Family & Relationships - 4 November 2007

My wife of six years has turned into this lazy selfish woman and I dont know what other ave. I should go down. I've tried everything from counseling to giving in and nothing seems to work. We both work 40hr. work weeks and have four kids. She works in the evenings and I work from 4 am to 1230. I do all of the cooking, cleaning, and taking care of our kids. She thankfully puts our kids on the bus in the morning goes back to sleep and then works from 2-10p. I stay up every night for her till 11p and all she does is get on computer and plays video games most of the time. Other times she does school work online but 85% of time she plays games and doesnt seem to care about anything else and expects me to tip toe around her becasue she has it so hard with work and school! Then as if cooking and cleaning isnt enough she has the gull to complain about anything that doesnt go her way and starts fights. She blows money on stupid stuff like shoes when kids need cloths. What do you think? Is it me

2007-11-04 19:28:25 · 20 answers · asked by waltdawg3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you marry an american? Was is for love, visa, and/or financial support? Are they white, black, or other?

2007-11-04 19:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 19:23:23 · 19 answers · asked by vdawgg2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so bad. I can't concentrate on my work. Recently i found out that my husband has been dishonest with me. How can i move on? My husband is a very nice man. I really can't believe he did it. Please help me.

2007-11-04 19:23:21 · 15 answers · asked by mavic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 19:22:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 19:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean i been told that its cuz there not like female's..they dont do that
duh ur not like us!


???

2007-11-04 19:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf and I just got married. I'm 23 and she's 22. We're both studying medical science. Problem is that we have sex every now and then and we just can't help it. It's putting a negative impact in our study life. By that I mean, we can't concentrate in our studies. What do I do?

2007-11-04 19:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-04 18:42:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have needed braces ( for teeth :D ) since i was about 10 and im 17. I have a big overbite and my bottom teeth are a bit un-aligned. I was supposed to get them when i was 11 but I dont know what happened about that. Whenever I ask if im ever going to get braces their excuse is they dont have any money (which i know they do, i accadentaly saw their bank statement), yet theyre prepared to pay to get some natural light in the kitchen.
My parents are seriously looking at getting a skylight or solar tube put in the kitchen so they can have some sunlight in there. I have no idea how much it would cost, im thinking atleast $2000. Am i being selfish if i say that fixing my teeth are more important that kitchen light? Or should I get over it and save for the whole of next year and the year after (im not going to be working full time cos of polytech). Im extremely self concious of my teeth, i find it embarrasing just to ask my parents if they will pay for braces.

2007-11-04 18:37:16 · 10 answers · asked by blueblue 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was just been victimed by a stupid guy..

2007-11-04 18:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by imsupersavannahxxi 3 in Singles & Dating

My dads family has kicked me out because i was named after my grandfather. They are very screwed up. Should I just consider myself lucky they arent in my life?

2007-11-04 18:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-04 18:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by desperate1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Gone back with your wife after she left for a year? Dropped everything, said she needed to think about our life/marriage together and buggered off. Went to europe to visit friends. No contact except when she came back ranting and raving about old bills that needed taking care of, harrassing me at work, moving in almost next door to me (i had moved out of our old place that we shared together when she left and into my own). The way she threw herself back at me when she came back makes me think she saw the grass is not greener on the other side and wants my love and trust again. Is it possible that shes sincere, or is she wanting something else?

2007-11-04 18:23:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What's the deal? I know some at work that flirt all the time with coworkers!

2007-11-04 18:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was very happley married but something happened that really.wasnt. my fault. i was sent to a place and this married woman kept bothering me all the time. calling and comming on to me .every chance she got this hick didnt know she was only making a *** of her self and always calling me to come up and talk to her and i really couldnt really stand this trailer park trash but i was only.19. she was in her.40.s and married well she was easy . it happened in her home while her man and kids was gone . yes we had sex there but she ws the one who was wanting to do it more than me those streach marks was sicking . now after. 5. years my wife found out and left me over this trash . why does a married woman tell this and cause other.s problems like she has caused me where she ruined her marrage why ruin mine after all she was more at fault doing what she did so why ruin another.s marrage when she was that silly to let it come to light and ruin mine it.s isnt right for a hillybillie trash to do

2007-11-04 18:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This married man I know flirts with beautiful women at his work including me, even call some of them his girlfriends, but he said his wife cannot flirt with other men. He said only the man can cheat and flirt and do what he wants, but not his wife. Why does he think that way ? I've never met a married man that think this way.

2007-11-04 18:19:49 · 8 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I'm a christian and a total Jesus Freak. The bad guy I met on camp he asked me out after and I said yes, I dumped him 3 months later due to his imature friends.

The nice christian I met 3 days ago. For once in my life I acted like myself and I came home with his phone number.

Bad guy wants me back and christian guy is nice and I like him alot yet I like bad guy too.

Help!

2007-11-04 18:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 18:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yesterday while reciting poetry to my GF, i started to cry, so i told her i need my razor... So she went and got it for me i then (proceeded to silting my wrist) I wanted her to join in so i came at her with the razor (to show her how it was done..) I cut her wrist with it and she Screams "WTF ARE YOU DOING!?" and smack's me in the head then starts beating me up... After shes was throu hurting me, she tells me that shes leaving me and that im total weirdo..? How should i feel? What did i do wrong..? How do i get her back..? Help please!? Your opinion?

2007-11-04 18:13:46 · 22 answers · asked by Emo Man 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a really good friend, and well we arent dating or anything...i kinda like him but idk!! and well i often think of what sex with him would be like...should i think of this, or am i an idiot?

2007-11-04 18:08:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friends smoke weed and personally, I have never thought of doing it. Now, I promised some friends I'd smoke some with them and a few nights ago I had an opportunity and I passed it up. I really wanted to but I have never smoked weed before and I don't know how to. I've even read up on it. Can someone tell me how to smoke weed out of a pipe?? And what should I do because I'm so shy?

2007-11-04 18:05:45 · 5 answers · asked by Unanswered questions 1 in Friends

I've recently been talking to an old friend that i USED to date. We messed around, but never had sex. My brother's are very over- protective & tried to fight him at a party. He got scared & texted me & said that he thought it would be best to just be friends. I explained to him that i never thought of it as nothing more than just friends, & that my brother's have nothing to do with our friendship. He replies with "Conflict of interest. U DIG?" ---

I don't know if he's just trying to get out of getting more serious with me, or if he DID think of us as more than JUST FRIENDS?

...Guy & girls please reply. Am i the one getting rejected in a nice way??

2007-11-04 17:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by IndescribableDesires. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-04 17:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by FCD 1 in Singles & Dating

This one day, I almost missed the bus, right? When I finally get on the bus, I don't really have time to walk to the back where I usually sit. So I sit next to this girl. She introduces herself as Sarah and starts up a conversation. We talk a couple more times in the school Caf., then BAM! We're best friends. I go to my locker after-school, and she's there. I go to sit on the bus after-school, and she's in MY seat, the one I've been sitting on since SIXTH grade, and expects me to sit next to her. She's always bombarding me with e-mails. Calls 5 million times a day. It's creepy, stalk-erish and extremely annoying! Whenever someone says something funny, she punches me on the shoulder. Real hard. It's starting to bruise. She's like this parasite thats sucking the LIFE outta me!
Whenever I see her, I think 'Shoot me now.' So... How do I tell her off? It doesn't have to be nicely done, either. I'm contemplating murder at this point. Or suicide. Anything for some peace.

2007-11-04 17:45:09 · 15 answers · asked by legion! 4 in Friends

Everyone keeps telling me...play with/touch your g-spot...well, i've tried that, it doesn't seem to work...but i've been told that ANY/EVERY woman "can" ejaculate...so how does one do it!???

2007-11-04 17:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by rufnrednbed 1 in Singles & Dating

Considering the fact that he went to GA on a little semi-vacation before deploying to Cuba. He went there to visit family considering we live in KS and his family are in GA. And the reason he went to GA for vacation is because he was getting ready to leave for Cuba-his a Army Soldier-but when I go to visit him, there are a few girls phone numbers in his phone and of course I ask him about the ones I do not recognize and he says that its nothing....and I just let it go. So he gets to CUba and I need a cell phone and he sends me his and then I get calls and text mess. from this girl and I get some info out of her and basically they went out on two dates and they talked on the phone quite a bit ( I have cell phone bills to prove it) and I asked him about it and he denies the dates but he does not deny getting her number and the reason is only so his friend could get with that girls friend! But I am not so sure about this, yes I guess its all written out for me...but my instincts are not

2007-11-04 17:33:12 · 29 answers · asked by Aquisha M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-04 17:31:31 · 22 answers · asked by zailew 2 in Singles & Dating

he has been my best friend since we were 8 years, now we are 15, we started dating a year ago, but i was never sure this was gonna work, he used to be my best friend and i dont want this to ruin our friendship

2007-11-04 17:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by zany smiles 3 in Singles & Dating

Is this called we DATED. ? Was he my date? oR just FRIENDS ! Please read n tell me. Thanks! )
----- I'll say that for couple of months before Prom. We'd go to the movies,..dancing and stuff. We'd go out at least 2 yimes a week. for more than a year. JUST the 2 of us. we would hold hands, and hug!! (how crazy u wonder huh? i know) he has confused me soo much! Has told me so many nice thngs like "my life would be incomplete without u" But..i remember Ones, he has told me something like this, when we were in the movie theater. "you know that we are not dating,..right? we just came to see a movie, like friends".
--But how do YOU GUYS see it?
The way the PROM was..i'll say that,..first he got me this flower,(that girls wear on their hands). We were together most of the time. And we were dancing ONLY WITH EACH OTHER. He wouldnt go dance with someone else,..n wouldn't let me alone either. And after the party was over,..he took me to a really nice restaurant..(very late at night.).

2007-11-04 17:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating