Okay, so I met this freshman girl in my history class. I had seen her from the first day of school but it took two months for me to actually talk to her. It was because we were assigned to do a project together. Me, being an idiot, didn't even talk to her even until out of school and when I did, it was on AIM. Now, at first she kinda liked the way I acted on the computer. The first few days she would talk to me in class, but I would get a little bit embarassed and shrug her off. I think she caught me staring at her a few times. One day she said bye to me as we left class, but I pretended not to hear her and shrug it off. 'thus, one night when we talk online, she said she can't be friends with people who talk on the computer and not in person. I try ot chill with her after school, but she said she doesn't want to. She IMs me a few times, which lets me know she's interested. However, she keeps saying she likes outgoing people. How can I redeem myself?
2007-11-04 10:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by trungforlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, I definitely don't want to seem like a loser or a stalker for attempting to talk with her too much. I don't even want her to think I need her too much. How do I show this attitude along trying to be friendlly and outgoing?
2007-11-04 10:16:55 · update #1
Try this - Be HONEST.
Tell her that you are an outgoing person, but that every time you see her you get all flibberty gibbeted inside and feel like you will act like an idiot. Tell her you really like her and that it's taken you 2 months to even say hello. Wait and see what she says in return. Good luck.
PS - You are so very young...don't worry, it will all come to you in due time....it's a learning thing right now.
2007-11-04 10:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by delanabobana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to work on being able to talk to her in person. Start off by talking about things that you do in chat. Let the conversation progress from there. I think her looking at you is what is intimidating you. Maybe try to imagine that you are talking to her on the computer. Just try not to use the chat language like "LOL" and "BFF". : )
2007-11-04 18:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious dude? You have to be more outgoing. You have to stop acting like you don't like her and show her that you do before someone else steps up and does!!
2007-11-04 18:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by angelajsk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't just change yourself to be outgoing. It doesn't work that way. Be yourself, and move on. She probably just likes you as a friend. Deal with it, and move on.
2007-11-04 18:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her at school, dont im her until you ask to chill with her after school in person. dont talk to her on aim at all. unless she talks to you first, but if you really like her, talk to her in person, trust me, its better anyway
2007-11-04 18:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, you blew it.
2007-11-04 18:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋