Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

2007-11-04 12:15:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 12:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, the last past weeks, I've been harassed by other guys who was in this class. I got a note with really gross, intimidating, sexual content, and I'm only 14. I'm semi-religious.
I was so sad, I almost cried when I saw my best guy friend. He comforted me, and I felt really.. its hard to explain.. happy.
Later that day, I got an email from my guy friend (he never checks his emails, hes pretty much an unsocial boy who's very nerdy) saying really sweet things. I was so happy because he was the first one who emailed me about that. He's like the first friend who cares about me deeply, even in the inside. (most of my friends care about me just on the outside.)

I used to have a crush on my guy freind last year, and now all I want is him to be there for me the whole time, well, he is right now, but I want to be more than freinds with him.

What do I do? He's a nerd, and he was never ready for going out or anything.
BTW on the harrassment, I'm telling on my counselor.

2007-11-04 12:13:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I get around child support or get around it, if the person having the baby is not even a resident of the united states. I know there has to be a way..... But problem is Im married to her already. Nothing is impossible....there is way out of everything.

2007-11-04 12:12:45 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 12:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by jaime s 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I've known this girl for about 3 years, and we've always had atleast one class. I liked her sophomore year, when she broke up with a guy, but then after a while she started to date another guy, one of the ppl i got to know later on and becoming really good friends with. then she would always get into trouble with him and I would have to help them out ( talking to them, trying to convince them that they still love each other, even though i still had a lil crush on her, I just wanted to see them, mostly her, happy. Now its senior year and she broke up with that guy ( i think?) and i have found out that I am just falling in love with her after i took her to homecoming, it was the best night of my life we just danced the night away. But i don't know if she likes me? we talk but sometimes i just don't know? I just get a gut feeling sometimes that she doesnt like me, or am i just doubting myself?

2007-11-04 12:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by SCHWAA 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-04 12:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seen a guy about 3 or 4 times in the past 3 weeks or so. I actually met him last summer, we had ONS type deal. I got his # but never called him because he didnt seem interested. Our mutual friend would tell me he'd been asking for me tho. So i added him to myspace, he wrote back immediately and said we should meet up. Shortly after we did. I ended up having sex with him...since then we've met 3 times, had sex on 2 of those times. I saw him last night and i've finally realized that we just have nothing in common and he is cold and i think a player! I feel like crap! I have been the one to do drive to his place, i even mentioned that today and he goes, yeah it's been pretty sweet. Then i left today, no hug, no kiss, no plans to go out again. I'm just done. I always fall for the bad boys...but now we have mutual friends so i'm sure ill be hearing about him...he also has a 4 month old baby...is not with the mother. He's 29, hangs out with 21 year olds. I feel dumb!!!

2007-11-04 12:02:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get over him and I think maybe a rebound will help...Or is that a bad idea?

2007-11-04 12:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for about 5 months. I have caught her twice lying to me about hanging out with "guy friends" as she calls them. Blatent, well constructed lies. She doesnt know that I have caught her. We recently broke up, she accused me of not trusting her and told me how horrible it is to be with someone like me. Should i tell her the truth, so she can face the reality. Or should i just let her continue to live in a fantasy world? I

guess i still care about her and her daughter. I have known her for over 6 years, and she ruined her marriage by cheating on her husband, multiple times. I know i should have known better. But i couldnt help but to see the good in her, i guess i was blinded. ...

2007-11-04 12:00:37 · 3 answers · asked by slabside 1 in Singles & Dating

Help....Is it possible to actually get pregnant from pre-cu*? Or is that unheard of?

2007-11-04 12:00:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've never had a boyfriend before,that's why i'm asking for help.
this guy is cute,funny,smart even i called him the perfect guy but i can't do anything to impress him,i relly like him.
please help!!!

2007-11-04 11:59:20 · 6 answers · asked by suhana 1 in Singles & Dating

would be time better spent. At least eventually u could make money as a therapist.

2007-11-04 11:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by Vegas Mike 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went out to dinner the other night with my brother, his wife and my mom. My brother had gotten a margarita. I asked him if I could have a sip. I asked my mother, she said it was fine, sure, go ahead. So I took a sip. Then she got mad because she had expected me to "use my judgement". Now she's mad at me and thinks I'm irresponsible even though I'm 16, I've never gone to parties, I've never smoked pot, I've never done the things parents worry about their kids doing. So what's up with her reaction if she told me it was fine? I think thats really confusing and I don't think she should have told me I could have a sip if she didn't want me to. What do you think?

2007-11-04 11:57:05 · 27 answers · asked by Speak 5 in Family

15 being charged as a adult. can serve life in prison he's only 15 please help me. Help him

2007-11-04 11:54:31 · 5 answers · asked by Spacious 3 in Family

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?

2007-11-04 11:53:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been interested in this guy for a a bit now. I know he's a player and I've been with him a few times (kisses and cuddles, I've only slept with him once).

I decided even though I was attracted to him I didn't want to date a player so I made up my mind that I would go out with him (he's been asking me out) but I didn't tell my friends about this just yet.

Anyway, one of my friends got drunk on Sat night, had a fight with this guy she had a crush on and called me at 1am in the morning (I was asleep in bed as I had to move house the next day). I picked her up, got her some food and water and listen to her for about 2 hours crying about her crush. I eventually had to go to bed and she called this guy I've liked and asked him to sleep with her. She then woke me up and said I quote "I'm sorry Emma. I know you like ??? but he's coming to pick me up so I can f&*k him"

Who does that. What kind of a friend does this?

2007-11-04 11:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

its about my friend....i worry about her alot...
I am not understanding why men are so stupid???? I have seen men just treat there kids anyway.....It makes me SICK. I know someone who lives this life n i really get tried of seeing it...I have decided to help her get help. But, I really doont know why dads have to be so ABUSIVE. towards there kids. I know men that would make great dads and it makes me sick to see them not able to have kids with there wives.....but, then again ppl like this act this way...always cusing and raising hell....callin her names...and making fun of her.....ppl like this shouldnt ever be a family man....i think he is a DRUCK....Or alteast thats what i hear....But, why do ppl think they can get away with this kind of stuff>????? its alot of depression that goes on....But my boyfreind thinks i should stay out of it.....but, i feel like i should help her.......what should i really do???

2007-11-04 11:46:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just feel sad. like i can't connect with anyone at college. i'm a sophomore at a small catholic school. i don't know if transferring is the answer. i guess i'll try. i just really have not met the people i thought i would in college. those "life long friends" everyone talks about. :(

2007-11-04 11:45:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

was i stupid not to notice,or was she so smart to hide it?
do i contact the man's wife and let her know as i suspect he/they may harm the woman to shack-up with my so-called wife.

2007-11-04 11:40:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is driving me crazy. we have four children already and they are good kids. I am also thinking about a divorce if things don't improve. I have talked till I am blue in the face and it's not working. Help me if you can.

2007-11-04 11:39:43 · 15 answers · asked by Jamie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt and my mom had a small argument about what me and my cousins do. Like she hinted to my mom tht she knows that i've been having sex, doing drugs, driving without my full license, and saying something like u dnt know wht he does at school. All tht stuff is mostly lies. I dnt drink, do drugs, or drive alone. Know in my religion ur not suppose to drink. My cousins are like the worst. They drink, do weed, moke ciggerattes nd do all tht crap. She basically thinks im the bad influence on her kids. Know i think she found out by once i told hger kids tht i was seeing this girl tht i was totally in love with. I told them to keep it a secret. I think they told which is a ***** move. I kept all of there secrets for so long.

My mom said to my aunt tht ur son does weed, which is true. I didn't tell my ,mom tht somone else did. Her son lied to her. Like im pissed out of my mind right know. Like what right does my aunt have of saying all this bull**** about me, which is barely true. cont'd

2007-11-04 11:38:12 · 4 answers · asked by the i code 3 in Family

I found my little half sister on Facebook that I had only met once and I haven't seen her or my father for about 11 years or so. I contacted her with a fake Facebook account because I did not want to invite her to my friends list if it was the wrong person. When I found out it was really her I canceled the fake account and reinvited her to my real one. Ever since I did that she refuses to talk to me and won't even tell me why she doesn't want to talk. This is very strange because she had told me that she had some things she wanted to tell me and even asked me if she was coming on too strong. I told her of course not, I have always loved you, etc.
My dad and my grandparents had mentioned something about her possibly being jealous and my dad said something about her always having what she wanted and being the apple of his eye. I don't feel she has any reason to be jealous. Can someone please shed some light on this situation?! Thanks.

2007-11-04 11:36:44 · 37 answers · asked by Eric 4 in Family

what going through your mind when your kissing someone? ;]

2007-11-04 11:33:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To be more specific, do you like girls who are hardcore or girly?

2007-11-04 11:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by Emma 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a hansome, fun, personable, hardworking manly husband. How do I keep him from giving in to flirtacious females ?

2007-11-04 11:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would their inexperience be a good/bad thing?

2007-11-04 11:30:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-04 11:24:38 · 3 answers · asked by femmejouet 1 in Friends

We move out of state live our friends and be close to my husband mother, becouse my family live in Europe. We have baby my son 11 month .I was thinking my mother in law be close to my son grove up with same family members. And we move. Here dont have no friends , she no visiting to see her grandson for 5 month , from my house to hers 15minuts, all the time we go visit her but she never come to see grandson. And i get angry stop visiting . NO fiting no nothing. She have son he 23years He get some girl pregnant bolth dont live togeher dont communicat with her. But my mother in law everyday visiting that girl and her grandson .And i in family for 4 years married her older son ,work have help her.

2007-11-04 11:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by tina 1 in Family

2007-11-04 11:21:34 · 3 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating