I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..
I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted
do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?
2007-11-04 11:53:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he always made it clear to me during our "conversations", that what we say to each other, stays with each other
he would make an uncomfortable face whenever another staff would pass by while we were talking as student to teacher, just normal student-teacher talk, and he still felt uncomfortable
2007-11-04 11:54:14 · update #1
That is so hot, he's probably still interested, just scared. he probably feels that its totally wrong, but as long as you're okay with it i dont see a problem..
2007-11-04 11:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear... As in your question i can make out that you are pretty good gal.Plz wait.This is life.Ideally one should try to be with a man who has gut feeling without which nothing can work these days.I can understand that you both being in same college and being in the relationship would cause a problem.But you have left the college then what is the problem?We are in a world where society has given us freedom ofcourse can be objected if crossed limits.But i do not see anysuch thing here.He does not have such gut and also courage to handle a relationship dear...As and when the life goes we face many challenges and person with this kind of personality will never fit in..Do not take any hasty decision.Take time.you will definitely get a good chap.Person who is always overcautious about things around cannot make you happy,during the course of time you will understand this.So do not take any risk with this kind of person.
2016-05-27 09:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, he sounds like has some major emotional problems. FIRST off: do you even like HIM??? that is wat is sooooo important first. Girl, i'm younger than you, but i can tell ya that DON'T even flirt back if you're not sure you want to be with him or not. Think about 10 years from now: would you want to be with him??? SECOND off: do you like his offstandish personality??? I mean, if you said he's so withdrawn, and you're such a social butterfly, do you think that you could stand going out with him??? if he's so different from you? THIRD off: are you going to be embarassed to have him as a boyfriend? I mean, he was obviously kinda embarassed about liking you so much to be so 'private' about talking to you...FOURTH off: have you ever considered that the reason he may not have called you back is because he's had a reality check with himself and figured out that going out with a former student that he was talking to about future dating while he was still teaching her could possibly not be the wisest decision??
Oh, and this is SOOOOOOOOO not your fault, I mean, he sounds kinda kooky to me, but you know, if he likes you, and you like him back, maybe you should be so bold to call him. oh...and no offense, but you kno, you have to ask: is he possibly married???
2007-11-04 12:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a professor at my university, after I was his student. And its not like it was a secret. Its unethical if he is currently your professor to date you - not if you happen to be on the same campus, etc.
My guess is that he really isn't into you.
Sorry
2007-11-04 11:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are no longer his student, it is no longer taboo for him to pursue you. Chances are the only reason he was interested is because he knew it was wrong which made it that much more exciting.
2007-11-04 11:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by erik69311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its kind of sad that you have a teacher student relationship...jesus christ have some dignity....your teacher probably not getting any from his normal age range and is probably going for something younger and a lot easier...yes your easy!
2007-11-04 11:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him or send him an e mail suggesting that you meet for coffee. If he wants to see you he will respond.
2007-11-04 11:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you dropped out, he doesn't want you anymore. Get a degree and he will be interested again
2007-11-04 11:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Katniss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm this seems sorta strange. i dont rly get the question, either way this isnt something i would go for
2007-11-04 11:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stopped going to school..... He has no interest..
Why would you drop school anyway? and why your teacher?? EWW!
2007-11-04 11:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋