all the signs. He's asked me out, touched me (not in a sexual way), usually says hello, sometimes spends a lot of time in my department (we work together- its not an issue I'm leaving in two months). Asked me about my life whether or not I have a boyfriend. He tries to make me laugh, holds eye contact for way too long, noticed when I changed my hair, and is in my personal space a lot. He sometimes makes sexual innuendos, teases me, and tells me I'm one of his favorites. I thought he liked this other girl, but w/o me even asked me he told me how he doesn't like her- that she creeps him out. So I'm confused! He's kind of two faced so I don't even know if he's being real with me. And when there are certain people around like other managers, he'll completely ignore me. When he found I was leaving he said "Well ****." And he said in a jokingly way, "Oh well you know I like you, so I'd only do it for you."

2007-11-04 07:13:48 · 3 answers · asked by prettygirlie45 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl i know(age16) has had sex with a guy(age22) and she has a feeling that she might be pregnant. she turns 17 in february.and wouldnt have the baby untill july. so she would be 17when she had it. can the law in missouri look back on her and say that she was 16 when 9 months ago when she had sex with this guy?even tho she would be 17 then. so would that guy be in trouble or would it be up to the parents?

2007-11-04 07:13:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am underage and am going to see a counsiler and was woundering what can my counsiler legaly tell my parents about me? I don't want my parents knowing whats going on in my life because they are very concerned right now at me just going to a counsiler.

2007-11-04 07:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by afrotamer 1 in Family

I really like her and I really want to kiss her but I don't want her to feel freaked out if I just lean in if she's not ready. Any tips to make her like me and some good conversation starters and to tell if she's ready to kiss me.

2007-11-04 07:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by EternalMemories0 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 07:08:27 · 15 answers · asked by alfonsobaseball 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex were in love...to the point where we were even thinking about marriage. but i have a bad temper and i pushed him away. he's with someone else now, but i really dnt know what to do. we're not talking right now. i don't know if i should talk to him and appologize or just ignore him and listen to that saying "if you love it let t go" . please help me

and for all you horoscope fanatics, i'm a gemini(may 31) and he's a leo (aug 6)

2007-11-04 07:05:34 · 10 answers · asked by *tremble. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to church this morning and saw 5 of my friends there, later ate lunch with everyone and saw several more of my friends as I left the dining center. It's just been a bright sunny day so far, I got an extra hour of sleep last night, and I feel great!

anyone else having a great day?

2007-11-04 07:03:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can a wife stop a paternity test before you sign the child's birth certificate? and can doctors inform the mother of the paternity test?

she said that i must sign the BC before i do the paternity test and so have the doctors. do they have that right?

2007-11-04 07:03:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to be 20 years old this month & its so hard to believe how fast time went by. I now have a beautiful, healthy baby that is 9 months old...but one thing is missing. His father. He left us while I was pregnant then came back again when our son was 2 months old, and left again around 6 months old. He stopped paying child support, totally cut me & Payton (our son) off & even though the smart thing to do would be to just let go, I cant. I still love him just as much as i did when we were together. He told everyone it wasnt his kid when he left me when i was pregnant, which he knew could be true & then we he left the second time he said i cheated on him...he always makes me believe this stuff bc i always feel like its my fault even though i know i never cheated or gave him a reason to say this stuff. as of the 22nd of last month he left fot the army, before he left we had a hearing, and i had asked him if he planned on seeing payton before he left, he never did. why cant i let go

2007-11-04 07:01:11 · 12 answers · asked by *mommy to two* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf had an event to go to, and he did not invite me to it. I was ok with it at first b/c I was under the impression he wanted to go alone or was going with his buisness friends. Maybe a guy outing but then when I hear him on the phone calling up his non-buisness friends, asking if they can go...now Im feeling funny. Its like why is he asking them and he dint ask me? Im like ok guy thing again. But then he calls a female friend. and that bugs me even a bit more. i wonder if i did not hear him on the phone with her would I feel the same?

2007-11-04 07:00:18 · 16 answers · asked by Roma 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you prefer? x

2007-11-04 07:00:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am declaring marriage to myself, and I know it will make it big in the bridal industry. As a pre-bridezilla, I will not order many dishes, or pots or pans just stuff to get by for myself.

Some have called me selfish, prudish, a man-hater, or worse.
I thought people would be happy that at last I was getting married to the only person I know best---ME.

2007-11-04 06:59:51 · 29 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

and EVERY HOLY day of obligation. He doesn't drink before he goes but I have seen him smoke pot a few hours before a 7 pm mass. Oh yeah, and he get's mad if someone at the dinner table says "God is good, God is great.... prayer. The prayer must be elaborate and be a few minutes long.like kind of a dinner time blessing and night time prayer all in one praying for everyone etc etc WTF? Could someone explain this type of person to me?

2007-11-04 06:58:12 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel☺ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Tim and Sally dated and stayed together for about 2 years. Sally always asked for more love and romance. But Tim was a typical realistic man. He cared about his job, the bills and etc. He wasn’t the guy who can verbalize love and care. During 2 years, Tim found that Sally was not the one he was looking for. Sally usually stayed home and rarely cleaned. She checked up on Tim’s e-mail, and phone bills to see whom Tim was talking to. She had all these guy friends, but Tim wasn’t allowed to have any female friend. None, period. Although they never cheated each other, there was no trust. Finally, Tim decided to break up. He started to hang out with friends and wanted to get his life back. But a few months later, they were back together mostly because Tim felt sorry for Sally. They ended up getting married. For couple of years, they were doing ok. But either one was happy. Sally asked, “Did you miss me?” and Tim replied, “yeah … (sure).” Tim knew from the beginning that he wasn’t marring a girl who he wanted. But he was hoping that things would change. They enjoyed nothing, such as hobby, even a TV show and music, together. His life sucked. He still had to work and clean. Her life sucked too because she was expected to do a lot of things yet she received little attention and the time together that she wanted. From time to time, Tim found himself living with someone he doesn’t love. And he started thinking of divorce. He was scared of family reaction and other complications from divorcing, and also afraid of that he might never find an attractive, cheerful and domestic woman that he had been dreaming of. Should they settle with what they have, or divorce?

2007-11-04 06:57:40 · 17 answers · asked by Johnny T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes, I am not your common girl. I want to wear a pink suit with a pink hat, and pink heels by myself. This is how I envisioned it all my life without a man. I call my own shots, and don't need a mate to assist me.

Now, my family and relatives are strongly unkind about it, but I am not.
What should I do? As for the registry when it asks for the couple's name, I put mine in and the Church's name. Is that o.k. so guests won't wonder.

2007-11-04 06:57:25 · 16 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

His name is David Charles Galvin he lives in cali. I do not live with him but is there a way of finding my siblings He knows for a fact as well as my mum that I have sisters and brothers out there. I have one out of the country and two here in vegas is there any way of finding them if I know nothing about them no name or anything.

2007-11-04 06:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by Tabbycat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 06:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by me87 3 in Singles & Dating

Like something out of a movie or novel?

2007-11-04 06:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont think i can live here anymore. im 15 and my mum keep threatening to hit me and throws stuff at me. she yells at me for the slightest thing and locks me out the house alot. Once she threw one of my sisters hard toys at me and it hit my head, i had a bruise and i got up the corouge to tell a friend, who told her mum. But my mum just said that i keep telling lies and that i fell over! she also told some of her friends not to let their kids hang out with me becuase i lie alot. I asked her about it and she said "Thats what you get for lying" but i wasnt!!!
Shes fine with my sister but is really mean to me.
Once i didnt want to go out to the park with them and mum said to my sister (3) "oh well we cant go to the park, because your mean sister wont let us so you will just have to go to bed" My sister started crying becuase of this and my mum MADE her go to bed at 5 And said it was my fault!!!!!!
What can i do?!

2007-11-04 06:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia M 1 in Family

Texas hasn't been able to serve him with child support paperwork. They have been absolutely no help. I think he is in Wisconsin, but have not verified it, or can't narrow it down.

2007-11-04 06:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please include wheather you are male or female and your age I am doing this as sort of a survey

2007-11-04 06:32:54 · 35 answers · asked by RoME 1 in Marriage & Divorce