Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

2007-11-04 10:07:29 · 4 answers · asked by kystik83 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't feel like i'm getting any freedom at home and my parents don't trust me to do anything at all. I am only 13 but I do have a job working at Tim Hortans and I go to the local high school. One of my best friends asked her mom if I could move in with them and her mom said yes as long as she can talk to my parents and they say its fine. One problem, I know my parents won't say its fine. How can I move in with them if my parents won't let me?? Help?!?!

2007-11-04 10:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Friends

Okay, so I met this freshman girl in my history class. I had seen her from the first day of school but it took two months for me to actually talk to her. It was because we were assigned to do a project together. Me, being an idiot, didn't even talk to her even until out of school and when I did, it was on AIM. Now, at first she kinda liked the way I acted on the computer. The first few days she would talk to me in class, but I would get a little bit embarassed and shrug her off. I think she caught me staring at her a few times. One day she said bye to me as we left class, but I pretended not to hear her and shrug it off. 'thus, one night when we talk online, she said she can't be friends with people who talk on the computer and not in person. I try ot chill with her after school, but she said she doesn't want to. She IMs me a few times, which lets me know she's interested. However, she keeps saying she likes outgoing people. How can I redeem myself?

2007-11-04 10:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by trungforlife 2 in Singles & Dating

After a night out at the local bar, my ex-husband and I had an intense emotional conversation. We both admitted that we still love each other. It's been 9 years since we divorced. He has re-married and is miserable. I have dated more than my share looking for "the one", with no luck.

Is it true that people tend to be more honest when they are drunk and their guard is down? Or does past experiences shown it to be just "the alcohol talking"?

2007-11-04 10:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by Am I A Mess Or What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About five years ago I found out my husband was cheating on me he swore it would never happen again. It did two years later. When I found out again I didn't want him back but after he swore it wouldn't happen again and he changed careers so he was home everynight instead of out of town I said ok. He says I am always checking up on him and I say yeah cuz you always lie. He doesn't want me to have access to his email or cellphone. He comes home everynight but I still don't trust him. Does the hurt every go away and can I ever learn to trust him?

2007-11-04 10:02:09 · 22 answers · asked by Lilly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 10:00:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 yrs Im 22 yrs old & married when i was 17. It was an arranged marriage & my husband is 22 yrs older then me & Im so unhappy. My husband is not violent towards me in any way & my parents told me to marry him as he had a good buisness running a shop & would be able to keep me in confort he was also a friend of my fathers. But he was 39 when we married & I was only 17 & a virgin. I did not mind giving him my virginity on our wedding night I was his wife & like my mother told me it was my duty to keep him happy in the bedroom. But now 5 yrs on nothing has changed he still want sexsual intercourse 2 to 3 times a day he has forbidden me to wear underwear & he closes his shop (i work there as well) so he can have sex with me. If my parents stay over at our home he deliberately has sex with me in a very loud manner & grunts really loud. now he wants me to sleep with his brother I have already done this for him before only this time he wants to join in What should i do

2007-11-04 09:53:28 · 28 answers · asked by Mckenzie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lately he has been all i can think about. i try so hard to let him go but it just seems harder and harder..it seems like he always makes me think he still has feelings for me but then i find out he likes someone else.but my friends always tell me that they think he still has feelings for me.i really dont know what to do..i want to move on but i miss him so much. what should i do?

2007-11-04 09:50:48 · 28 answers · asked by iloveyou. 1 in Singles & Dating

we just started again about a week ago. He said he was soo happy to hear from me..we talked for about 4 hours straight on msn just about everything that was going on with our lives..he told me he had a new gf that he just started dating a month ago and it didnt bother me what so ever we didnt really discuss that much..he even said he wanted to hang out again since he hadnt seen me for awhile. But then just today on msn he tells me that he doesnt think we should talk anymore because he was talking to some of his friends about it and they didnt agree with it because he has a new gf. It actually really hurt my feelings..soo do any of you have any ideas why he could have totally changed his mind in a matter of a day? Im really confused

2007-11-04 09:38:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ran into my ex's mom today, I got really close to his family when we were dating. She said how al he goes is party now and how she thinks its this girl who hes dating. And how hes letting it affect his school work and job..He broke up with me by the way. She was telling me how I was the best thing to ever happen to him and best thing for him. I'm not a big partier and neither was he until this new girl. She wants me to talk to him...I dont know if I should. I hate to see someone I care about ruin everything after how hard hes worked, Should I talk to him? i honestly think it wont help and he needs to get this realization on his own. I mean clearly his friends wont say anything because they are the same way and have gotten to him. I just feel talking to him no matter what will be interfering.

2007-11-04 09:25:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Who would you consider to be your most influencial mentor?
1. a parent
2. other relative: please specify
3. teacher
4. friend
5. other: please explain

2007-11-04 09:25:05 · 1 answers · asked by Mrs. D 2 in Friends

idno what to say I feel so bad, his brother lived in louisianna, we live in new jersey. I did the usual I'm so sorry is there anything I can do, and all that. but I feel bad, should I change the subject? or talk it out? hes really quiet and I want him to be okay. tomorrow I'm going to see him so should I just hug him&&tell him its going to be okay.

2007-11-04 09:21:37 · 4 answers · asked by JennJenn 2 in Singles & Dating

Earlier today I packed my computer to go to the library. My boyfriend left the house and I needed to check the library hours (couldn't remember if opened at 1 or 2). I used his computer, checked library hours and checked other websites I usually frequent (news sites). Beacuse i'm used to the news website populating on my computer, I hit enter when a site came up on his.
Well, a sex site came up! At first I thought I typed the wrong thing in. But, it was something he looked at. I was devistated. I looked in his history and found that on Thursday he looked at this site, and when I clicked on some of the links a "how to view videos" came up. There were only 9 or10 pages viewed. Also in history - 2 or 3 personal listings on craigslist that he viewed.
I am so upset. We have been best friends for 8 years, and together for 3. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I don't want to break up, as I love and trust him. I don't want him to think I was snooping, but need to bring this up

2007-11-04 09:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by sara123par456 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like crying.
emotional.
depressed.
i don't like what i look like right now.
idk y. it's sad. i know.

but i have this urge to cry.
especially with all this sad music.
damn. ^^ to :"(

wth?!

2007-11-04 09:13:00 · 1 answers · asked by IMBroken 2 in Singles & Dating

I was getting ready to make the alterations to it and I found pen ink on the front. It's already bad enough that there was pet hair all over it but now all of a sudden there are pen ink marks?! Please help!

2007-11-04 09:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by adidas7fire 1 in Weddings

OK so the thing is I used to go out with this guy about 1 year ago now . . .
It lasted about 7 months and I really enjoyed it when I was with him.
I wasn't the one who decided to call it off he said he felt uncomfortable as we were such good friends before.
Now one year on he has asked me out again and made a pretty bad attempt at trying to kiss me.
I told him I'd sleep on it.
The problem is is that when I'm away from him I really miss him but when I'm with him he freaks me out . . .
please help
confused
xx

2007-11-04 09:08:33 · 1 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok... so I am SUPER shy!!! Like everyone knows me as the really quiet girl... and I am absolutely in love with this guy in my grade. He is sooo hot and tall and funny and omg amazing! lol but I'm not really good friends with any guys so I don't know how to talk to him! I smile at him all the time and laugh and his jokes and stuff - but how can I get him to notice me? and remember that I am soo shy and I'm not the super flirty type of girl! PLZ give me advice!!! THANK YOU!

2007-11-04 09:06:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I, a girl, made it known to a guy that I liked him. Not in words though. By the way I acted, nervous, giggly, etc. But I didn't have actual intentions. The guy had a girlfriend but I didn't know since we hardly spoke just a few words. Over several months, he would do various acts of kindness & little things to show that he liked me back. When he did, I backed off, then became flirty again. Regardless, no dates, no spoken "I like you." I started to flirt with other guys in front of him & the guy flips out. Starts yelling at me, being really mean like I led him on. Wasn't I being led on if he had a girlfriend? Wasn't it just friendly fun?
1). Am I at fault?
2). Did I deserve that type of mean treatment?

2007-11-04 09:06:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read in a magazine that guys like it, when their kissing a girl, that the girl touches his check and face. What other things do guys like?

2007-11-04 09:03:36 · 2 answers · asked by ♥hugglez♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Did I act appropriate> I told her nicely to put her clothes on and leave this party don't come back?

She disrupted my party and I feel that she was way out of line doing that. She was infact drunk, but not on my beer we had on her own Vodka she brought.

2007-11-04 09:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's not into computer games at all, no porny or rude suggestions thanks. All other suggestions welcome.

2007-11-04 09:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by helen p 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My youngest daughter is a freshman in collgege. She has a learning disability and she did not do very well in high school (SAT WISE).

She got accepted granted she took a summer start program. She did it and passed! I feel this school is helping my daughter succeed toward her future. Because of her disability they are allowing her to create her classes earlier then all of the rest of the students As well as she is getting counciling and getting a student tutor for her one class! Many schools would not offer this kind-of assistance!!

I will admit my daughter had a VERY rought start to college. Moved in with a good friend...friend moved out due to illness, daughter got stuck with a Jehova Wittness with which my daughter had to move out (the girl was crazy) then my daughter was placed in the sports dorm! She hated it there so housing moved her to her own dorm in another building until next semester when she will be moving to ANOTHER DORM to live with her friend!

2007-11-04 08:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okee dokee so idk what i should do ( i'm 14 he's 16 just to let you know)
the guy i like supposably doesn't like me ....... well thats what my freind said because she asked him but he FLIRTS like crazy , he calls me "baby" , we make plans to hang out , we talk everyday on aim , on the phone ........ and some reason he knows just what to say and when to say It , he makes me laugh ...... but the thing is is that he's only into sex ya know that stuff .... and he asked if i would have sex with him and all that so i said yes and blah blah blah .... but i don't get it he says he only wants to be friends but then why does he want to have sex with me all the ttime??? confused much?? idk though i need help!! and everbody says i need to forget him but some of you know how hard it is to just forget about someone you care so much about......UHH help me please!

2007-11-04 08:57:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you get condoms as a minor? Because I want to well, you get it, with my girlfriend but I dont think they will sell any to minors. We cant tell our parents because they're all religious freaks that wont be happy about that. We've been together for a few years, so I really want to go through with this. thanks.

2007-11-04 08:55:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

make a List of the things you do to show your love for that someone in your life you love right now.then compare it with the things you resive in return from that same very person who saying is in love with you .When I think of it I think I love this other person more thatn they do to me,when i watch theyre behaviors and accion.Please share your list and comparation.Thanks in advance.

2007-11-04 08:55:03 · 9 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's this guy and he's in my class alway's trying to make me laugh & all kind of crap, but I'm to shy to ask him if he like's me, So...I asked my friend to ask him for me!! I know she wouldn't lie!! But she said that he said he didn't?!?! how do i know if he like's me?? Yes...I am older than 13!

2007-11-04 08:53:57 · 16 answers · asked by ~Kristen Nickole~ 1 in Singles & Dating

GIRLS NOT ALWAYS BEING WITH THERE BOYFRIEND WE WANT TO BE WITH R FRIENDS TOO.

2007-11-04 08:52:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GIRLS NOT ALWAYS BEING WITH THERE BOYFRIEND WE WANT TO BE WITH R FRIENDS TOO.

2007-11-04 08:51:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 08:51:34 · 3 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5 in Family

2007-11-04 08:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Marriage & Divorce