how would i know if my husband is cheating on me and where would be the most likely place too hide his condoms

Question

Well for 1 i seen my husbands car yesterday driving down the road when he was supposed too be at work another reason is there is a girl one of his friends sisters and he always goes too there house and i am not allowed too go a few weeks ago she had a birthday party and she invited my husband me and my 2 babies and he would not let me go cause i had the babies he always talkes too her on the phone another reason is when i get out of his car i fix the seat belt a certain way and the seat and the next time i get in there its not the same way he is african so when he talkes too them i have no idea what he is saying

Answer 1

Why the hell do you let him boss you around, telling you that you HAVE to stay home and take care of the babies?!?!?!

Tell him to keep his sorry a$$ home with the kids!!

Don't put up with that $hit!

Answer 2

Put your foot down!!!!!!
If he can't speak English in your presence then tell him to get the hell of the phone around you because it is ignorant to talk another language knowing that you don't speak the language and he's disrespecting you! Furthermore there is no such thing as he don't allow you to go no where with him because of the babies because guess what he wouldn't go either for that matter..... There shouldn't be anywhere that you all shouldn't be able to go as a family unit!!!!!!!! Explain to him on a straight up level that you are questioning his relationship outside of your marriage with the sister girlfriend and don't volunteer to him that you saw his car when he was suppose to be at work! Sit on it! Men are sloppy! Whatever done in the dark, always come to light!!!!!!!! Don't ask anymore questions.... The next time he comes off like you can't go with him anywhere! Keep your mouth shut! Find a baby sitter and let him go and then just show up unannounced!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Disrupt his entire world by being on sight for everything and you can pretty much feel a vibe once your there!!!!!!!!!!! Allow him to hang himself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Never fails if you do it that way it'll come out!!!!!!!! Being married you already know you have the right to know anything in or out of your relationship and if he can't understand that then tell him tough cookie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

First of all if he is cheating just hope he has been using condoms. Well, I was in your shoes years ago and I asked my husband if something was going on and he lied over and over again the truth finally came out seven years later. You questioning him will probably make him more careful if he is cheating. You have the advantage that I did not. You know the woman he might be cheating with. So ask her and him together or separately. Just be straight up and ask. Usually you can get all the information from the woman than you will from your husband. But when you get ready to ask make sure you are prepared for the answer. Good luck. Hope you get the answers you need.

Answer 4

Why do you even want to know if he cheating. If you knew what would you do and how would you handle the situation. Think about what I am trying to tell you. If yee shall seek yee shall find. I found my spouse was cheating and I was so hurt that it ruined my marriage forever. I could never trust him at all and I end up making the same mistake only he didn't forgive me for what I did like I had done him. My point is that the best defense for your feelings is the best offense. Show him how strong you are and move about your life and take care of your babies. If he is cheating it will surface I assure you. When it does be strong. God bless

Answer 5

Hi,

you seem to have doubts about your husbands actions.

Points to note are

1) when your husband talks to this particular girl does he get excited or agitated and does he cut the conversation or goes to another room to speak. after his conversation with this person does he become hostile to you

2) you say that he drives down when he has to be in office. Does his job involve only being in the office or does it involve meeting people outside

3) the position of the car seat may not necessarily be an indication because maybe if his friends who travel in the car may use the seat belts

so make sure if you have clear indications

Answer 6

Ok first off, learn to put some commas and/or periods in your sentences.

Ok let's see, they most likely place would be in his car, and not just in the glove compartment. Also, try the most obvious place, his pants pocket and/or wallet.

See if you can find someone that speaks his language and spark up a "friendship", that way when he is on the phone, she can "interpret" for u.

Answer 7

It sounds like he is cheating to me. I would look in shoes that are in his closet, pockets of jackets or pants that are in his closet, in his glove box, trunk and the console if he has one. I would call him at work if I see him when he is suppose to be there. I would also trust my gut on this. You are not allowed to go? Big red flag. He hangs out with women but you are not allowed to go. I would not put up with this. I would do whatever it takes to find out if he is cheating very quickly. I hope for your sake that he is not. Good luck dear.

Answer 8

The best thing I ever read about cheating...is if your gut instinct tells you he is cheating, and it won't go away...then he is. And, what makes you think he is using condoms? If he is irresponsible enough to cheat...why all of a sudden would he be responsible with condoms?

You know deep down what your heart and gut instinct is telling you, and you need to trust your instincts.

Answer 9

Check his glove compartment and under the seats. Just pray he is using condoms if he's cheating.

Answer 10

get out and do some investigating on your own time when he's gone go see for yourself. either you ignore it or you confront it. but when you confront it be ready to do what you have to do