2007-11-04 14:06:57 · 18 answers · asked by tali k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO WAY!!
Plus your "intuition" is telling you something...LISTEN TO IT!!
If you want the truth, return home unexpectedly. And just be ready w/plan B
OR hire a new one servant! U were a fool to hire one that could seduce your husband. Lesson learned ??
2007-11-04 14:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean your husband wants to be home with the cleaning lady alone or did it just happen that he is? Your question is not clear. I would say if he wants to be home alone with her when she is there, maybe there is a problem. Most times when there is smoke there is fire.
2007-11-04 16:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm only you know if thats normal.. i mean, with out knowing the circumstances of why he's home, and if thats a normal day for the cleaning lady to be there ect. only u'd know if its weird.. for example
If your cleaning lady only comes say on Mondays and Thurs. and say he's not feeling well and wants to stay home tomorrow from work because of that.. well then were would u suggest he goes, it is his home and if he chooses to stay home from work thats his choice..
Now if he is making it a habit to be home on just mondays and thrus when shes there then yeah id think something is up..
so only u know if this is a normal event or not, and if your that worried, then cancel the cleaning lady for this week and clean your own house this week..
2007-11-04 14:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I say yes and no! Yes because maybe he is trying to make sure that she don't steal anything. No because if he has a history of cheating, you'll never know what they are up to. If I were you, come home unannounced. Park your car by your neighbor's house or something, take off your shoe's and walk into your house very quietly. If they don't know that your there, then they will keep doing what they do and you can catch him in the act! I have done it and caught my husband! Believe me, it's better if you do it that way!
2007-11-04 14:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by imtheonenobodylikes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why, does he want to hold the dust pan for the cleaning lady? There's no reason for him to be home alone with her & I wouldn't tolerate it. Arrive home when your husband won't be expecting you & tiptoe quietly into the house. Have a reason ready as to why you are home early. One that is believable. Your gut feelings are telling you something so listen to them.
2007-11-04 14:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that is normal. I would not think anything weird about my husband being home alone with paid help. It is his home, right? Is this unusual for this to happen or is it rare? Do you think something may be going on or do you suspect something is happening between them? Is it possible for you to make a surprise visit home, too, while she is there? I do not think it is unusual unless you suspect something is going on between them & then I would try my best to find out if something funky is going on!
2007-11-04 14:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Because if he's home alone, then maybe he should be doing some cleaning.
2007-11-04 14:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by rth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know . I guess it depends on how hot the cleaning lady is. If she is really hot, get someone else or change the time that she comes around.
2007-11-04 14:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is home then he should be cleaning. Only hire a cleaning lady who is old and unattractive.
2007-11-04 14:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheated on you in the past you have something to worry about. If you know he hasn't cheated on you in the past you have nothing to worry about. If you have a good relationship don't get suspicious because that will cause problems.
2007-11-04 14:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋