Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

I am having really a hard time thinking whether its worth leaving my husband for someone whos really alot better in a sense that this someone seems to be the guy I could really see my self spending the rest of my life with.. Since I have kids.. I want advice whether I should go for someone that can makes me happier or I'll just stick to my husband because of my kids?

2007-11-04 17:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by zelda z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

""it was of all the relationships youve had what one were you more involved with?""

It was directed to my gf. Anyhow she refused to answer the question. She said she didnt want to hurt my feelings.....

We been dating for a month and shes 17 im 19. SHould I be concerned??

2007-11-04 17:23:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 17:23:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 17:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 17:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by francisco g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 13 I made an oath to God that I would not have sex until I was married. I'm now 17. I haven't. In fact I haven't even kissed a guy yet. Lately though I've been wondering if maybe I should. I mean maybe then guys would go out with me. Maybe I would not have such a hard time finding a boyfriend or even a date. I know virginity is one special and to rare. And I'm not the type of girl that would just go out and do it with the first guy I saw. At the same time I have fears of one breaking and oath made to God and two regretting having sex if I'm not ready. Please if anyone has some good advice I would greatly appreciate it. I don't know where else to go. It's not like i can talk to any of the people that are around me. Thank you in advance to all of those who take time out to answer my question.

2007-11-04 17:11:54 · 46 answers · asked by casey p 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 17:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 4 years now, and he just cant last in bed. Its difficult to tell him that it bothers me because I dont want to hurt his feelings. Iv read the other answers to this question and none of them deal with telling your man that he's not doing it for you. Iv tried to talk to him about it but he looks like a wounded deer in the head lights. He also acts like the 1 minute is enough. As if he has done his bit. How can he not know it's too short? I dont act or fake it, but at the same time its so hard to tell him. What can I do thats subtle? Or how can I tell him without crushing him? He is 28 and Im 25.

2007-11-04 17:00:57 · 15 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5 in Singles & Dating

I am tired of my husband never paying any attention to the kids and myself too, he is always playing online games or ebay well besides that he works graveyard and is always sleeping too. I have talked to him a few times but he never changes. i have three kids should i move on or is it worth it me staying another 5 years and not ever be happy?

2007-11-04 16:59:21 · 19 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a stay-at home mom, my husband and i hv commitment that we dont leave our childrens to a babysitter or else. my husband strongly said that he is the one responsible earning money for the family.but my mother-in law disagree and say 'things' that depressed me so much,about me not working and not making money.she interfere with my family matters. what to say and what to do? tks b4.

2007-11-04 16:58:21 · 7 answers · asked by angels'mom 1 in Family

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend, although I have tried dating a little bit when I was 23. I may have gone on 2 or 3 dates total in my entire life. They were ok, but I just felt they weren't for me. I am not a touchy feely kind of person and I am certainly not a romantic. Being in a relationship of that nature just isn't for everyone. I am more into my career and community at this point. People tell me that I will be alone if I never find a suitable lady. Um, I am not "alone" now and I don't have a girlfriend, so why would I be alone when I am older? I have friends and family. In fact, I still live with my family and other adult siblings. Even if I decide to move out one day, I will not be alone. I will always have friends and most likely have family around as well. When I get home from work, 9 times out of 10 I just want to lay down and go to sleep. At the end of the day I don't need to socialize or have someone hang on me. What do you think?

2007-11-04 16:52:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Agree or disagree? WHY?

2007-11-04 16:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by Loving Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been having an affair for the past 2 1/2 years. He has said she is a mistake and has gone back and forth between wanting to be with her or me. They have lived together for the past year.

We have been having sex for the past month and he said he wanted to come home again. Long story short, I went to his apartment and he had not yet begun packing. She was there crying and the 3 of us ended up packing up his stuff.

He could not tell her how he feels. He tells me he loves me, but couldn't tell her why he wanted to come home. He always said "I'm going home. I can't live this way any more". He did say that he doesn't have feelings for anyone right now. But he says he will not contact her again, that he can't.

His name is on the lease and he offered to let her take over the lease. He even offered to pay 1/2 the rent for the next 2 months.

Is it really over for them this time? I think she will try to contact him.

2007-11-04 16:42:28 · 34 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If your marriage was on the rocks and you truly didn't do anything wrong, would you stay in the marriage and just live somewhere else and never truly get divorced because you were scared that your wife would take you to the cleaners?

If not, Would you stay if she threatened to take you to the cleaners?

2007-11-04 16:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my case, literally, less than 5 mintues. After an argument, regardless of who did the wrong thing first, either of us would call each other and apologize. Why do you think it happens? Do you think we have a strong bond? We have been childhood friends for 13 years, and I just happened to think about it recently. Do you have best friend with such a strong bond?

2007-11-04 16:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by iseeforks 4 in Friends

AND IN WHAT WAYS DO YOU SHOW YOU LIKE HER?

2007-11-04 16:29:09 · 21 answers · asked by LEMON the good life 7 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy sex, but would like for it to be more than just straight to it, if you know what I mean. Seems he only kisses me when I kiss him. My Aunt use to like the song about liking a man with a slow hand. I didn't understand the song at the time, but now I do. I just would like some real lovemaking instead of just sex. Am I asking for too much?

2007-11-04 16:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bipolar... medications were not working, now... everybody left me... I live alone in a little 1 bdrm. apartment...

And they leave so subtly... one day they are around, then slowly they start to cut me off... before I know it, they just disappear, never answer a phone call, an e-mail, or an IM... now I've got nobody... my parents are over seas, my friends all hate me...

but I guess this is just my side of the story... each of my friends probably has their own legitimate reason for why they hate me:
* Can't make conversation
* Too negative
* Too crazy
* Kind of creepy
* Too obsessed
* Jerk

I guess people don't want to deal with it... could I be THAT bad? Oh, well… I guess I’ll just go about my college life and finish my “crap degree” (as my parents put it) in Philosophy… was college life not supposed to be fun and vibrant? Nothing is happening? and I do get out... I make some friends, but as soon as they know me, they leave...

2007-11-04 16:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this guy for 5 months and we only see each other maybe 2 days a week on the weekend. I just wanted to hear about what other peoples experience...soo If you can answer any of these questions, or you have any advise I would appreciate it!!

Did it work? How long did it last? How far away were you from each other? How often did you talk? Is it worth it?

2007-11-04 16:18:47 · 3 answers · asked by laurie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 16:11:51 · 8 answers · asked by ledisxo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I really do love each other but I don't think he knows that I want children in the near future. We've talked about having children and we both want them. However I'm not ready yet and I want to tell him that I don't want to wait till I'm over 30 to start. How do I bring up the topic of children without him freaking out and thinking I want one now?!

2007-11-04 16:10:11 · 10 answers · asked by Super-Pop 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 years old Asian woman dating a 48 years old causcasion. We have been good friend for 2 years and he aways been there for me. We started dating and we become more than friend. I'm concern with our age gap and our race. My parent are old fashion and I know they will not accept it because they want me to date my own race. The age gap doesn't help either. Any suggestion?

2007-11-04 16:09:39 · 17 answers · asked by sayon562 2 in Singles & Dating

my spouse left and took our kids to a different state and she wants to get a seperation and i fell that we can work out our problems if we just sit down and talk, even if it is with a counselor. but she thinks it would be pointless

2007-11-04 16:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the man i love tell me he watch me for over 3years before we got together,what do you think about this.

2007-11-04 16:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by Janet H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I want my mum to divorce my dad because he doesn't treat her well, even though he is the one supporting the whole family. My mum does EVERYTHING for dad, yet he doesn't know that? *well he tried to be "cool" about it and just gives off a smirk everytime I mention it to him. (I mean, would you just sit and watch your wife mow the lawn?!!?) (not only this but there's more to it..just would take AGES to tell everything)

So yehh, I told my mum I wouldn't care if they divorce because I am SO sick of his stupid immature attitude! However, I also feel a bit sorry for him if he has to move out because he wouldn't be able to do anything without my mum's help!! (he doesn't understand/speak english well either)

so yup...i am in a tangle at the moment and don't know if my opinion is right?
i dunno...i'm just confused!!!

2007-11-04 16:04:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-04 16:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-04 16:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by movingon@31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My uncle is divocred and got a new gf (nothing bad about that in and of itself) and she shows up at various familly events.

The thing is that she is an very mean and nasty person. She puts everyone down (including me) and she makes a lot of racist statements (which I really do not care for). If I had it my way I would not have anything to do with this vile b*tch.

Please help!

2007-11-04 15:56:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and him just watch, is it ok to do it just for your husbend,

2007-11-04 15:55:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 15:55:07 · 24 answers · asked by LEMON the good life 7 in Singles & Dating