i met this guy we exchange numbers he sent text messages everday straight for two months we didnt meet up again because i made excuses not to but he never gave up he kept texting or sometimes calling. I asked him if he ever dated or had sex with a black girl he said no but he had always wanted to. do you think this is the only reason he is trying to talk to me? i asked him was that the reason and he said no he said he would like to eventually but that wasnt the reason.. He tells me constantly that im beautiful and sexy. I asked him what he wanted for his birthday he said me to be his girlfriend. how can i be sure that he really likes me for me and not because he was to experience being with someone black
2007-11-04 10:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by curious kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are plenty of black girls available if he wanted "just a black girl"
He obviously likes you. Deal with it, accept he likes you for who and what you are.
You got issues or something?
2007-11-04 10:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
that is kind of like me. i am black and im like madly in love with the sweetest white guy ever. um ask him why he wants to be with u so much and is it any different from dating a white girl. um im not sure what else to tell u. i tried
2007-11-04 10:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try taking things really slow at first. That way you can tell if he's making an effort to get to know you or not.
2007-11-04 10:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem?
Most people are initially attracted to another person based on a superficial quality.
Would you be offended if he showed signs of being most attracted to your boobs?
or your hairstyle?
or your laugh?
Date him. or Don't. The only way to find out if there is more to it than a physical attraction is to give it a chance.
2007-11-04 10:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No that's not it at all. He's attracted to black girls and you date who your attracted to is all.
So take it a a complement. he likes you and is attracted to you.
2007-11-04 10:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviouslly he likes you physiclly. I say why not try it, who knows, if an opporitunity comes up why not take it? What ever decision you make, hope it goes well ;).
2007-11-04 10:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by navyseal2101 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him a chance..but if it turns out hes just using DUMP HIM.LIKE THE BIG WHITE ***** HE IS! lol
2007-11-04 10:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has a slave fantasy. If so just use him for his money.
2007-11-04 11:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by duncan7753 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you don't try.
2007-11-04 11:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋