me and my ex were in love...to the point where we were even thinking about marriage. but i have a bad temper and i pushed him away. he's with someone else now, but i really dnt know what to do. we're not talking right now. i don't know if i should talk to him and appologize or just ignore him and listen to that saying "if you love it let t go" . please help me
and for all you horoscope fanatics, i'm a gemini(may 31) and he's a leo (aug 6)
2007-11-04 07:05:34 · 10 answers · asked by *tremble. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
btw, it's only been like 2 weeks since we broke up, so i feel like he's on the rebound.... i think i'm going to talk to him about it when i see him.
i really do plan to change my attitude.
2007-11-04 08:58:27 · update #1
How long have you been apart? How long has he been with someone else?
Are you sure your temper is the only thing that pushed you two apart?
I am thinking if he really loved you, he would not have gone on to someone else, but rather, got you to get help for yourself(it is available..anger management) and make things work between you and him.
I suppose you could apologize for your end of things, maybe tell him you are willing to get help for this temper, and see what happens from there.
2007-11-04 07:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is get some help for your temper.Otherwise it doesnt matter if he comes crawling back to you, or you find someone else, you'll end up in the same boat again hon.
Once you get that temper under control THEN worry about your love life.
2007-11-04 15:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say let him go and dont bring up the past. He has moved on and it will just cause problems. Now just work on yourself. I am also a gemini and do that a lot in past relationships, get to close and just push them till they leave. Am not sure if it has to do with star sign but have done that my whole life.
2007-11-04 15:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your ex for a reason.. and if you have a bad temper and keep pushing I'm away can he handle it in the future and will u guys get a divorce becuase of this? will he still love you even with all of your bad habits? if you think it's your fault apologize.
2007-11-04 15:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ithink that love isnt the only reason that holds two person together...other than this there are many things that shouldnot be overlooked before taking decission like this(example how both of u react to each others emotions and etc etc...)..
if u think that your temper is the only reason..then apologize.
but before that be sure with urself first that it wont be repeated by you...then only it will be worth it....otherwise let him go to find someone with whom he is compatible and happy...
and u will find that somewhere you will be happy too..
2007-11-04 15:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you stay with a man that had a bad temper? didn't think so.
Nobody wants to be with someone that treats them bad. If you were to contact him just apologize and leave it alone.
2007-11-04 15:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he moved on and is not bothering you.. You can appologize if it makes you feel better..but until you change your temper, then what is the insentive of him wanting to go back to you?
2007-11-04 15:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by happy2bloved2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys don't like to be pushed around and can't take drama sometimes. so if it happens once they might not want it to happen again. try calling him and see what happens. but other than that u should leave him alone because he is with someone else.
2007-11-04 15:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll appreciate the apology. If he's with someone else already and HE hasn't made the effort to get in touch with you, hen, it's obvious he's moved on. Love and learn.
2007-11-04 15:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by WordsWorth_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say apoligize.
2007-11-04 15:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Unique*$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋