ok I've known this girl for about 3 years, and we've always had atleast one class. I liked her sophomore year, when she broke up with a guy, but then after a while she started to date another guy, one of the ppl i got to know later on and becoming really good friends with. then she would always get into trouble with him and I would have to help them out ( talking to them, trying to convince them that they still love each other, even though i still had a lil crush on her, I just wanted to see them, mostly her, happy. Now its senior year and she broke up with that guy ( i think?) and i have found out that I am just falling in love with her after i took her to homecoming, it was the best night of my life we just danced the night away. But i don't know if she likes me? we talk but sometimes i just don't know? I just get a gut feeling sometimes that she doesnt like me, or am i just doubting myself?
2007-11-04 12:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by SCHWAA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you think she had fun at the dance im sure she did, beleive me, you would know if she didnt have fun. most of the time when girls ask other guysfor help w/ their bf then they don't hate you. from what i can tell she likes you. you should ask her out, and if she says no its not the end of the world, you only a senior. id say go for it and if she says yes than thats great for you, but if she says no just continue being friends, b/c like i said its not the end of the world and im sure you'll find someone! good luck!
2007-11-04 12:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a budding relationship their is a lot of uncertainty. You are at a stage in you life when you are trying to find a special woman. You want to make the right choice. Spend a little time making a list of what you find important in a woman and what you can not tolerate.
Remember she is also trying to find a special person to spend life with also.
Things you might want. Honest, dedication you can't expect her to be dedicated to you yet. Her dedication to her family or other friends look to those relationships to see if she treats those relationships the way you would want her to treat yours.
The people that have known her the longest would be a good over all picture. Sometimes teens test limits during the teen years and this is not an indication of the overall person.
Things you might not want is, materialistic she will need you to make lots of money and value you little if for some reason you go through hard times. Overly possessive or jealous. Next how do her hopes and dream coincide with yours. Work and family ethics.
2007-11-04 12:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These kind of questions are always so silly.
Just tell her how you feel.
Wouldn't that be better than agonizing over "what if" or "I wish" or "I wonder".
The worst that can happen is she'll say she's not interested. I seriously doubt she's going to take a hammer out and hit you on the head with it.
2007-11-04 12:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by timniet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would test the waters. As we girls say :"I like a guy with confidence" so. I would go for it. Seriously. If you really really like her, she'd respect the fact that your asking her, But don't get disappointed if she says no, she may need time to cope with the break up. If she does say no, still be there for her as a friend. It shows that you respect her and you see her more then just a girl.
DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!
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2007-11-04 12:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lexc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i had the same problem..i like one of my guy friends for 3 years and it tore me up inside when he would go out with someone else. after he broke up with a girl i gave it my best shot and asked him privately what he would think if we went out. he said that he had always liked me but never thought i liked him. so my best advice is to tell her your feelings.. but don't confess your undying love just yet.
2007-11-04 12:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by pinkpeppyperson98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, just talk to her! She went to homecoming with you, that's huge. Say, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?" and I bet you'll get a pretty straightforward answer (probably "yes"). Just ask or you'll regret it down the line.
2007-11-04 12:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll1138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her private once you to are comfotable ask her about how you feel for each other but make sure shes the one you dont wanna ruin a good friend ship k
2007-11-04 12:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice.
Ignore them till you are 30.
Play football, have a good time and spend your money on yourself, because sure as eggs is eggs, this fun will all stop when you hitch up to a girl!!!!!!
2007-11-04 12:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Petero 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a chance and ask her out. she might just be hiding her feelings... I was the same way with this one guy...i just took a chance and now he is my boyfriend. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-11-04 12:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by AiAi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to hang out with you alone sometime...for example, bring up a movie you are dying to see, and ask her if she'd like to go. if she does, there is your first step. if she doesn't (and doesn't suggest something else for you to do together), she's probably not interested.
2007-11-04 12:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by meego99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋