2007-11-04 07:08:27 · 15 answers · asked by alfonsobaseball 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is your both ready then i dont see a problem with it but if ur religious or anything like then wait but talk to her about and see how she feels
2007-11-04 07:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex doesn't ruin relationships. People that don't know how to act ruins relationships. Think about your intentions. If it's the relationship, talk about sex w/ her before doing it. Discuss your intentions and why you're having sex.
Someone has posted that sex is tied to a number of emotions. I agree. So forcing yourself to wait until you are married is just putting off a very emotional subject until there's nothing you can do about it. (Except divorce, and who wants to go through that?)
In summary... be mature.
2007-11-04 07:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until your married. If not you probably will ruin the relationship. Sex is linked to way to many emotions to mess with.
2007-11-04 07:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are having those thoughts, its probably not the right time to have sex yet. Dont rush it. Sex should add to the relationship, and the time is right when both parties are in agreement. Let it ride for awhile.
If you are under 18 you should be waiting anyway.
2007-11-04 07:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by missourim43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, in my oppinion Uhh... if I loved my boyfriend enough to go to the next level then yeah i would want my bf to have sex with me!!! Now the question is do you love that much or is just that you want to get into her pants!?!?!?
Trust me on this cause I'm not a virgin, i know tis stuff!
2007-11-04 07:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wait.... makes it more exciting when it happens... yes sometimes sex ruins a relationship
2007-11-04 07:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by *Nikki* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. It is so rare to find a girl FRIEND that it will be ruined if you go boom boom. if you are really attracted to her then ok but not if you want to be friends and she wants to have sex with u
2007-11-04 07:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me talk from experience....Wait until you are married it will make the moment special for you and your spouse. Not to mention you would not have to worry about diseases and teenage pregnancy. So wait and enjoy the friendship for now.
2007-11-04 07:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Karyn W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready to have sex tell her, I'm sure she'll understand. If you've been dating for a long time then, well, she might not understand. Just tell her how your feeling.
2007-11-04 07:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having sex doesn't ruin relationships...it's NOT having sex that can.
2007-11-04 07:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋