there's this guy who's i like that's been donig the whold "i like her, i don't like her, i don't know if i like her" thing and on friday he did something really weird: i just sat down w/ all my friends and one of my frineds told me he kept looking over to me and smiling, i looked over at him and he would start blushing than look back down. well a couple min. later i moved a couple seats down to see if he was really looking @ me. well i only sat down for a couple mins. and one of he's friends came over to my table and told me he wanted to go out w/ me. right away he said "what!?! i'd never go out w/ HER! well i told him to shut the hell up and one of my bff's flipped him off. he left really mad. well i don't know what i'm going to do tmrw when i see him in frist hr. i don't want to go up and talk to him. also one of my bff's told me they heard him call me a ***** and if he says it again to me i'm gonna back hand him. what should i do? i really need some help!
thanks!
2007-11-04 11:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok honey ignore him if you are a true girl you know that all guys are assholes until they get out of well ok they never really grow up but just ignore him don't talk smack don't look at him if someone mentions him to you just go "hmmm ok" if you talk bad about him it may get back to him just pretend he doesn't exsist hope i helped i went through the same thing bye!!!!!
2007-11-04 11:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help here. Just let it go. There's nothing worth pursuing. One day soon there will be someone more mature who will be interested and man enough to show it.
2007-11-04 11:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got off to the wrong start and someone needs to be mature enough to say so. Something like :hey, I know we got off to a bad start, my name is.....and introduce yourself. He may be very shy and was too embarrassed when his friend ratted him out.
2007-11-04 11:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by tinc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.......What the hell? If a guy is interested, he will approach you. Your friend shouldn't of bothered. It made you look bad. That guy is rude. Aren't you glad it didn't work out?
2007-11-04 11:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes calling you a ***** and other crap like that and he doesnt have the guts to come up to you in person himself to ask you out on a date then i suggest that you completely ignore him. he doesnt want to date you and it sounds like it doing this to make a joke and if you do go out on a date with him, he'll just stand you up.
save yourself the problems and stress and forget him.
2007-11-04 11:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by hot_hermione 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, if he calls you that again then get some big tough guys to knock some sense into him.
2007-11-04 11:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm . . .OK . . .how to explain this nicely . . . . Hmmmmm . . .when a girl smiles at you, the brain turns off. . . Yep that about summs it up. Turns you into a drooling idiot is another way to put it.
2007-11-04 11:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him
if u talk to him, he'll think that u like him
if he likes u then he make some witty comment about u directly
if he likes u, but is shy about it, he'll tell his frends to tell u 4 him
if he doesnt like u, he'll ignore u back
if he doesnt like u but is just a shallow lil bithc, then he'll take about behind ur back
2007-11-04 11:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by eeeewy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray each night that he is mauled by a giant sea-faring creature.
2007-11-04 11:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by SpiritWarrior339 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I'd talk to him in private. Fearing rejection, maybe he was too shy to approach you himself, and then panicked when his friend spoke to you in public. Maybe he's worth pursuing, but you'll never know if you keep listening to your catty friends.
2007-11-04 11:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by FRANsuFU 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋