Okay, the last past weeks, I've been harassed by other guys who was in this class. I got a note with really gross, intimidating, sexual content, and I'm only 14. I'm semi-religious.
I was so sad, I almost cried when I saw my best guy friend. He comforted me, and I felt really.. its hard to explain.. happy.
Later that day, I got an email from my guy friend (he never checks his emails, hes pretty much an unsocial boy who's very nerdy) saying really sweet things. I was so happy because he was the first one who emailed me about that. He's like the first friend who cares about me deeply, even in the inside. (most of my friends care about me just on the outside.)
I used to have a crush on my guy freind last year, and now all I want is him to be there for me the whole time, well, he is right now, but I want to be more than freinds with him.
What do I do? He's a nerd, and he was never ready for going out or anything.
BTW on the harrassment, I'm telling on my counselor.
2007-11-04 12:13:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, i actually still have the note.. for proof.
2007-11-04 12:22:30 · update #1
i'm sorry, but your story is so sad! I feel soo sorry for you! I know that if guys harassed me like that, i would immediately have told my school counselor too! i mean, you should have saved the note...to give to them. And, your guy friend sounds really sweet. I've read so many of those cute teen stories where the two guy/girl friends eventually fall in love at the end...I wish the best for the both of you. and, if you like him , and he's such a GREAT guy, go for it. Ask him though, if you said that he's so shy.
2007-11-04 12:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strong word for a 14 year old to be using. He may see you as someone he can trust. Has he been made fun of before? If he sees you struggling, going through the same thing he does, he may feel that he sees something in you that he likes. He may like you as more then a friend, and may try something, but, let him take the lead, He seems to be comfortable with being your friend for now. Don't force anything on him. Take it slow.
2007-11-04 20:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lexc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋