How can I get around child support or get around it, if the person having the baby is not even a resident of the united states. I know there has to be a way..... But problem is Im married to her already. Nothing is impossible....there is way out of everything.
2007-11-04 12:12:45 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As far as I'm concerned, no man should have to pay child support if he doesn't want to be involved with a kid, even if he's the biological father. Women are always talking about their "right to choose" - the right to "do what they want with their bodies," the right to have an abortion, or even put a kid up for adoption. If she CHOOSES to have/keep/raise a child, she should learn how to support herself and the child, not freeload off a hardworking man who doesn't want anything to do with her. IF she didn't want to get pregnant she also could have CHOSEN to keep her legs closed and her panties on.
2007-11-04 13:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is why would you not want to support your child??? No matter whether she is a resident of the US or not, it is your child and you're responsible. And if you are a US citizen and married her, I'm sorry to inform you the child will be a US citizen. How sorry can you be to not want to support your own child? That is what is wrong with today's generation. Not wanting to take responsibility. You should have thought about that before you had your good time. Stand up and be a man. Don't worry...a judge will make sure you do if you choose not to. I have to say that father's (and mother's) who do not want to support their children are the lowest life on this planet.
2007-11-04 12:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by swtserenity43 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fight to win custody. Fight hard.
Otherwise, state agencies tend to hunt down fathers as if they were escaped convicts from the get-go. It wins politicians votes and it makes state child support agencies much much wealthier.
If you quit your job, all the court will do is use what is known as "imputed income". In other words even if you are making no money at all, they will still put an order into effect making you obligated to pay an amount as if you WERE working! It is absolutely OUTRAGEOUS and it quite frankly stinks.
Definitely hire a lawyer and don't give up until you have your child.
2007-11-08 05:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by JoannaB3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why running around the bush man. You are married to this woman but what you don't want is to have a child by her. In other words you don't want to share the responsibility of raising that child.And perhaps you are thinking to get ride of the pregnancy before the child is born. As man to man, that's really pathetic. This is the best suggestion for you to do since you don't want that child. Let the mother give birth to the baby she is carrying. That child might one day be the next great leader on this country. When s/he is born, since you don't want to pay eve child support, give up your parental rights. So someone else will raise him/her up but when he matures be prepared because s/he would hunt you. So once you give up your rights you will have to divorce his/.her mom so you move on with your live
2007-11-04 12:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is also taking a DNA test if it is proven not to be yours by that test you no longer have to pay for child support and the court can see to that she gives you all of your money back and they will have her find the real father
2015-07-10 22:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Howard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raise the child yourself.
If a marriage goes down the drain, well, that's too bad but it happens -- two adults are involved and maybe they made a bad decision. A failed marriage doesn't make you a failure.
Failing as a father, however, DOES. A child had no say in the matter, and it is YOUR CHILD. Either help raise him/her, or provide for the child's welfare. Fail as a father and you fail as a man.
2007-11-04 12:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Same old story...Men Want the action, but don't want the responsibility. Next time cover it up or get sniped, this way you won't have the responsibility of unwanted children. We do it to four legged animals, we should do it to the two legged dogs in this life. And you're married to this women... Get a Lawyer. They'll cost you, but you'll get the best answer from one.
2007-11-04 12:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by agatha_amber 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a single mom and he will pay no baby help. What i are not getting is why my soliciting for baby help is 'revenge'... My baby care on my own took greater then what the baby help grew to become into.. so his funds went to childcare... and that i pay the nutrition, diapers, relax of the childcare.. and all the different stuff that takes alot of money, ballet, college aspects, birthday events, and so on... his baby help lined part of the childcare in common terms.. and now he won't pay something... And adult males paying and then seeing the baby 'to get their funds's nicely worth'... that makes me mad. As for oldsters who prefer to regulate their childrens and think of their grandchildren are bastards and could have not been born... that makes me reallly mad. this isn't any longer the old international anymore... and administration and guilting your infants whilst all they like is love and acceptence and a solid relationship with them... I found out one element. i will do it on my very very own. I moved faraway from the controlling kin. i'll college and don't ask for baby help. Why? reason whilst i'm on my own with my existence and my childrens and no one attempting to regulate me and critisizing me on a daily basis... without them.. .i'm happy.. and my childrens are happier whilst i'm happy
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2016-08-26 05:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened between you and this woman the baby she is carrying is still YOUR child. Don't you think you should MAN UP and take care of him/her? That child didn't ask to be created and shouldn't suffer because you don't want to help out with money.
Way to be selfish.
2007-11-04 12:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jena 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋