Ok I'm a christian and a total Jesus Freak. The bad guy I met on camp he asked me out after and I said yes, I dumped him 3 months later due to his imature friends.
The nice christian I met 3 days ago. For once in my life I acted like myself and I came home with his phone number.
Bad guy wants me back and christian guy is nice and I like him alot yet I like bad guy too.
Help!
2007-11-04 18:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is who will you be happier with?? Disregard the religious aspect of it, and go out with the person you like most.
2007-11-05 05:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by BluhBluh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what YOU want in a man and out of a relationship. I mean its one thing to be in the dilemma of which guy to choose, which we all have been there. But if you know what kind of guy you want in your life and what qualities you would like the guy to have, then the choice is more than obvious. Also are you looking for a long term relationship right now or just some fun? Because if you are looking just for some fun go for the bad boy, get that phase out of your system. However you can't expect the good guy to sit around while you have fun with the bad one. Same with the bad boy if you don't choose him. I think more than anything you need to decide rather you want to be in a lasting relationship right now or just have fun. Oh and write all this down, how each guy makes you feel, what each one can improve on, how they treat you. Its a bit of a pros and cons thing here, but it works if done correctly. And if you don't have enough info on either guy, I suggest bringing it up to both guys that you wish to casually date both for a while until you can figure out which one you wish to be with. Now again the ball will be back in their court, so it would be up to them to decide if they want to do that or not. And if they both agree to the casual dating, always make notes when you get home from the dates and compare them, and always ask yourself if what you are finding out is what you really wish to deal with in relationship for a very long time or not. I'm sure the more you find out the more likely you will be to make your choice, good luck.
2007-11-04 18:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction your no longer a foul man or woman. It only sounds like your mum and dad are being over shielding. All mum and dad are like that. I bear in mind my mom doing a similar ingredient the 1st time I had a weigh down on the choice intercourse. i does no longer hardship approximately it too lots. Now, in case you come to a decision to this element this guy, i'd take a seat down alongside with your mum and dad and communicate why they're being so over bearing and ask for some area with the guy and ask them for have faith and practice to them the guy you like is a robust guy.
2016-09-28 08:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by graybill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say date the christian. If you love God, then maybe a "bad guy" would come between your relationship with Christ. It sounds like they are both christian since you met him at camp, but maybe the bad guy was there because he was forced to go... It's usually best to have a guy who knows what he wants/ who he is... rather than someone who just wants to rebel.
Good luck, hon!
2007-11-04 18:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by killersharktale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the LORD! Bad guys only bring you heartache and to much DRAMA! They will leave you high & dry in the end. Your nice good looking Christian boy can give you security, feeling of self worth & besides he can be naughty to I'll bet on occasion! It's a good feeling to be yourself! It lets you be the best you can be!
2007-11-04 18:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a clue about what you should do, leave the christian guy alone so that you don't corrupt him.
This way he won't become swayed by a girl that can't make intelligent decisions.
Best Wishes
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2007-11-04 18:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its self explanatory. If your a Christian, why would you date a bad guy, when theres a fellow who is a Christian as well, more mature, and overall a nice lad.
2007-11-04 18:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cali C. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like the power ratio of the bad guy. He's more interesting than the boring Christian guy.
2007-11-04 18:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls usually like the bad guys, but it's the good guys that go long-term. If you had to be anyone but yourself with the bad guy, then go with the guy who likes you for you!
2007-11-04 18:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by head in the clouds... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a good friend to bad guy, bring him to church.. and get in touch and observe Christian guy if he feels the same way for you too... work with both guys...
2007-11-04 19:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Angelique 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋