Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

I've never been in a men's bathroom before so I was wondering if there are because I know that there are changing stations in the women's restrooms obviously but what if the dad's are single parents and that kind of thing?

2007-11-04 11:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by Reese G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My little sister is divorced with two young children. Should I call her my Maid-of-Honor or Matron-of-Honor? I know Matron means "married", but I'm not sure about divorced (especially with kids). Sources, please, if you can.

2007-11-04 11:18:45 · 19 answers · asked by ktswim 2 in Weddings

2007-11-04 11:18:43 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 11:17:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend...He's very special to me, we've been friends for years. But he has this other friend that he's known for a long time too. He made us meet but we couldn't really talk. I want us to become good friends. So, you know- it can be like a trio.

[[because we kindof have this dream of it being like Sora, Kairi, and Riku]]

How can he and I become good friends???

2007-11-04 11:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

mine does, and sometimes they are really scary. They get all drunk and everything and tell me to stay in my room and don't come down. They are really loud and smoke fills the air so I can't sleep. And then later I can hear them in her bedroom. I'm so embarrassed about all the different men all the time. I don't know what to do. I'm 14 by the way, so it's not like I can move out anytime soon. please help.

2007-11-04 11:16:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there's this guy who's i like that's been donig the whold "i like her, i don't like her, i don't know if i like her" thing and on friday he did something really weird: i just sat down w/ all my friends and one of my frineds told me he kept looking over to me and smiling, i looked over at him and he would start blushing than look back down. well a couple min. later i moved a couple seats down to see if he was really looking @ me. well i only sat down for a couple mins. and one of he's friends came over to my table and told me he wanted to go out w/ me. right away he said "what!?! i'd never go out w/ HER! well i told him to shut the hell up and one of my bff's flipped him off. he left really mad. well i don't know what i'm going to do tmrw when i see him in frist hr. i don't want to go up and talk to him. also one of my bff's told me they heard him call me a ***** and if he says it again to me i'm gonna back hand him. what should i do? i really need some help!
thanks!

2007-11-04 11:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2 years, my husband is in the marine corps. He came to me last month and said he wanted a divorce. I have come to find out that he is cheating on me. He kicked me out of our apartment and i am now living with family and driving sixty miles one way to work until i find a new job. He is still getting paid BAH for me being his dependent, however he is not giving me any of the money and has not been helping me out at all and says he has filed that papers but i have not seen anything, so i want to file myself, but i was wondering what my rights are as a military spouse and what can i do??

2007-11-04 11:14:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and i are getting married next summer and i was wondering how much money it usually cost to have a simple little wedding nothing big. i basically want family and friends, a preist, a cheap dress like a highschool homecoming dress :) but how much is it for the preist and place to have the wedding?

2007-11-04 11:14:47 · 15 answers · asked by QUICK_QUESTION 2 in Weddings

I feel my husband and I have a healthy sex life (at least 4 times weekly), but I can't sleep with him in the same bed because he snores. Anyone else not sleep with their spouse? Why not? (if you sleep with your spouse you don't have to answer unless you figured out how to make your problem of NOT sleeping with them better)

2007-11-04 11:14:21 · 11 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When I compliment my best friend she always says "you're too much"... Is this a good or bad thing...? Thanks! :D

2007-11-04 11:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Chris H 3 in Friends

if you list 20 good reasons to tell you are a bridezilla i would give you 10 points. start as "you know you are a bridezilla when..." thanks

2007-11-04 11:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ NïJâ♥ 3 in Weddings

he asked me out, and i, like always i said no. now i have been asked out by 3 guys, and turned them down! i dont know why i do this. i really like him. he is my neighbor, i am a junior in high school, and he is a freshman in college, he asked me to go out with him, and i asked if he was serious, or if he was joking. but i really like him, and now its the next day, but i really want to be with him. what can i do?

2007-11-04 11:08:29 · 34 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 11:03:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 26. older like 34 and up (preferable up to about 42 or so).

2007-11-04 10:56:57 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Shes 14! I'm 16.
&& My mom && dad dont don't really have the "talk" & who really does? But yeah how do I tell her cause I know she will just say "YOU HAD SEX WHY CAN'T I? !!!!!"

2007-11-04 10:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by Justin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend has a friend who is a girl and she is one of his best friends he doesn't hang out with her that much. And he swears that he likes/loves me and sometimes i tease him about her and he gets mad and says that they are only friends and that he likes me and doesn't like her like that. So my real question is should i be worried that he has a friend who is a girl or should i trust him?

2007-11-04 10:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by rockin_my_rattail 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this guy we exchange numbers he sent text messages everday straight for two months we didnt meet up again because i made excuses not to but he never gave up he kept texting or sometimes calling. I asked him if he ever dated or had sex with a black girl he said no but he had always wanted to. do you think this is the only reason he is trying to talk to me? i asked him was that the reason and he said no he said he would like to eventually but that wasnt the reason.. He tells me constantly that im beautiful and sexy. I asked him what he wanted for his birthday he said me to be his girlfriend. how can i be sure that he really likes me for me and not because he was to experience being with someone black

2007-11-04 10:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by curious kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 10:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 10:50:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had planned on eloping- a family member caught wind of it- and asked if we could do dinner with the family after the ceremony to celebrate and include the family (we each have a child and another concern is showing them that family is important). I said I didnt want to offend family thats out of state- she said you send invites to everyone anyway- and the dinner is meant for everyone other than the bride and grrom to pay.
Well- we're talking about November 18th! How will I send invites on such short notice, and how to word inviting them to a celebratory dinner, and not the ceremony (we intend on still keeping that private) also- how is it communicated that the bride and groom are not to pay?
help!!!!!

2007-11-04 10:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by **leigh** 3 in Weddings

my friend's best friend died, and i don't know what to put on the inside of the card. Help!

2007-11-04 10:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my fiance and I are planning on getting married in about a year. He was raised Catholic, and though he's not orthodox he would like to have a full Catholic ceremony. I have no aversion to this as my mother was raised Roman catholic, however I was never baptised and was raise Unitarian Universal. Is it possible for us to still have a Catholic ceremony? I know we can ask the church, but I was just looking for some info ahead of time, or at least maybe some ideas for questions to ask.

2007-11-04 10:46:48 · 19 answers · asked by Pika 1 in Weddings

So, me and this boy have been going out on and off for 5 years in January [I'll be 16 & He's 17] Well, I sadly lost my virginity to him a long time ago. His mom died 4 years ago.

Well, he smokes weed and drinks. I love him so much, and it feels impossible everytime I try to leave him. He says he's going to change, but yet he's going to be moving 100 miles away in December. I just got done arguing with him because I told him how I felt about his drug problem.

I know he's no good for me, but that still doesn't stop me from talking to him. I'm not sure what to do anymore =[. And whats going to happen when he moves?? I have tried leaving him several times, and I end up crying & I always take him back. I want to break up, and have no contact with him, but I know he will still call. How do you cut off all contact with someone you love so much?? I need a lot of help and advice! Thank you!

2007-11-04 10:45:58 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ Nichole[never gives up]♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel that divorce is way too common now, and i want to know who here has a GOOD and HAPPY marriage. and no newleyweds please, because ur always happy in the beginning but not later on..and also, if u know one, what do u think is the secret to ur happy marraige?

2007-11-04 10:43:59 · 29 answers · asked by Chiquita Bonita 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some ideas. Nothing to big obviously. But something good. thnx :]
oh and if i made him a scarf in his fav color, would that be good? or too gay? lol HELP

2007-11-04 10:43:25 · 26 answers · asked by Rawrimadinosaur 2 in Singles & Dating

what are some things that guys find sexxxyyy? I know confidence is one but what else perfume? smile? style? hair?

2007-11-04 10:42:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every day of my life i feel like throwing in the towel,if you understand what i mean.People do me things i dont like.they call me names i dont like.I am fed up nof life and i need a solution.HELP.

2007-11-04 10:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by Baby kim 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok......dating this girl I'm 19. Anyway, we always foreplay for an hour plus, sex lasts for around 10-15 minutes....we both get off, but she seems to be a little upset I can't go again. Is this normal? Am I in the wrong here? Anything I can do to improve this?

2007-11-04 10:29:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce decree states that I would retain ownership of the account & the telephone #'s. The account is STILL in his name 15 months after the divorce & that is the extent of his association with it. I, ME, MYSELF, ALONE have been the user & payer of this family plan account (my phone # and my son's) FOR 6 YEARS. I have had the same # for 6 years & everyone (business/friends/family/contacts) has it. He has even gone as far as walking into the local cellular customer service center and requesting a copy of MY phone bills for the past 3 months. He also took me off on-line access and account permissions. He says that he wants to "monitor our son's usage of the minutes". Yeah right! What should I do?

2007-11-04 10:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pinky Lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce