I have been dating this girl for about 5 months. I have caught her twice lying to me about hanging out with "guy friends" as she calls them. Blatent, well constructed lies. She doesnt know that I have caught her. We recently broke up, she accused me of not trusting her and told me how horrible it is to be with someone like me. Should i tell her the truth, so she can face the reality. Or should i just let her continue to live in a fantasy world? I
guess i still care about her and her daughter. I have known her for over 6 years, and she ruined her marriage by cheating on her husband, multiple times. I know i should have known better. But i couldnt help but to see the good in her, i guess i was blinded. ...
2007-11-04 12:00:37 · 3 answers · asked by slabside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first, I think it was very nice of you to pick out her "good qualities...." but it sounds to me that she doesn't deserve your time or energy. Also if she's lying to you now.... just imagine what 1 or 2 years might bring.... and I personally feel that once someone cheats... It makes it easier for them to do it again and again.... and maybe to even the next person they are with.... I think you should confront her and let her know that if she ever wants to have security again in a relationship she needs to work on her personality. Good luck :)
2007-11-04 12:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Asya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing! Just walk away and say good riddance to yourself. Move on with your life. Learn from this mistake! Life's too precious to hold a grudge!
2007-11-04 12:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. maybe you should tell her that you know the truth about her lies at least. sounds like she's kind of oblivious.
or maybe just kick her? lol not really...she just doesn't sound like a fun person to be around much.
2007-11-04 12:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋