he asked me out, and i, like always i said no. now i have been asked out by 3 guys, and turned them down! i dont know why i do this. i really like him. he is my neighbor, i am a junior in high school, and he is a freshman in college, he asked me to go out with him, and i asked if he was serious, or if he was joking. but i really like him, and now its the next day, but i really want to be with him. what can i do?
2007-11-04 11:08:29 · 34 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your a girl - your supposted to make life complicated. Seriously. If you cave in too fast, he'll just take you for granted. If yo utake too long - youll be left alone. If he hastles you just tell him come here - go away - come here - go away untill his brain goes to mush . . .Or here's one:
I don't know what i want and i want it now.
When you get older you can do the: why didn't you bring the thing that i didn't bother to ask for.
2007-11-04 11:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to do this would probably to be:
1) Just start speaking to him about things
2) Flirt a tiny bit
3) Tell him you felt too shy before and the moment took you by surprise
4) Get with him =)
Hope this helps <3
2007-11-04 11:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by TomRox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... that's kind of creepy. A freshman in college asking out a junior high kid? But whatever, I'd ask your parents if it would be okay with them, because I know mine would spaz. But check and make sure its okay.
2007-11-04 11:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to him and tell him and you made a big mistake and you would like him to give u a chance and you would like to go out with him...see if would work out with you two..better try rather than you sit home and try guessing what will happening in the future between u two..GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-11-04 11:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by apricot4u2eat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he like you just like you like him he will keep asking, but what you did yesterday was dumb, so just go up to him tomorrow and tell him you thought things over and see what happens, and he is in college so he wont be a baby about it.
2007-11-04 11:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you this is what I would say:
Hey, yesturday, when you asked me out, you sort of caught me at a bad time. I really wasn't my self/not felling so good. Anyway, would you like to go out???
Good Luck
2007-11-04 11:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Luckii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you were just really taken off guard because you liked him for a while and you didn't know if he was kidding or not. tell him you had a bad day *or something like that*, apologize and ask for another chance.
2007-11-04 11:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sofa King Kewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to go out with him as he has already asked you .
2007-11-04 11:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...u said no...hes gona think ur not interested....
u should "postpone" the date next time...just to let them no ur interested, but not completely interested....
well...theres not much u can do, u can talk 2 him a lil more, he might get the message and he'll ask again...
but if hes not gona take the risk, u should ask
2007-11-04 11:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by eeeewy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are dogs. You can say still say, yes, even if you beat him with a stick the day before.
2007-11-04 11:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by buttfor2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋