How do you keep your husband from falling to the temptation of pretty, crafty young women ?

Question

I have a hansome, fun, personable, hardworking manly husband. How do I keep him from giving in to flirtacious females ?

Answer 1

Do you trust him?

I trust my husband implicitly. He goes to sea sometimes, and there are attractive, flirty women on the ship. I'm not concerned about them in the least because I trust HIM to use his brain and say no.

Your husband is not (I would assume) an animal controlled by his penis. He made a commitment to you, and I would certainly hope he's man enough to keep that commitment even with an attractive women trying to tempt him.

There's nothing YOU can do to keep him from falling. HE made a commitment to you -- it's up to HIM to keep it.

Answer 2

You can't; only he is able to control any urges he may feel for another woman; if he truly loves you; he will not go that far with another. Hey, how can he keep you from falling to the temptaion of handsome, sly men? It is the same thing. Don't worry about what may never happen; just be sure you give show him love, care, desire and remember to compliment and thank him.

Don't let him leave the house without planting a big long desireble kiss on his lips; he'll be smiling on the way to work and remembering you during the day.

Answer 3

You don't paint a well rounded picture of your husband....are you really fearful that he won't be able to resist temptation? Then he doesn't have many morals, values, or honor, does he? I'm pretty sure you picked a man who has some sense of honor, didn't you? Why not just trust that he chose you for good reasons too, and he's not so simple that he will fall for flirtation.

Answer 4

You can't. If this is a problem area for your husband Satan will be sure to send him plenty temptation. You can be flirtacious, appealing and sexy for your husband. Make sure he KNOWS what is waiting for him at home 24/7/365.

Answer 5

forget about the trust thing people talk about that's BS. Woman now a days are aggressive and will stop at nothing to get what they want..so you are smart to think about how to protect what's yours. You must also be fun, and hardworking. And remember if he is happy and content at home then he will always keep coming back.

Answer 6

Many years ago when I was in my early twenties and married, an older woman from our church took it upon herself to educate the young married ladies in our church. She invited us all out for brunch. She filled our tummies and hearts with good things. I will pass it on to you.
We were encouraged to meet the needs of our husband by being anything he wanted us to be. If he enjoyed being met at the door in an apron and a pair of heels AND served dinner, then feed the need. She taught us that embarrassment hindered relationships. If he likes skimpy clothes and a dance on the bed then by all means, do it. The words that stuck to me all these years was this: "If you don't somebody else will." She also added, "If you are all he needs then why would he need to do a little side shopping." Makes a lot of sense. However,,,,,,,,I have learned a few things along the way myself. 'I' had some ideas of things I enjoyed as well and that marriage is a two way street. She had good ideas but it was geared to one side. With what I learned from her and with what I have learned on my own I'll sum it up this way. NEVER let the fire burn out on your relationship. Keep it fun and exciting. No room for hum drum here. No ruts allowed. What ever you did to win his heart,,,,,do it to keep it. Look good when he comes home from work, make sure the house is clean, make him feel loved and appreciated. When you close that door behind you at bedtime,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,be ready to be his pole dancer,private nurse, whatever. In return let him be YOUR stripper,doctor,whatever. Don't let your relationship simmer,make is SIZZLE.

Answer 7

The truth is "Do you trust him?: If there was trust in the relationship, you have nothing to worry about. If he is manly, females will always flirt with him cause of the way he looks and you should be very proud of him cause you know you are the one sleeping with him at night and not the other women. You can have your pleasure while the other females have to play with themselves which is sometimes useless.

Answer 8

By reminding him daily that the day he married you every part of his body now belongs to you, and if any part of that body betrays you you will cut it off, and smile. My husband is a truck driver and in my heart I know he will never cheat on me, but just so he knows how serious I am I told him every time he walked out the door. And when we walked back in a week later I made sure he was a happy man on Monday.

Answer 9

you cant, plain and simple, if he's going to cheat theres nothing u can do to stop him. He made a vow to you, he promised to forsake all others.. and if he doesnt believe in that vow , then he will breach your marriage. You cant keep him locked up, you cant watch his every move 24/7.. you just have to have faith that he loves you and meant what he said the day he made that vow to you..Theres always going to be someone younger, someone prettier, someone smarter, someone funnier, someone more exciting.. but only your husband can make the choice to be true to you or not.. and if he doesnt stay true to you then you were never "really" married at all..and u deserve someone that will own up to the promise he made, and love you for who u are, not what you could be. Its hard to trust, and its hard to have faith at times..but its either that, or drive yourself and your husband insane trying to assure something u just cant..

Answer 10

By choosing a husband who is the type of man who believes in being faithful and smart enough to not allow himself into situations where he could fall to temptation. Like my husband.

If you did not marry a man of that caliber then there isn't much you can do.