Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

hi, I'm alexia... I'm 23. The thing is that like 6 months ago I met this guy, he's 33... I met him at work, and we becamen close. We had lunch together, talked on the phone almost all day, we talked a lot abput our lives... we were really good friends. Well... he has a wife, and three children. His wife is like... well... a model I think, she is so beautiful, and his kids are really cute too.
We just hang out a lot, and talked a lot, but I started to feel like his mistress you know... we weren't doing anything, but still, his wife obviously doesn't know of my existence ...
And well... like a month ago, we were talking about our situation, and he told me he was in love with me... and well I am in love with him too... but... he told me also that he is in love with his wife too!! excellent... i tried to avoid him for a while but it was impossible, and 2 weeks ago we kissed and ... I don't feel bad about it...

2007-11-04 10:28:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had 2 long term relationships, 1 for 4yrs and another 4, 5 yrs (serious ?), I don't have trouble meeting guys, however I'd like to get to know a guy better before I do anything. I live in the country & know heaps of people, but I just want to meet some1 outside the scope, uno, I hate every1 knowing my business especailly the x's. I was thinking of doing some online dating, but I feel funny about it. Does anyone think it's desperate? Cause I think why a guys on there, is it because they haven't found the right 1 or they just can't get any? Whose had a good experience?

2007-11-04 10:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 10:27:44 · 24 answers · asked by amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where was it?
did you like it how her porposed?
were you brethless?

2007-11-04 10:26:12 · 21 answers · asked by Zahera♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a good friend that is dating a real asshole. Ive known the girl for years,and I know that she has cheated on every bf she has ever had.Ive known the guy she is dating for a little over a year, and he is such a great person.I dont think that he deserves to be eaten alive by her and spit back out.She is one of those girls who pretends to like what the guy likes to manipulate him into liking her.I feel like he has been deceived by her, and he does not know the fake that she truely is.Im afraid that he is going to get hurt.I cant just reveal her, bc anything i say,she will deny and it is none of my business.On the other hand,If I was him, I would wanna know and would be pissed if my friend was with holding information from me.what should i do.Ive known her for 8 yrs and hes known her 1.I have her number, so i know im right about her character.This is hard to ask,and PLEASE dont think im horrible for wondering if you know anyway I could save my bud from sure misery without bn caught.

2007-11-04 10:25:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He hasn't asked me out since then or made any straightforward advances. I don't want to date a coworker. I am hoping he won't ask me out. Do you think I am in the clear and that he won't ask me since it has been a couple of months since then?

2007-11-04 10:23:45 · 8 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't have a problem with it i just don't know what to do...if you do please help me

2007-11-04 10:23:43 · 27 answers · asked by -N-Luv- 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i get him to like me more? my best friend said that he liked me.... thats what he said to her... but i kind of want to make him my boyfriend. how?

2007-11-04 10:23:36 · 6 answers · asked by Vicki : ) 2 in Singles & Dating

I've beern with this guy for about 3 weeks.. I wasn't really that into him. I guess I just wanted to fall in love fast to get over my ex. I don't like him that much though he's awesome. I keep getting depressed every now and then. He thinks I'm over my ex and I'm not (we had been broken up for over 10 months)... Even when I'm with him I think of my ex. I just don't love this guy I don't feel it, can't see it, I want to be depressed by myself I don't want anyone to be around me. How do I break up without hurting him or hurting his ego. Help me .. He's gonna ask me why what do I say??? I don't like you!? I can't see a future with you!?? I want a copy of ny ex!? I'm not ready???? What can I say.?? Problem here really really likes me and even started faaling in love with me that's why I wanna break it now before he gets attached...

2007-11-04 10:22:49 · 26 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

I am interested in being a mother's helper but I would like to know how much I will be paid.

2007-11-04 10:22:47 · 4 answers · asked by Momo 1 in Family

The girl is about a foot shorter.
I dont want to pin her arms with mine, but what do i do with them?

I need help, because it would be wierd to hug in public if it is that awkward.

2007-11-04 10:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by farmkid 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey my uncle has a friend and he is 7 years older than i am, he is so cute! I want to go out with him, and he likes me too. But I really like him and he likes me. I am afraid my cousin is going to get him first because she likes him alot, and she is older than him, and closer to age. Please help!

2007-11-04 10:22:01 · 5 answers · asked by Madison L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 10:21:28 · 25 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1 in Singles & Dating

His ex cheated on him, we've been together 4 months, he told me at the beginning he sometimes gets paranoid but I thought I had reassured him that I would never do that. It's a long distance realtionship and last night I went to a party but he wasn't there. Now online, he is saying that he feels something is wrong, but won't say what. He said he feels paranoid that people aren't telling him things, but won't say who. I asked if he was annoyed at me, annd he said, well why would i be, you haven't done anything. Do you think he thinks i've cheated last night?He's being all quiet and weird. How should I handle this?

2007-11-04 10:18:53 · 24 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15. i took a cab & i didnt have money for it last night. i got out of the cab & i asked my mom if she had money. she said no. i told the cab driver & she was pissed. my mom came out & yelled at me & told me to go to my room. then my mom talked the cab driver out of calling the police & arresting me. i had no idea ditching a cab was this bad. now im ground until next saturday. now tomorrow is another day wasted of my life. i was supposed to go see my gramma. now i cant cuz im grounded. help

2007-11-04 10:18:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 15. i took a cab & i didnt have money for it last night. i got out of the cab & i asked my mom if she had money. she said no. i told the cab driver & she was pissed. my mom came out & yelled at me & told me to go to my room. then my mom talked the cab driver out of calling the police & arresting me. i had no idea ditching a cab was this bad. now im ground until next saturday. now tomorrow is another day wasted of my life. i was supposed to go see my gramma. now i cant cuz im grounded. help

2007-11-04 10:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I never really thought much of them myself, but my boyfriend proposed to me friday night and gave me a ring with a teardrop alexandrite, offset by a tiny speck of a diamond, and I absolutely love it. What do you think about non-diamond engagement rings? Love them? Hate them? Indifferent? Why?

2007-11-04 10:16:27 · 28 answers · asked by sarai_kristi 4 in Weddings

Ok, If you were a guy how would you break up with your girlfriend without bein to mean???

2007-11-04 10:15:46 · 5 answers · asked by kittyhugger@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my husband has problems he has cheated on me twice and we fight of financial things all the time i have a son and baby on the way with him so if any one knows what to do plz tell me.

2007-11-04 10:15:40 · 12 answers · asked by maggie_roberts16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i like and i are friendly. i dont think she really likes me. i just sent her this message:
'hi (persons name), how was your weekend? hope it was great! mine was great. maybe someday you and i can share a great weekend together lol, if i dont get to speak to you tonight, you have a goodnight sleep and a lovely day tomorrow. ' Is it appropriate? please dont give harsh answers as im not feeling well.
If she doesnt reply should i forget her?
she's my last hope, my family hate me and ive got nothing else to live for. i was only tring to be nice and caring

2007-11-04 10:15:18 · 25 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

I just bought an engagement ring from a big name company for $5000. I know they have a big markup, the equivalent ring is about $3000 on blue nile. The value of the dollar relative to metals and precious stones has fallen a lot recently, so this only got a 1/2 carat. $5000 was my budget, but now that I look at it, it seems a bit small. If I can exchange it, I could possible spend a bit more on the credit card, but I don’t want to buy it from a discount place. Is 1/2 carat too small?

2007-11-04 10:14:16 · 26 answers · asked by Tom K 2 in Weddings

2007-11-04 10:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by Christina 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to go out with a girl but I don`t have a driver`s license nor a permit, my mom can`t drive and my father works in the afternoon till mid night.
I want to know how can I get out of this so I can go to the movies or somewhere else with her.
Tell me what can I do in this case?
Thanks a lot.

2007-11-04 10:12:12 · 4 answers · asked by Gangster 1 in Singles & Dating

its so amazing, ive never felt like this about anyone, we get butterflies everytime we talk to each other and he always says he repeats in his mind the time i told him i was inlove with him, its soo crazy, i want to be with him for the rest of my life, i really do know hes the one, im 15, and hes 17 and we both wanna be 2gether forever, and we get seperated alot cause hes in sports so he travels alot and we talk every night for 5 or more hours and its usually just "im soo inlove with u i wanna be with u forever" and awww man its the best feeling in the world, i just haddaaa tell everyone!!! i loveeee himmmm

2007-11-04 10:11:40 · 15 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-04 10:09:23 · 23 answers · asked by Ms. Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

6 years ago I had an affair. Usual reasons grass looked greener, and I ended it coz when I got there it wasn't as green as it looked. When I told my husband (which I was forced to) he was devastated. I learned some very valuable lessons from the experience like that is not the person I want to be, and for this reason I know I will never cheat again. 2 years ago my husband cheated on me with a woman he works with, and I was as devastated as he was, but I learned to trust him again and do, even though they still work together. However, since then I have been accused of having an affair with other men, been accused of fancying other men at the gym, and out of sheer frustration in June of this year emailed my ex after he went on a works business trip with his ex (who was on the same trip but not 'with' him) and hadn't told me about til the last minute. He subsequently found that email which I never intended him to see. Since then I've had no privacy. he checks my emails and texts 1/2

2007-11-04 10:09:22 · 25 answers · asked by Louise H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 10:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Thuckone 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I trust my wife but i know how guys are, she thinks its cute that im jealous about that. She says to trust her and its that my son really likes to play with this boy and he does. This is there 3 play date. I dont like that he texts and calls my wife(not frequeltly) I know how gus are i guess you could say. She has ask if i wanted to go so i know shes not trying to hide anything. My son has other friends he could play with, i just feel bad because they both get along. Im i being paranoid?

2007-11-04 10:08:54 · 18 answers · asked by Mickey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having trouble knowing what hate really is. I am also having trouble knowing what love really is!
There is a person in my life and i am so confused as to whether i hate or love them or both at the same time!?!?!
I know the love of my children - Is the love of a partner the same?? Does it feel the same?
What are the key points of feeling Love and Hate basically??

2007-11-04 10:08:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex broke up with me and until a lot of stuff happened we were gonna stay friends, but i realized its probaly for the best we arnt friends bc I'd always want more. i deleted his number, cut contact and removed all our photos from facebook and myspace and removed him as my friend so I dont have to see our photos on his. I told my friends I dont want to hear about him but all they keep saying is I think he will come back but I dont want to hear that but its more than likely false hope. Were the things I did immature? I just am trying hard to move on with my life.

2007-11-04 10:08:40 · 4 answers · asked by liz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships