okee dokee so idk what i should do ( i'm 14 he's 16 just to let you know)
the guy i like supposably doesn't like me ....... well thats what my freind said because she asked him but he FLIRTS like crazy , he calls me "baby" , we make plans to hang out , we talk everyday on aim , on the phone ........ and some reason he knows just what to say and when to say It , he makes me laugh ...... but the thing is is that he's only into sex ya know that stuff .... and he asked if i would have sex with him and all that so i said yes and blah blah blah .... but i don't get it he says he only wants to be friends but then why does he want to have sex with me all the ttime??? confused much?? idk though i need help!! and everbody says i need to forget him but some of you know how hard it is to just forget about someone you care so much about......UHH help me please!
2007-11-04 08:57:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only 14 and already giving it up to some guy? How sad.
I suggest you kick him to the curb now and close your damn legs. You're too young and too immature to be having sex. This guy is doing nothing more than taking advantage of free as*.
2007-11-04 09:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE don't do that...you're going to have sex at some point in time, but try to hold out for someone that holds you in very high regard (not someone crass enough to ask for sex upon just getting to know you). You won't believe this at all, but it's true: the longer you wait, the more rewarding the experience is likely to be for you. I get it that you care a great deal about this guy, but you should give yourself to someone who returns that level of caring back to you...this is one of those situations where you should accept no substitutes. Why? Because sex is a lot more complicated than the physical act itself; it has emotional fallout and potential consequences that can alter your future and derail your plans. We're physically able to have sex (that is, perform the act) with our bodies long before we have the emotional maturity to handle it with our minds...keep that in mind.
2007-11-04 17:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋