we just started again about a week ago. He said he was soo happy to hear from me..we talked for about 4 hours straight on msn just about everything that was going on with our lives..he told me he had a new gf that he just started dating a month ago and it didnt bother me what so ever we didnt really discuss that much..he even said he wanted to hang out again since he hadnt seen me for awhile. But then just today on msn he tells me that he doesnt think we should talk anymore because he was talking to some of his friends about it and they didnt agree with it because he has a new gf. It actually really hurt my feelings..soo do any of you have any ideas why he could have totally changed his mind in a matter of a day? Im really confused
2007-11-04 09:38:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to see his reactions as being a consequence of his feelings. THEN maybe it'll make some sense. Realize feelings for a person don't typically disapper, we just sort of forget the intensity of the feelings. Its also a consequence of the fact that no matter what we don't forget people that scar us(my term for . So he can't forget you hunnie, but he did forget how INTENSILY he felt for you, being re-reminded of that, scared him away from you. It happens all the time. Theres ways around this but it requires alot at of the individuals envolved which is more then society has taught us..... sorry a consequence of love hunnie, but trust it was BECAUSE he felt for you that its happening this way, for that you should feel special......
2007-11-05 04:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋