Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

Well for 1 i seen my husbands car yesterday driving down the road when he was supposed too be at work another reason is there is a girl one of his friends sisters and he always goes too there house and i am not allowed too go a few weeks ago she had a birthday party and she invited my husband me and my 2 babies and he would not let me go cause i had the babies he always talkes too her on the phone another reason is when i get out of his car i fix the seat belt a certain way and the seat and the next time i get in there its not the same way he is african so when he talkes too them i have no idea what he is saying

2007-11-04 14:47:13 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How, do I stop attracting evil women? It seems only evil women like me and nice girls don't. Is there any spray I can put on or anything i can do to utterly repell evil women?

2007-11-04 14:46:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering if the signs I'm seeing could be signs of my 11 year old little sister being pregnant...

to start off, she's always been big and chubby, but the last few times I've seen her (I only see her about twice a week) she's grown a lot tummy-wise... she eats twice as much as usual, and goes to the restroom way too often... I know she started having periods when she was 10 but it's impossible to tell if she's having them now...

I wanna talk to people in my family about it, but some people such as my mom, see her as a saint and would probably kill me if I ever said anything like that so I don't wanna tell anyone so that it could get back to mom... I told my math teacher who I've grown to trust more than anyone so it's partially out, but not too far...

any advice?

2007-11-04 14:46:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my dad is about to leave for 8 months because he's in the military :( i want to feel better what should i do to keep 4rm crying please ??????????????????????

2007-11-04 14:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family

My stepdaughter and I have been having so many problems I am getting to the point that moving her into a tent in the yard is a wonderful idea.She is causing so many problems when her dad isn't home that I had to record her for him to see.Now he believes me.Today she tells me that she doesn't want me around any more and to stop acting like a mom.Going to be very hard to do since she lives with us - my husband has sole physical and legal custody of her - and I have no choice but to perform the role of mom.For the last 6 months she has become a huge thorn in my side.My husband and I decided today that I am no longer going to be a mom to her.She is to do everything herself.The funny thing is she keeps coming to me for help.I tell her to call her mom and ask her.She then says my mom won't do it.I say well then I sorry you asked me to stop being a mom and that is what I am doing.She has a rude awakening - her mom lost custody of her for a reason and it wasnt because she is a good mom.

2007-11-04 14:41:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my BF have been together for 4 years.We had a truly amazing relationship until last year.In a period of 8 months we went thru total hell. There was dishonesty and infidelty. He hurt me beyond words, never physically but his actions were utterly heartbreaking for a periodof 8 months. When I found out he cheated I left him. After alot of begging from his part I decided to give our love another chance. He has completely turned around, he treats me like a queen, gives me love, attention and anything a woman could ever ask for BUT I cant help but to be mistrusting and pessimistic. I cant let go of the past and I keep reminding myself of all the ways he hurt me. I cant stop replaying the lies and all the broken promises. I dont trust him although he has given me the total freedom to look thru ALL his stuff whenever I want to insure me he has nothing to hide. I love him and want things to work out but I need help on how to move on from the past cause Im driving myself crazy.

2007-11-04 14:41:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The baby died of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). This is such a good family, I wish there was more that I can do. The who community has pitched in to help, but it doesn't seem like enough. So if you have any suggestions, please let me know. Thank you.

2007-11-04 14:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by cnhanna87 5 in Family

sorry if the title makes me sound pathetic. there's this girl in my science class who i really like. she's friends with a friend of mine, and sometimes i catch her and her friend and i want to talk to her (the girl i like) but i can never think of anything to say. anytime i ever try to talk to a girl i like, one of three things seem to happen: i don't say anything at all (because i can't think of anything); i say something, but it's either really stupid or obnoxious (whatever is the first thing to come to mind) even though i don't mean to be that way; or i say something and i choke on the words or my throat goes dry (usually happens when i plan beforehand what to say to someone).

i really like this girl, but i don't really know her too much. i don't know any hobbies or anything about her that could possibly start a conservsation, other than that she's in a class with me (and i don't want to talk about that because it sounds stupid).

any tips / suggestions?

2007-11-04 14:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by chanology 1 in Singles & Dating

guys if you had an option between two girls which would you choose

1. - 5'7'' athletic build, long wavy brown hair, green eyes and pretty face...likes cheerleading+dance, shy, funny/outgoing as you become friends, nice

2- 4'9, skinny, medium straight hair, brown eyes and pretty face...likes theatre and piano, outgoingg/funny, speaks her mind(good/bad)


just wonderinggg :)

2007-11-04 14:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and her husband have been having some rough times, just had a second baby, and are horrible communicators with one another. Lately the following has happened and I keep thinking he's cheating - am I onto something or do you think I've seen too many Lifetime movies?
1) He goes to work early and comes home late
2) He acts like he is in his early 20's as opposed to his real age - late 30's - by partying a lot, hanging out with friends a lot, etc.
3) He's been helping a "friend" at work who is going through a divorce and is a single mom - giving her furniture and rides home from work . He only shared this with my friend after she found a tube of mascara in his backseat.
4) He didn't take her to an end of the season baseball party because he said she was a "buzz kill" and would hound him to go home if it got too late to relieve the sitter, etc.
5) He always makes her feel like she is in the wrong if she questions anything.

So, am I reading into it?

2007-11-04 14:33:41 · 19 answers · asked by mama love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So my husband got a really good job at a really good company. Coincidentally, my cousin also works there.

As a kindness, my husband put her name down in the "referral" box on his application. When he got the job, my cousin received a $2,500 incentive bonus because the company thought that she referred him. She did not refer him or help him get the job in anyway - she didn't even know the position was open until after he interviewed and put her name in.

So she got $2,500 for doing absolutely nothing, and my husband didn't get so much as a 'thank you'. Really, she didn't even say thank you.

She sends thank you notes to other people for things (like when my mother helped her move).

Then, to add insult to injury, my father overheard her talking to a group of people at a neighborhood get-together. She was telling everyone that SHE got my husband the job - as if she was the one who did US a favor!!! My father set her straight right there.

Opinions please?

2007-11-04 14:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My parents, particularly my mom has done so much to hurt me, and I know she doesn't care. She lies, she's insensitive, she's demeaning and she really doesn't even care how much she hurts me. I'm hoping that someone can relate or at least that someone out there has parents that are there for them. I don't really know what to do. How can it be that the people that are supposed to be the ones I can depend on would stab me in the back. What do I do?

2007-11-04 14:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

first off i am 14

ok so i have been going out with this guy for about two months
he has asked me if i wanted to kiss him and i said yes but we never did. he also ask me if i wanted to make out. i have never kissed someone before and i really really want to kiss him. thhe next time i can is on wednesday. what should i do? should i ask him or just go for it? i am so scared but if i dont kiss him soon i am going to go crazy!

2007-11-04 14:24:47 · 25 answers · asked by baby_girl. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 14:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by kilay2007 1 in Singles & Dating

No rude comments please, but please let me know if you agree with me that it's messed up for my mom to stay with my step-father who molested me.

I'm 24 and recently told my mom what my step-dad did as a child. While she's angry at him, she thought "we should stay with him so he can give a roof over our head. I don't have enough money blah blah" He works out of town right now, but he visits every month and expects me to treat him like a real father. Our family is East Indian, so culturally my mom doesn't know how to be independent and is scared of the world. But by staying marrie him, is she indirectly saying that money and family reputation is more important than what happened to me and my psychological health? My step-dad knows that we need him for money, and he takes advantage of that and verbally abuses my mom for it. My solution is is that I'm going to move out on my own, even though my mom is getting mad at me for it. I will find a way to financially support myself.

2007-11-04 14:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a newlywed and not too experienced in the marriage department just yet.

2007-11-04 14:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by coolgal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ummm if ur 14 and you have family problems can u dicied not to live with them? if so is there other homes or places u can help out and they can lamd u a hand?

2007-11-04 14:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by alkqn 1 in Family

Your Aunt(mother's sister) got married and her husbands(now uncle through marraige), his daughter from a previous marriage,has a son...Is he 1.)your cousin? 2.)your cousin by marriage or 3.)no relation?

2007-11-04 14:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by Loving the parent life 2 in Family

like I'm not getting much outta my angels as far as questions, hellos, I send them to get the grocerys..etc, etc,..hehehehe..

2007-11-04 14:15:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-04 14:11:46 · 40 answers · asked by stunner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friends birthday is comming up and I don't know what to give her! My budget is $150 Canadian dollars. She loves fashion, make up, fun things, GIRLY STUFF. Even if it is not girly, if its unique, she'd still love it! Shes a teen so nothing too old or young. What would you want? Please help me thanks!

2007-11-04 14:08:50 · 16 answers · asked by Dreamy 3 in Friends

deceased father left inheritance approximately 22 years ago, in memphis TN., just became aware of the monies from long lost siblings on fathers side. Where do I start?

2007-11-04 14:08:24 · 2 answers · asked by skooters78shovel 1 in Family

2007-11-04 14:06:57 · 18 answers · asked by tali k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its almost christmas i really want this phone!!!!!!!!!!!1
also reasons why teens like myself need one!

2007-11-04 14:04:03 · 7 answers · asked by Kay-Kay 1 in Family

She is driving me nuts. For now she is living here along with my aunt and her baby brother. Wow she is a complete brat. I help her with her homework and she starts getting mad because i make her read the directions instead of giving her the answers. She comes in my room without knocking and Ive discovered her Brat toys in my room (she comes in when I'm not home and plays with my stuff). She is constantly lying about everything and she wont shut up about her dad which she knows no one on her mom's side likes( the guy cheated on my aunt and they got a divorce but she doesn't know he cheated on her mom)She insults me and talks back all the time. It's like she wants to grow up and be a teenager already, she wants to wear make up, she wants to wear heals, she is dying to wear short clothes. Also, she talks A LOT!!!. She is driving me crazy, every time i see her she bugs me. What do I do to to try and avoid this feeling. Ive tried avoiding her but she follows me.

2007-11-04 14:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by FishyFace 4 in Family

2007-11-04 14:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by thatoneblackchic22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 14:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by karr_vas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So when you date, you just go out usually to the movies with a guy?
But you guys like each other, you're just not boyfriend and girlfriend.
Kay.
So lets say you know this guy.
He asks you to be his girlfriend.
You accept.
And go on dates.

But if a guy asks you out.
And you accept.
You guys just go out on dates?
Does this involve kissing?
If it does, are you officially bf & gf?

Or is it something totally different?
And does it mean bf & gf is someone says "I'm dating this guy?"

I'm just confused.
So if you could, help me to have a better understanding of this.

2007-11-04 14:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by Peace Love and Bubblegum 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and im pretty sure im gonna move in w/ my bf. he is 17 and the financial issue isnt a problem. my mom and dad r divorced and i currently live w/ my dad and step sister. my dad is away alot and its usually me and my friends at home. the father could be my bf or my other friend andy who is 15. should i give my baby my last name or his/her father's last name????? also should i move in w/ my boyfriend????

2007-11-04 14:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm about ready to give up. I've been rejected by about 15 different girls. My confidence is in the toilet. I'm a nice guy, and I don't understand why no one will even give me a chance. Girls have laughed at me, lied to me, and just flat out rejected me when I've asked them out, and these were girls that I thought I was friends with. I am good looking, even though I'm somewhat on the chubby side. I've fallen in love and had my heart broken many times. Some say they just want to be friends, but I have friends, and I'm not looking for more. There's a void in my life I need to fill, I need to be in a relationship. I need someone to think I'm number one, to be excited to see me, to feel for me what I feel for them. I've been through a suicidal phase, and the only thing that got me through it was the thought that I have a very bright future ahead of me. I've never kissed, never gone on a date, never had a girlfriend. I just want to know, what's wrong with me? What am I supposed to do?

2007-11-04 13:58:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating