first off i am 14
ok so i have been going out with this guy for about two months
he has asked me if i wanted to kiss him and i said yes but we never did. he also ask me if i wanted to make out. i have never kissed someone before and i really really want to kiss him. thhe next time i can is on wednesday. what should i do? should i ask him or just go for it? i am so scared but if i dont kiss him soon i am going to go crazy!
2007-11-04 14:24:47 · 25 answers · asked by baby_girl. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Hon..
It's quite possible that he's just as scared as you are..
So why don't you just go for it.
Remember, your first kiss is something special, something you're going to remember for a life time.But you're also going to have a lot more kissing ahead of you..And practice will make perfect! :)
So.. you be the one to initiate the first kisses, don't rush .. First. along his top lip,a little tongue, and gently suck and kiss across his top lip, and then his bottom lip..nice a soft..He should take it from there..
Remember nice and soft and sensual...
Good Luck Hon!
2007-11-04 14:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Well, I remember my " first kiss" was about the age of 13 so this is a perfect time. I know how nervewracking it can be and how scared you probably are. But remember, its something you can share with this guy that no other person is sharing w/ him at that very moment..so it will be special, no matter what-as long as you dont allow it to go any further than that! *thats the mother in me talking-sorry..ahahah... Anyways, I feel you should go for it when the time is right and you'll BOTH know when that time is. If you're worried about being bad at it or not knowing what to do-DONT. Think about what he may be feeling? He may be concerned about the very same things even if he's kissed another girl before. He doesnt know unless you tell him. Once you do it, practice! ahha. And every time thereafter will be great. I remember when I kissed a boy for the first time and after that, I wanted to KISS ALL the time...ahahhah. Good luck.
2007-11-04 14:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it!
I mean don't just do it out of the blue while hes not paying attention because that might not blow over too well...
but...
Just be like - "hey..." like get his attention and move kinda close to his face. If he wants to do it then he'll move the rest of the way.
:] As for making out...if you're not ready for it, you DON'T have to do it. Kissing like that can lead to other things, and since you've never kissed a guy before I'm pretty sure you're not any where near being ready for all that.
But if you're comfortable...just do it. It all comes naturally :]
2007-11-04 14:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea.dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get really close 2 him...In a comfortable spot...just make it eazyer 4 the kiss to happen...n if u have 2 me the 1 to do it do it...cuz u want to.
2007-11-04 14:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by HighRoller20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Just kiss him
2. Start to unzip his pants.
3. Get him naked.
4. Do some Oral.
5. PLay around a bit.
6. And then go home.
2007-11-04 14:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just kiss the boy and get it over with. But kissing only!
2007-11-04 14:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ladybug II 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just go for it b/c guys like a confedante girl who is willing to put hrself out there
so just kind of kiss him
i did it on halloween and since we haven't fought at all
2007-11-04 14:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Savvy :) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From all that I have seen on TV news and read in the newspapers, sounds like you are a little behind your peers.
Really, haven't been kissed, well, might as well join the others and catch up.
Your only 14, so you have a lota lota lota lota lota kissing ahead.
Good luck.
2007-11-04 14:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sgt Big Red 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go for it as if he is your boyfriend then he wants to kiss you too but is too shy, he won't push you away so go ahead and be a horny tart, don't stick your tongue in until he does
2007-11-04 14:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him! Don't THINK, just ACT. With kissing, it's very much a contact sport.
2007-11-04 14:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by peersignal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋